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28/11/2025

They don’t want resolution and clarity, they want control and ego soothing.

When you start distancing from people’s power to control the narrative, these are typical scripts they will play out. Pay attention to their actions and don’t get activated.

27/11/2025

Manipulators hate clarity and confidence. They thrive on confusion and will try many different ways to do so.

Your goal here is to be as clear and non passive as possible. Stay calm and deactivated… they hate that.

26/11/2025

Emotional blackmail becomes the script they go to because it worked. It worked to guilt you. It worked to make you feel responsible for them. It all worked.

You are not now or ever responsible for their growth or emotions. They won’t like it and that doesn’t matter.

25/11/2025

Holiday guilt trips are plentiful and can show up throughout the year. Do not let anyone use the holidays as leverage for you to do what they expect.

When people truly care, they don’t want you to be in situations that create discomfort for you to coddle their own expectations.

24/11/2025

Weaponizing holidays is a standard practice for people who thrive on guilt and control in general.

They want access when it hasn’t been earned and they want you to feel the obligation while they disguise it as love and tradition.

22/11/2025

Get assertive! They don’t have to stay around and you never beg them to. Boundaries help eliminate the people who need to leave so you can free space for those who align.

“You’re breaking up families”.. You will hear that too. That means breaking the cycle they wanted you to stay in.

Do NOT allow yourself to be pulled into the circus they are trying to create be the guilt, the control, the manipulation...
22/11/2025

Do NOT allow yourself to be pulled into the circus they are trying to create be the guilt, the control, the manipulation and keeping the score.

You are NOT obligated to engage or accept their victim mentality.

21/11/2025

Do not engage with the anxious attachment of people who try to love you more so you can love them more.

Get assertive. When you are out you are out. Don may stay (any relationship) because you worry about their feelings. You will give them false hope and be miserable yourself.

People are not obligated to have access to you because they refuse to work through their victim mentality. Don’t ration...
21/11/2025

People are not obligated to have access to you because they refuse to work through their victim mentality.

Don’t rationalize it because they “have been through a lot”, they are banking on your attention. You are not helping, you are enabling.

Don’t fall for the manipulation.

20/11/2025

You only care about others opinions when you have no idea who you are. You rely on them to tell you and validate you.

You are responsible for YOU. You are responsible for your growth and learning who you are and what you like. Stop allowing them to continue to mold your life.

19/11/2025

Address it assertively. Stop being afraid to be the jerk or mean. Stop resisting being misunderstood or judged. Those things will absolutely happen so don’t allow yourself to get sucked into their trap.

19/11/2025

This is a script you WILL hear as you start saying no to things that pull you out of your peace.

It has to be YOU that needs to figure it out. It has to be YOU that forces yourself to do what they want.

Why would you ever want people like this in your life for the sake of having people?

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