Soul Refiner

02/06/2025

27/03/2025

Celebrating Darlene – A Quiet Hero

Today, we say goodbye to someone who has been the heart and soul of our customer care team for nearly seven years—Darlene Jordan.

Darlene didn’t start in customer service. She began in shipping, but when the opportunity opened, she jumped right in without hesitation. Then, when we launched Soul Refiner in 2020, she quickly adapted, becoming tech-savvy almost overnight. But her true gift has never been in systems or logistics—it’s been in serving people with love and grace.

For years, Darlene has been on the frontlines, answering your calls, listening to your stories, and carrying your burdens. She’s prayed with you, cried with you, and celebrated with you. She’s been a steady voice of kindness and encouragement, even when the job wasn’t easy. Some men called, frustrated and impatient, looking for a quick fix—but Darlene always met them with compassion, patience, and truth. Even the men who, out of their own wounds, were unkind to her, she never let bitterness take root. Instead, she left those conversations with a heart full of compassion, praying for them and entrusting them to God.

The world often overlooks the quiet heroes, the ones who serve faithfully behind the scenes. But we see you, Darlene. You’ve been faithful—to God, this ministry, and every single person you’ve helped along the way.

Today is her last day. If Darlene has ever prayed with you, encouraged you, or made you feel seen, let her know. She deserves to hear it.

Darlene, we love you, we appreciate you, and we will miss you deeply. Your legacy here will last far beyond today. Now go enjoy your well-earned adventure!

With love,
The Soul Refiner Team

25/04/2024

“No corporation should profit from or facilitate s*xual exploitation.”

This is the firm stand being taken by The National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE), a leading non-profit organization seeking to eradicate s*x trafficking. They recognize that corporations are what drive today’s society. They influence the information received and the fashion standard set among this generation.
These corporations even influence the words and body language used to communicate with...

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The National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) staunchly opposes corporations profiting from s*xual exploitation, advocating for change through initiatives like The Dirty Dozen List, which exposes companies promoting po*******hy and s*x trafficking. While some corporations have improved their po...

27/03/2024

Boundaries are critical to our emotional, physical, and spiritual health. They represent our personal “property lines.” Boundaries define who we are, what we are willing to do or not do, and what we will tolerate. They set a standard for what we value, believe, feel, and need. Boundaries develop identity, self-awareness, and personal responsibility.

Setting and following boundaries provides a way to live our lives undistracted, depleted, confused, or insecure so that we can...

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The post emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries for emotional, physical, and spiritual health. It discusses how boundaries define personal values and protect individuals from enabling toxic behaviors. Using examples from Jesus's teachings, it underscores the need to establish boundaries to....

13/03/2024

The pain of betrayal is something that is not commonly understood, until you’ve walked the journey.

There are so many unanswered questions that swirl through one’s mind when a husband’s infidelity and p**n addiction is first discovered. And often, this experience leaves women feeling isolated and...

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The pain of betrayal is something that is not commonly understood, until you’ve walked the journey. There are so many unanswered questions that swirl through one’s mind when a husband’s infidelity and p**n addiction is first discovered...

15/02/2024

Those struggling to break free from p**n experience shame and the esteem-crushing impact of their ongoing battle with s*xual material. In their p**n use, they have become experts at secrecy, deception, and lying. They also make many excuses to justify their usage. Especially to themselves.

To truly find freedom, these men have to...

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Those struggling to break free from p**n experience shame and the esteem-crushing impact of their ongoing battle with s*xual material. In their p**n use they have become experts at secrecy, deception, and lying...

06/02/2024

P**n use is not a harmless activity that only involves the person viewing the material. It impacts the man’s family, social life, employment, relationship with God, and every other aspect of his life.

Ultimately, the harm done to a marriage relationship is one of the most devastating effects of...

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P**n use is not a harmless activity that only involves the person viewing the material. It impacts the man’s family, social life, employment, relationship with God, and every other aspect of his life...

02/02/2024

Every day, we’re at war with the enemy. He desires to steal, kill, and destroy and is ultimately after our souls. But because it’s not enough for him to win us over, he attempts to deploy methods that will also defeat our marriages and families. One of the most powerful weapons he uses is the perversion of s*xuality.

Because of this arsenal attack, it will require...

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Every day, we’re at war with the enemy. He desires to steal, kill, and destroy and is ultimately after our souls. But because it’s not enough for him to win us over...

23/01/2024

The Bible leaves no uncertainty that a man needs to be the spiritual leader in his home. This is an awesome responsibility and one that creates much anxiety for many men, especially those struggling with p**n.

Perhaps you never had a loving father as a role model, and in fact he was mentally or physically abusive to you. And maybe you didn’t have...

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The Bible leaves no uncertainty that a man needs to be the spiritual leader in his home. This is an awesome responsibility and one that creates much anxiety for many men, especially those struggling...

20/12/2023

The current issue facing our society can be a trap if we do not realize we are in a battle.

With more and more people now having to stay at home, the reality of boredom and easy access to the computer in private can create a trigger storm. It is imperative that during this time you continue to remain diligent in your accountability.

We strongly suggest you have your guard up and make sure you are...

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When are men more likely to view p**n? Current issue facing our society can be a trap if we do not realize we are in a battle. With more and more people now having to stay at home...

15/12/2023

Well, I rolled into October with unbridled confidence that "Operation: Make Christmas Great Again" for my kiddos would go down in history as the most epic Christmas…ever. Unapologetically, the Christmas decor was pulled from my garage a week before Thanksgiving.

Like a Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy on crack, I pirouetted through the house, stuffing pinecones and jingle bells in every nook and cranny. I was well on my way with...

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The author begins with enthusiasm for a grand Christmas celebration but confesses to the overwhelming stress and anxiety that accompanies the elaborate plans. Reflecting on childhood experiences, they share how Christmas became a trigger for emotional responses and a way to recreate a sense of peace...

14/12/2023

The role of a mom and dad has always been vital to the well-being of a child.

But that role has taken on a new level of intensity with the proliferation of s*xually explicit content. What was once only available after driving to the local convenience store can now be accessed, often free of charge, with the click of a mouse.

If you are breathing, you’ve....

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The role of a mom and dad has always been vital to the well-being of a child. But that role has taken on a new level of intensity with the proliferation of s*xually explicit content...