09/07/2025
Some of y’all swear you’re emotionally intelligent… but can’t intelligently communicate a single damn emotion.
You feel something—but can’t explain it. You get triggered—but can’t trace the root. And instead of working through it, you hit folks with, “I’m setting a boundary.” 🙄 Be for real.
We live in a world where:
👉🏾 Emotional avoidance is now called “healing”
👉🏾 Self-centered egos are labeled “self-love”
👉🏾 And “I don’t feel safe” is just code for “I don’t want to be challenged.”
Communication only happens when it’s easy. But let somebody ask you to unpack your feelings or see beyond your own perspective—suddenly you shut down, disappear, or play victim.
This is why so many of y’all only function in isolation.
Not because you’re “protecting your peace”… but because you lack the communication, reasoning, and emotional maturity to coexist with people who don’t enable your BS.
Let me say it plain:
If you can’t communicate through discomfort, you are not ready for real connection.
If challenge feels like an attack, your growth is performative.
If boundaries are your go-to excuse to avoid reflection—you ain’t evolving, you’re just hiding.
But hey…
Keep gaslighting yourself.
It’s the only person still falling for it. 💅🏾
