12/07/2025
Listen, I’m an 80s baby.
For my elder millennials and older you know how important it was to clear your plate, eat what the family was eating, and how exciting getting those Happy Meals were. I was a good girl and did what I was told.
Did it set me up for success? Not necessarily, but I became really good at people pleasing and food brought comfort.
Here are those good girl behaviors that I’m getting rid of to hit those 2026 goals.
1. I don’t have to finish my plate. I make halving a rule. I’ll immediately cut my meal in half and take half of it home to enjoy the next day.
2. I prioritize my food needs before please others. I don’t have to eat what everyone else is eating. I’ve found things for my family to enjoy but if they want fast food I will do my own thing.
3. I say no to friend meet ups that don’t serve me. Coffee dates and taco/margarita dates with friends are my favorite but walking trips can be a lot of fun while not loading up on calories.
4. I’m not following the cardio is king mentality that we were taught. Turns out strength training does way more and enhances calorie burn for a longer duration.
5. Saying yes to everything instead of saying yes to myself. I always prioritized my family, my work, and my friends. Turns out we should be meeting our basic needs first. Let’s go back to Maslow’s Heirarchy of needs, shall we?
6. I don’t skip all the carbs because I’m diabetic. Keep in mind, I work with a dietitian. I balance my carbs but to the people saying I should just do keto, you can back off.
7. I don’t use BMI as a measure of my self-worth. I get it, we’ve been told forever to use BMI as the prime measurement but it’s kind of crap. I’d rather hone in on my right waist to hip ratio, my blood markers, and my muscle mass.
What good girl habit are you skipping for 2026?
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