11/09/2021
! Let's take a quick together. If you've been feeling particularly lonely throughout the pandemic, you're not as alone as you thought! Here are some tips for reducing that sense of .
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🌧 Reduce and Manage Loneliness 🌧
As we continue coping with , we may find ourselves feeling more and more isolated. We can reach out by phone, videoconference, or physically distanced outings, yet we may still feel lonely.
Loneliness is different than isolation. means we are physically separated from others. Loneliness means we feel sadness because we are without friends or companionship. We may also feel lonely because our relationships do not seem meaningful. In fact, research has shown that frequent loneliness is most often associated with dissatisfaction with one’s family, social and/or community life.
Remember that loneliness is a natural response to ongoing isolation and social uncertainty. This is especially true when we are missing meaningful relationships and life experiences.
Try these tips to help reduce and manage loneliness:
1 - Take a moment and identify the people in your life who are meaningful to you. How often are you in contact with them? What methods of contact do you have with them? (phone, video, in-person, email, text, letters) Which methods of contact leave you feeling most connected to them? Now, make a schedule for yourself that includes regular contact with each of the people you have identified. When you reach out, utilize the answers to these questions to guide your experience together.
2 - Take a moment and identify the activities in your life that bring you fulfillment and satisfaction. Make a list or menu of the activities that you could still pursue during the pandemic. You may need to be creative and rework some of your activities to fit current safety needs.
3 - Re-connect with friends from your past or lookup relatives that you do not yet know or have not seen for a long time. This is a great time to reach out because we are all adjusting to new life demands.
4 - Learn something new. Occupy and nourish your mind by learning a new hobby, skill, language or concept. Take advantage of a little extra time to yourself.
5 - Change the idea of “ ” to “ .” We can be physically apart yet socially connected.
6 - Acknowledge your strengths and accomplishments. You've done a lot to make it this far, and that deserves some positive thinking.
Wishing you good health, comfort and connection,
Dr. Lori Kleinman