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Life brings its curves. The strength within rises and transformation to a better you is possible. Life long learner. Everything in life has taught me something.

I take the lesson and grow. Learning to embrace who I am and encourage others to do the same... with this means embracing change to become a better person each day and to make a difference in other lives while doing it. Fly Brave and Beautiful!

27/11/2024

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22/11/2024

WHEN CONTENTMENT HITS

It is such am amazing feeling to be waking up each day with contentment.
Life has calmed.
There is peace.
You look around your home and smile.
When you become thankful for how things have evolved.
Happiness.
Knowing you have made it through some tough stuff, and realize why.
Being so grateful for the people who are no longer in your life.
Realizing what an anchor they were.
Their drama and negativity gone.
Loving yourself enough to have the self awareness of what you allow into your life.
Choosing experiences that bring joy and laughter.
When you look in the rearview mirror and are so glad what was there is gone.
Then the lane change and the windshield is huge and wide open.
Yeah.
Contentment.

🦋 Go Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz💃

21/11/2024

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30/07/2024

GLOW UP

No matter your situation.
No matter how dark it seems.
You are your own light.
Trust yourself.
You got this.

Beauty for Ashes

🦋 Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz💃
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27/07/2024

VILLAIN IN A STORY

When you become the villain in someone's story it is often about them covering what they did and shifting blame.
Their guilt is overwhelming so they make you the bad guy and themselves the victim.
They excuse everything they did and justify it all to self soothe.
They take the easy path and avoid accountability.
Often their friends listen to their side of things and stand by them.
Very normal.
Yet none of them lived inside the home.
None of those friends heard what they lied about and hid.
And it is okay.

When you become the villain in someone's story, you sometimes start to believe it.
You think, Golly. It was my fault.
Then you start to journal.
Do therapy.
Do the hard, hard work.
And learn.
No.
They did not prioritize you.
They did not give you attention.
They neglected.
They did life without you.
They didn't choose you.
They offered silence.
They lacked the capacity.
They lacked emotional intelligence.
They lacked empathy.

In the story of "The Villian", you come to realize you were only asking for bare minimums.
Rock bottom bare minimums.
Sometimes the asking.
The begging.
It escalated to tears.
Other days a raised voice.
And rarely, in complete exhaustion and no support, hysterics.
Mean words escaped.
Normal.

Let them make you the villain.
It is okay.
It's their way of coping.
They lack the ability to be accountable for what they did to hurt you.
They excuse their lies.
They excuse their choices.
They even explain them away like they were good choices.
They were good choices you just fail to grasp.
So it is your fault again.
Blameshifters.
I made those choices because you did this.
Blah.
🤦‍♀️

Be the villain.
Know they wake up everyday with the choices they made.
They have their own journey.
Most refuse therapy.
Most continue in their same patterns and repeat their own vicious cycles.
Let them.
Their next lover will get the same version.
Their masks.
Their cover ups.
Their huge debt.
Their avoidance.
Their insecurities.

Embrace the villain.
The villain is free.
No masks.
Full accountability.
Clean heart.
A loving, empathetic person.
Debt free.
Achieving milestones of health.
Physically, emotionally, mentally.
Growing.
Becoming a new, beautiful version of self.

Their loss.
Their inability.
Their immaturity.
Their illusions.

Ever read a story where in the end the villain wasn't really the villain?
Ha!
Let them believe you are the villain in the story.
If it makes them feel better about themselves, Let them.
And...
Who cares what their friends think?
They made their judgements with zero communication.
Zero attempts to reach out and offer love and support.
Probably because they bought hook, line, and sinker, you were the villain.
Who gives a rats ass?
🤷‍♀️

Switch the narrative.
Wake up every day being the hero of your own story.
Be the friend you know you are.
You have the ability to empathize.
You have the ability to give deeply and offer way more than bare minimums.
You live your life in integrity.
You don't lie and cover things up.
Wrap your arms around people and love them through their dips.
Their losses.
Their hurricanes.
Keep growing.
Keep evolving.
Keep loving yourself so much you become your own hero.
And, other people's hero.

Sometimes.
They make you out to be the villain because they will never ever be the hero.
Making you the villain allows them to embrace the illusion that they were the champions in those chapters.
Let them.

Your book isn't finished.
Time surfaces and reveals the realities.
Go fly bravely.
Go show the world who you are.
You will fly to heights they never could.
A hero.
Not a villain.

Beauty for Ashes

🦋Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz 💃

✍️ By Raz, July 27th, 2024
📸 By Raz, July 26th, 2024

25/07/2024

OUT OF THE WOODWORK

The reality of the healing journey comes with days of deep pain and days of elation.
Beginning in February of this year, I began to crawl out of my cave.

BEFORE THEN
I let myself sit in the darkness and feel whatever the day brought to my heart.
I had hours and days.
My boy was off doing happy things and driving and doing everything teenagers do.
So... my alone time was spent with just myself.
No distractions.
No dating.
No dating sites. (*Still not interested).
No alcohol. (*One drink now and again when out, but mostly lots of water.)
Some healthy moments with friends.
Float trip.
Time with family in California & Arizona.
Visits to Cle Elum to see my brother.
Some Thirty-One Gifts work.
Lots of basketball.
Time with "The Boy" when he was home.

INBETWEEN
In between, my home was empty.
Days alone.
Weeks alone.
I sat in my heartache.
Some days I beat myself up.
Blamed myself.
I was my own punching bag.
Some days I was angry.
Really angry.
I saw red.
Because I was really hurt.
And I was really betrayed.
The mind does tricks.
When you are a human that has the ability to self reflect...
To really take the time to look yourself in the mirror...
To own your own bads...
When you have the capacity to be accountable for your actions...
To sincerely apologize...
It is excruciating.
I certainly wasn't innocent.

THEN
Knowing...
Knowing I fought hard.
Fought to save the marriage.
I came out of my corner.
I offered solutions.
I requested days to spend together.
Reestablishing friendship.
I suggested listing new things to do together.
We only had 4 days a month together alone.
How could we fill it?
He worked out of town.
Two weekends we had "The Boy".
Two weekends without.
Could we take some months to focus on healing together and putting the focus on us for those four days?
We had so many deaths hit us.
Unhappiness at jobs.
Cancer scare.
Surgery.
And lack of time together.
So I begged.
Begged for four days where my wusband would focus on us.
On me.
He merely stared as I spoke.
3 days?
He stared.
2?
Silence?
1?
Nothing.
I sobbed.
Ugly ugly sobbing.
Right in front of him.
He didn't move from his seat.
No comfort.
He finished the five course meal I had prepared.
Went to his chair.
The remainder of the weekend was silent.
No words.
He left Monday morning for his work place 1.5 hours away.
Returned the following Sunday to help get Rennon to school and me to the airport.
Hardwood was being layed throughout the house.
I spent the week moving an entire home out into the garage.
Hired a moving company to get my bigger furniture out.
I was 100% alone and on my own.
And... I knew.
He was gone.

I'M ALIVE
Since February my heart mended enough to peek out of my cave.
I started to see again.
I started to make plans.
I began painting.
Walking.
Seeing friends.
Landscaping.
Traveling.
Cleaning.
Organizing.
Making my home a sanctuary.
Healing more.
Smiling.
Cracking jokes.
I felt Raz returning.
Those that know me well, know I love to be a goofball and laugh.

FRIENDS AND MORE FRIENDS AND THEN MORE
I am overwhelmed by the number of friends who have surrounded me.
Loved me.
Counseled me.
Friends from 40 years ago.
From high school.
From college.
From my schools I taught in.
From communities I have lived.
From Facebook Communities I was apart.
Women I connected with over modern day issues.
Women who did get out of their chairs.
Who saw my pain.
Who offered me comfort.
Who loved me for me.
Who listened.
Who reminded me of who I am.
"Your the whole package baby!"
"Know your worth."
My brother said same, "You're rare, Sis. I wish there were more women out there like you. I might date again. You are the whole package. Hold your head up high. Just because one guy couldn't see it or treat it with love and care, doesn't mean you are less. This has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with who he is and his capacities and his priorities."

TODAY
This gift arrived.
This book. 👇
Lisa surfaced again in my life two days ago.
We taught together.
Her life has always been so inspirational to me.
Her walk of faith.
I asked to talk.
She must have given me two hours on the phone yesterday.
I had a 5 day dip.
The tears flowed for those days.
Tons and tons of tears.
Damnit.
Why?
She loved on me.
She listened to my experience.
The things done to me by a human I loved deeply.
She counseled me.
She prayed for me.
And today.
This arrived. 👇.
Sent by her with love.
She gave me homework too!
My dear educator friend.

MY JOURNEY AND OPENNESS
The healing journey continues.
You are not alone.
I promise.
We all have different stories and different circumstances and different losses.
And it is hard.
I will thrive again.
I know you will too.
Reach out.
I am out of my cave.
I am strong enough to listen and reciprocate what many amazing and strong women have done for me.
A frothy espresso or ice tea or an Arnold Palmer available.

Much 🩷.
Much hope.

Beauty for Ashes

🦋Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz💃

✍️ By Raz, July 25th, 2024
📸 By Raz, July 25th, 2024
📚 It's Not Supposed To Be This Way, by Lysa Terkeurst

08/07/2024

EVERYDAY IS A NEW START

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
Reminder to you of how far you've come.

Beauty for Ashes

🦋Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz💃

18/06/2024

TIP TUESDAY

Patterns.
As a math focused person, patterns speak volumes.
When a pattern is established, it is easy to conclude what comes next.
And next.
And next.
1, 2, 4, 8, 16, 32 ...
Math is the language and science of patterns.
Relationships.

People maintain patterns.
They do things in a certain order.
In a certain way.
Predictable.
Overtime, people show you who they are...
The choices they make.
The choices they don't make.
The way they treat you.
The way they show up.
Or don't.

"I'm sorry".
Over and over.
However, the behavior stays the same.
Changed behavior after the apology is a break in the pattern.
It means there was some authenticity to the words.
However,
Patterns are hard to break.
It takes tons of effort.
Work.
A desire to want to shift and be better.

Breaking a bad pattern.
First, one must recognize it.
One must be able to reflect.
See how the behavior is impacting others.
Hurting others.
Then a willingness to do the work.
Sometimes this takes distance.
To view the beaten path from a wider lens.
Reflect.
Then start taking small steps on a new road.
Start to make footprints in new sand.
The more footprints in the new direction, the easier to not fall into the old shoes.

Sometimes.
Breaking a pattern means you quit responding.
To respond keeps the old trail in front.
And it's difficult to step away.
Step off.
The new hiking trail is leading to a new destination altogether.
A new height.
A new perspective.
Better views.

New patterns are possible.
Healthier ones.
Along the refreshed journey,
new people will enter life.
They share similar values.
The toxicity is shed.
The shackles unlocked.
The freedom to grow exponentially miraculous.

Choose growth.
Which one?
2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 ...
or
2, 4, 8, 16, 32, 64 ...
or
2, 6, 18, 54, 162, 486 ...

Break the pattern.
Choose a new one.
Life takes off.
The heart heals.
The soul flourishes.
Life is more than just okay.
Thrive.
Life is about thriving.

Beauty for Ashes.

11/05/2024

HANGING HAPPY

The plain metal flower has been painted.
A square of birdseed added.
Hanging Happy 😊

Two hummingbirds have been sighted.
Birds galore.
Butterflies soon.

Just One Thing.
Create something beautiful.

🦋 Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz 💃

07/05/2024

ADD SOME COLOR TO YOUR LIFE!🎨

The brain responds to color.
Feeling a bit down?
Go pick out 4-5 flower starts.
Find an old pot.
Arrange accordingly.
Put in a place you can see it from your window.
Sip on your favorite beverage...
Tea or coffee?
Watch.
Enjoy.
Good hormones will flood your body.

💥TIP TUESDAY: Go to a thrift shop and find a bird feeder. Put in next to your pot on a hanger.

Best $20 you will spend.

Plus, it will get you moving a little bit.
Accomplishing something.
It's small, but it's a start!
The first step leads to a second.
You can!
You are strong.

🦋 Fly Brave & Beautiful
|Raz 💃

04/05/2024

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GENUINE Live life well. Be with people who make you laugh. Embrace people who come into your life to show you something different. Authentic and genuine people still exist. Be one to attract one. Love yourself enough to see the blessings that come with change. Eyes wide open. |Raz💃 #genuine #beautyforashes

NO ONE ELSE IS EXACTLY LIKE YOU Hey Girl! Reminder... You are enough. You are unique and special. Know. Your. Worth. #unique #special #oneofakind

YOU DON'T JUST LOSE SOMEONE ONCE You lose them over and over, sometimes many times a day. When the loss, momentarily forgotten, creeps up and attacks from behind. Fresh waves of grief as the realisation hits home, they are gone. Again. You don't just lose someone once, you lose them every time you open your eyes to a new dawn, and as you awaken, so does your memory, so does the jolting bolt of lightening that rips into your heart, they are gone. Again. Losing someone is a journey, not a one-off. There is no end to the loss, there is only a learned skill on how to stay afloat, when it washes over. Be kind to those who are sailing this stormy sea, they have a journey ahead of them, and a daily shock to the system each time they realise, they are gone. Again. You don't just lose someone once, you lose them every day, for a lifetime. -Unknown Beauty for Ashes 🦋Fly Brave & Beautiful |Raz💃 #loss #grief #heartache #pain #forgiveness #secureattachment #letgo #letthem #moveforward #lovedeeply #believeinmiracles #beautyforashes #anewday #lifeafterloss

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