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Harsh truths & actionable strategies. Human Behaviorist

17/06/2025

Staying in a relationship because you have guilt will breed resentment.

Energy can’t be faked but actions and words can. So even if you are staying for kids, vows or some other reason, the effect will be opposite for you.

You are allowed to be your priority and if you feel as though you are checked out but stay, you will be resentful in the long run.

❓Have you ever felt guilty for leaving but found joy of reclaiming yourself?

10/06/2025

Guilt is a conditioned response not a fact. When you’re doing something that someone doesn’t agree with or they want a different outcome. They will try to manipulate the situation to let you know that they approve you and if you don’t, they’ll make you feel guilty or attempted to change it.

You are never wrong for choosing yourself ever. When someone calls you selfish rude or they tell you they’re disappointed you know that you’re doing something well. It might feel weird in the beginning, but you have to keep pushing through because you must ask yourself. Are you more important than their comfort and get real cozy with being uncomfortable and letting go of that guilt.

06/06/2025

Read that again.

Respect that only shows up after you raise your voice isn’t real.
It’s not your tone they have a problem with—it’s your assertiveness.

You shouldn’t have to fall apart for people to finally listen.
You shouldn’t have to snap just to be heard.

If someone only takes you seriously when you’re on the edge,
they never respected you—
they managed you.

Drop a 🔥 if that hit a nerve.

03/06/2025

If you don’t like it, it’s up to you 100% to focus on changing it.

You can’t focus on what you think you should be and start from there when you’ve never been there in the first place.

If you’re not committed to doing the hard work, accepting that that might be all by yourself, not needing an audience or holding onto victim mentality, you will never change.

Once you accept that no one else cares that you meet your goals or that you win at the game of life that you’re trying to play you reach a whole new superpower.

29/05/2025

Stop with the “what about how they feel” nonsense. You are not responsible for their feelings or reactions to your life, choices and direction.

Anytime you put their feelings over your peace and growth you give them the illusion they control how you live.

I don’t care how you got here with people pleasing, you are grown now and deserve to work through all that BS you were programmed with.

27/05/2025

Disappointing people and not meeting their expectations while being the villain is amazing. It allows you to see where you have been emotionally spent most of your life.

You have been programmed to make yourself last or assume responsibility for someone else’s feelings.

NEVER feel guilty for being your biggest priority. Why do you care about “losing” people for the sake of having them when they don’t accept your choices and boundaries? Start your work there.

22/05/2025

You become happy when you stop betraying yourself to stay likable, comfortable, or busy.
Happiness isn’t a high — it’s nervous system safety.
It’s not “good vibes only.” It’s aligned choices daily.
And if your peace is constantly disrupted… it’s time to stop performing calm and start protecting it.

Your nervous system deserves more than your coping skills. It deserves your commitment.

21/05/2025

✅You belong in every room you walk into.

The only person who keeps you out is you. It’s always you versus you.

20/05/2025

You didn’t set the boundary to be understood. You set it to be at peace.

The people who respect you won’t need paragraphs.
The ones who push back?
They’re not confused—they’re entitled.

You don’t need to keep proving your right to protect your own energy.

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