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Harsh truths & actionable strategies. Human Behaviorist

16/12/2025

If accountability feels like an attack,
victimhood has become their identity.

Knowing why they do the actions prevents being emotionally activated.

15/12/2025

Manipulative victimhood has many faces but these three are a standard part of the script.

They want attention and engagement but don’t be the one to give it to them. No need to get activated by the person who used to get away with it.

13/12/2025

They have a story in their mind you have to fit in. When you don’t, you are the bad one. The selfish cold one. Don’t try to be right. You can be right or you can be happy.

They are committed to making you the bad guy and be great at it.

12/12/2025

The perpetual victim mentality script. They don’t want to grow they want to continue to have you rescue them. They don’t want direction, they want attention.

See it for what it is. Don’t try to make it make sense. You are under no obligation to rescue them.

11/12/2025

People don’t guilt-trip because they “care.”
They guilt-trip because they want control.

You are allowed to have needs.
You are allowed to have boundaries.
You are allowed to walk away from emotional manipulation.

(share this with someone who’s healing 👇)

10/12/2025

Don’t allow anyone to use their bad day or emotional instability against you to garner sympathy or create excuses.

You are not their emotional dumping ground so stop taking on that role. Be the bad guy who is insensitive.

09/12/2025

Some people aren’t looking for healing —
they’re looking for permission to stay hurt.

If you keep trying to help someone who refuses growth…
you will drown in the rescue.

Protect your peace.
Your healing doesn’t require their participation.

08/12/2025

People don’t like when your boundaries or peace doesn’t align with their convenience. You can only feel guilty if you allow yourself to.

You gotta put the responsibility back on them to face their ego. Don’t engage in their game.

06/12/2025

“You’re so hard to love” is a script when you aren’t crumbling at their attempts to guilt you. You aren’t making them comfortable so you have be to the issue.

You’re not too hard to love you’re not in the right places.

05/12/2025

They love the audience. They don’t want solutions the want attention. They want to be the victim so they don’t have to do the inner work.

Don’t allow yourself to get sucked into their manipulation. They can live in victim mentality isn solitude. Don’t feed the attention.

04/12/2025

You can drown trying to rescue someone
who’s holding onto their pain like identity.

When accountability feels like betrayal,
growth feels like treason.

Not everyone wants solutions.
Some want sympathy — without change.
Some want witnesses — not healing.
Some want you to support the wound — not the recovery.

You don’t have to live in the story they won’t leave.

If you’ve carried someone who refused to walk,
comment **NOT MY BURDEN**.

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