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When we were children, we were fascinated by the wonderment of many things around us which prompted us to ask relentless questions such as why, why, and why. Now that we are adults, many of us tend to be reticent about asking what we want to know. Therefore, our podcast (Your Lot and Parcel) is designed to encourage questions if not already answered regarding anything and everything related to the

real estate industry and, a wide range of subjects regarding a family’s lot in life of ups and downs, which is part and parcel of what makes this world turn on its axis. I feel morally obligated to share my empirical experience in the real estate industry not to mention the experience of other professionals by means of interviews. I came into the business as a Real Estate Broker at the latter part of Jimmy Carter’s presidency when inflation had reached “crisis stage”; both inflation and short-term interest rates reached 18% during 1980. Ever since it has been a wild ride, however, currently I am a member of the National Association of Mortgage Underwriters (NAMU). In short, I have seen it all and interested in helping the consumer to avoid the pitfalls of purchasing or selling a little piece of this God given earth. As a child I did not enjoy falling and skinning my knees, so my intent with the show is to help anyone to prevent a knee scathing from a real estate financial standpoint, and to mitigate the challenges of the inextricable connection of family and home.

01/06/2024

Rain and Then Some

What if we had beautiful sunny days throughout the year which many would find delightful? But wait a minute, not so fast, you would end with a veritable desert on the level of Death Valley Ca! Indisputably, we need April showers for May flowers for many reasons which are innumerable to mention, but it is sufficient to say, it is for the survival of every living organism and, yes, it includes you and me. Incidentally, Do you love the smell of rain?
We will address this question and then some later in this article. However, in Your Lot and Parcel Podcast, we will soon be discussing the benefits of rain that you may find amazing of which I will share a few of them with you in this blog.
First, did you know the formation and color of clouds can assist you to forecast the probability of rain?
If you see (a tall, billowing cloud that looks like it was shaved off at the top), referred as cumulonimbus cloud, or (a low horizontal hanging grayish colored cloud) referred as nimbostratus cloud, you can be positive that showers are in the offing within a 24-hour period. So, never mind the meteorologist, just stick your weary sleepy head out the window first thing in the morning for a forecast.
Interestingly, who would have thought that Antarctica, although as we know is blanketed with ice, but it only gets 6.5 inches of rain or snow annually, making this continent with the least yearly rainfall by far. However, On the opposite of the spectrum, Lloro, which incidentally and appropriately, means (crying) in Colombia, receives more than 500 inches of precipitation per year. Comparatively, North America is relatively arid by contrast, accumulating only 256 inches of water annually.
When we think of raindrops, we are often limited to just thinking in terms of what happens on this God given earth. But did you know that on the planet Venus, and other moons and other celestial bodies, rain is composed of sulfuric acid or methane? However, a more of a head scratcher, on a planet about 5,000 light years away, incidentally, 1 light year =, 5,878,606,438,399.75 miles, you do the math and spare me the migraine, Astronomers discovered raindrops made of iron instead of the wet stuff we are familiar with.
You never know while doing research what you will stumble into. For instance, this story will get you running to the medicine cabinet for an anti-nauseous pill! One evening , on a spring day in 1876, a very odd thing happened in Olympia Springs, Kentucky. While the farmer’s wife was outside making homemade soap when suddenly nugget of raw meat, a few of them a little more than three inches in diameter, started showering down all around her. As reporters descended on the farm, with great trepidation tasted the meat and concluded that it was either deer meat or mutton. This gruesome mystery went unsolved for months as investigators argued the causes of the carnivorous shower. ultimately, one medical doctor came to the most reasonable conclusion. The meat shower was the result of vulture vomit. So happens Vultures are known to vomit to lighten their bodies for more efficient flight and as a defense mechanism which would make me high tail it out of there for "deer" life. Talking of being in the wrong place at the wrong time!
Hmm, having related this story to you, could it simply amount to how these vultures feel about us misbehaved humans? Why do I ask? My dad tells the story of when he was a youngster capturing a vulture before it took flight. Is this possible? Have you ever heard of that? I am here to tell you that I have seen it. They tend to bounce and stretch two or three times to build momentum to spring to flight since they are not small birds by any means. It was during this process of bouncing, my dad was able to get ahold of one and he proceeded to put his own shirt onto it before he released it, yes, his decorum was not of acceptable social norms for a youngster and please don’t hold it against me. I wonder, what happened in this small town, is it a gesture of how vultures feel about us badly behaved humans?
Have you ever heard of copious tadpoles dropping down from the heavens onto roofs tops, in open fields, and throughout the landscape? In June 2009, many folks in Japan had a strange experience. One homeowner discovered that thirteen carp had fallen on top and around his vehicle and no one had a clue where this rain of aquatic critters came from. But the consensus was that the fish, toads, and tadpoles, were swept up into a waterspout, which are frequent seasonal occurrences in the area. As the whirlpool moves over the body of water, it sucks the creatures up and transferred them through the upper atmosphere until they showered down on unsuspecting folks like you and me on the ground.
Speaking of strange occurrences, not too long ago, I heard an unusual loud slam on my front door that I immediately thought someone was kicking the door in. To my surprise, however, it was a crow that got somehow disorientated and almost knocked a hole on my front door. It is superfluous to say, The bird did not survive.
Apparently, bird confusion is caused by meteorological conditions, however, bird rains are the effect of something much easier to understand. For example, such as extremely Loud blasts, therefore, causing bemusement or confusion and proceed to crash into things. Incidentally, this was exactly what took place in Arkansas. Supposedly, during New Year’s Eve a display of fireworks frightened a flock of birds into flight. Disoriented, these birds flew into homes, buildings, trees, vehicles, causing at least five thousand of them to tragically fall onto the ground.
In case you are a bug lover, you will enjoy the following account. Of course, I am being facetious. If the thought of tens of thousands of spiders falling from heaven is enough to send you running out of Dodge for the hills, I might suggest you sit this one out. Like's Ripley's says it, "believe it or not," down under in Australia, spider rains often occur. Evidently, This is a method and a creative way of spiders taking a sky trip referred as “ballooning.”
These spiders that can balloon, climb to the canopy of the tallest trees in their given area, and then efficiently spin strands of silk as a bedding that permits them to be lifted by a stiff breeze. Typically, ballooning is not something that is obvious to us humans, however, occasionally, because of unusually damp weather or other not too auspicious climate conditions, occasionally, spider ballooning incidents by the millions take to the skies looking for more favorable weather. In Australia, this occurred as recent as in the year 2012 and 2015. When these spider rains happen, homeowners exclaim that it looks like snowfall because of the tremendous widespread display of the web as they slowly drift down. After reading this, does this make your skin crawl? No pun intended!
Let’s get back to something some of us can handle a little better. Did you know there is a logical reason we love the smell of rain?
Of course, water does not have a smell, so why do showers emanate a pleasant aroma after a rainfall? Simply because of a molecule, called geosmin, produce by soil-dwelling bacteria. When we experience a rain, it creates air pockets, which contain lesser amounts of this molecule, then these air pockets are released which disperses geosmin into the environment, thus the aroma we enjoy referred to as Petrichor.
Have you ever said, "I felt a rain drop?" Surprisingly, it is not in the shape of a "drop."
Research has discovered that rain is not in the form of a teardrop. When water molecules condense and stick together before hitting the ground, they form more of a rounded shape. However, as they fall, rain meets up with air pressure, flattening the bottom of the rain drops, so ultimately they end up looking more like a hamburger bun when it hits your unsuspected head. Speaking of which, how do you get less wet in the rain?
Scientifically, it has been shown that you can get less wet when it rains. It is called "run!". A mathematician in 1976 explains, the sooner you get out of the rainfall, the less wet you will be, despite the additional droplets you run into. How much less? Only 10 per cent less, not sure it is worth the trouble. Why not instead enjoy it by singing in the rain?
Allow me to leave you with this ponderous thought. "Is it not true? Without rain, nothing will grow! Therefore, philosophically speaking, learn to embrace all the rainstorms that come your way in life, and you too will grow in so many distinct levels!"

05/01/2024

Can You Change Your Personality?

If I were to ask you whether your personality has changed in retrospect, from 40 years ago, or 30, 20 or the last 10 years, do you see a notable change in your personality? Invariably, if we were to answer this question honestly, we would unequivocally say "yes."
Ironically, though, most of us cannot see ourselves changing much at all if we were to project ourselves into the future, but the fact is, we will change based on whatever we experience or by solidifying our core values. In this article, I will share whatever it’s worth, my personal observation and research on changing our personality for the better. And Incidentally, I am not advocating a new year’s resolution since they do not provide sustainability.
During 2023, Your Lot and Parcel Podcast covered many topics on making changes in life, and I would encourage you to browse the many episodes. Allow me to begin to ask, what personality type are you? Are you happy with how others would define you? The bottom line, Our demeanor is hinged on habits and our decision making. When you make a conscious decision to behave in a certain way over a span of time, lo and behold it will become an engrained habit.
Neurologists have discovered that people who display virtuous positive personality behavior such as "compassion and sincerity" will become an intrinsic part of their personality. So, changing how we consistently respond to experiences is the way to create the new you. Of course, creating a new habit or eliminating any undesirable habit is not an easy task, it takes being resolute and it takes time. However, with enough personal application, these new patterns of demeanor, neuroplastic patterns, will eventually become who you are, and it will become second nature.
It is a matter of challenging Your Beliefs, in other words, if your core belief is that you cannot change, then the mindset is set, you will not change. For example, If you are trying to become more of an extrovert or more outgoing, but in your heart you believe that your introversion or taciturn manner is permanent , a fixed attitude, then this will hold you back from becoming more gregarious or sociable. But if you are convinced that your behavioral traits can change, you will tend to be inclined to become more sociable or even the life of the party.
Unfortunately, some of us tend to paint ourselves into a corner by labeling who we think we are, for example, like being shy and reserved. And guess what? You will be just that, it becomes a self-fulfillment! This kind of attitude will continue to influence the way you experience the world that surrounds you. If we think of ourselves as demure and reticent, you will deprive yourself of establishing any interaction with that interesting person you just met. My encouragement is Let go of all of what is holding you back and think in terms of yourself as being fluid, constantly changing as a complex person that you are, we cannot afford to be broken down into a single or two types of labels. If you perceive yourself as an uninteresting person, or a musician, an athletic person, or whatever you think of yourself subconsciously, this is what you will continue to be. If you want to influence your perspective, we must discard any undesirable preconceptions about ourselves. We must understand that everything changes over time, no matter what it is, so instead think in terms of a work in progress, nothing is cut and dry, everything is a spectrum and once we realize that many possibilities will avail themselves to you.
Dare to question your negative thinking whenever they crop up, because if you find yourself thinking you cannot perform a certain task, the likelihood is you will not. So, when the negative inner voice starts screaming at you, tell it to shut up, and push back until it does. Always fight back your condemning thoughts by means of searching your heart and questioning why you think and feel this way can help you make positive changes. For instance, if you are taking an exam and you begin thinking, “I am not sure about passing this test,” challenge those thoughts by asking yourself, “is this the first test I have ever taken in my life?” "I prepared for this exam and have taken many exams before." Make sure to push back hard on these unproductive thoughts until they dissipate!
What can also be a real game changer, is to Express gratitude first thing in the morning. Demonstrating gratitude by word or deed every day will help you cultivate feelings of optimism. When you wake up from your slumber, list at least 3 things that you are grateful for in your life. Many times, we trudge throughout the day in autopilot or going through the usual motions, why not go out of your usual activity to let someone know that you have been thinking of them by giving them a phone call, in person or an uncomplicated text? I think that many of us just do not say "thank you" enough during the day, but in doing so, the happier you will be, and it will come through in your desired behavior.
Research is incontrovertible, it has shown that when we increase showing thankfulness, the virtue of trust will become more of your character, including admiration from others, and you will find immense pleasure in life. If you want to experience happiness, this is one of the key components to lasting contentment!
If you grapple or struggle with doing this assiduously or regularly, make a written note of it. Even if it may feel a little tacky, nonetheless, writing it down every time can and will make it easier for you to commit to change.
One way to remediate or mitigate how you feel is to participate in activities that you have no idea about or any notion thereof. You will be pleasantly surprised to discover something new about your inner self, it will enhance your existence with a new experience and will enrich your new personality. Whatever you decide to do, just make sure it is brand spanking new to you.
A real deterrent to personal growth is not letting go of any grievance or anger that you carry within. If you’ve are carrying negative baggage buried deep inside, it’s going to be almost impossible to move forward into a place of joy. I ask myself, who wants to be the fish at the end of the hook being controlled by someone? Sincerely, reaching deep inside your heart for forgiveness is your antidote for curing the anger that is poisoning your spiritual and emotional growth. You cannot move forward unless you lance that festering anger!
The secret to forgiveness is to recognize the damage and reconcile yourself with it. Please understand you are not doing yourself any good by wasting a colossal amount of energy on the pain you experienced many years ago. You can start to heal by telling others you forgive them and by moving on will be a real relief, you will not be weighed down anymore. If you find you cannot break yourself loose from this inner resentment, it may be time for you to consult someone qualified to help you sort things out.
If you find this behavior changing business a bit too hard, you need to set aside some down time to relax and forget everything for a moment. Your conscious effort to show gratefulness, forming new habits, can be exhausting at some point. Allocate time on a regular basis to do literally whatever you need to do to get some rest like Sleeping in, have your favorite dessert, take in a great movie, a bit of socializing, or whatever helps you to relieve any stress. This will give you something off the beaten path to look forward to when you find yourself becoming weary.
Dress and grooming can also be a part of who you are, of course, clothes do not define who you are, but our appearance can be a fun way to express ourselves and influence our personality to who we want to be. Do you want to be a little more brilliant? Why not try some well-fitting smart clothing like a cardigan sweater, a sports jacket instead of anything baggy looking, and you will feel different in how you perceive yourself! Even something as diminutive as wearing a fedora can give you a different outlook, but do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable. A woman can change her hairdo and many other things on her persona that will highlight the new her. Men may decide to sport a mustache or grow a complete beard; however, the caveat is to make sure that it fits you in terms of appearing dignified and with an appearance of respectability.
Try your best to cultivate an optimistic attitude by disseminating goodwill everywhere you go. Be readily available to help family and friends in their need, be self-sacrificing even to strangers by going out of your way to help will make an impression, thus your new personality will become noteworthy by all. Additionally, make it a practice being complimentary and Smile with sincerity everywhere you go, and you will find yourself becoming more naturally pleasing!
once your core belief is intact, your new personality will also be intact.
In the meantime, it is nobody’s business how you really feel inside. What is important here is how you carry on in implementing the new you until it is fully realized. In time, your behavior will start to shape your sincere heart for change. To put it in simpler terms, temporarily fake it until you make it!

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