11/02/2025
If you’re serious about change, start here. Sit with these…
1. Do my goals actually match the changes I’m willing to make?
I know I’m not willing to live a carb-free, kale-eating, sugar-free existence and my goal weight reflects that. I want strength, balance, and joy. I want to be a muscle mommy and feel strong, capable, and confident in my body. I can easily maintain a healthy lb body and feel amazing there but 120 pounds? That would come with restriction, exhaustion, and a life that doesn’t feel like mine.
Be honest with yourself. Does your dream body match your dream life?
2. Am I chasing smaller, or am I chasing better?
So many of us confuse being thin with being happy. Ask yourself, do I want to feel better in my body, or do I just want to take up less space? The energy behind your goals determines whether you feel free or trapped.
3. What stories from my past still shape my relationship with food and fitness?
Maybe you grew up hearing things like “finish your plate” or “you have to earn your treats.”
Those voices don’t just disappear. They follow us quietly into adulthood and influence the way we eat, move, and think.
Noticing them is the first step to changing them.
4. Are my daily actions aligned with the version of me I say I want to become?
Change doesn’t happen in extremes. It happens in consistency. Do your daily choices support your goals, or are you still acting like the person you’re trying to leave behind? You have to change your life to CHANGE your life.
5. Who am I secretly afraid of becoming if I actually succeed?
Do you fear being seen, fear being judged, or fear what happens when you can no longer hide? Whatever it is, name it. When you do, it loses its power over you.
These questions aren’t comfortable, but comfort is rarely where growth happens. The quality of your life, and your body, will always mirror the quality of the questions you’re brave enough to ask yourself.