Because you asked for the full video- @kittiejrose is not always rightl, but she shoots straight!
THE JURY IS OUT AND YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP IS ON THE STANDS!
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5 LDR ELEMENTS YOU NEED!
Although most people turn their nose up at it, because the notion is “why am I in a relationship with someone I can’t see, touch and spend time with?”
But sometimes love comes wrapped in someone who has to move away for work or with the popularity of online dating, especially with the pandemic, you meet someone awesome who is in another city or country even!
And because your mama didn’t raise a cowardly fickle minded simpleton, you decide to believe in love and plunge into a romantic liaison with someone far far away. 😍🤣
Like every other relationship, long distance relationships do work if you commit to making it work.
Yes it takes an extra level of commitment and discipline but there’s a science to it - I’ll get you started…
#ldr #lovewins #relationships #onlinedating #helovesme #omenadaniels
S T A Y (2)
When life presents more questions than answers…
After the last post, I felt it would be a dis service not to show you guys the entire post and the context.
@iammiketodd
#stay #connected #grace #reallife #realissues #storms #inspiration #godcentered #omenadaniels
This is not for everybody. It is for High Value Individuals who are committed to living intentionally. Who have clarity of purpose and are ready to walk the road less travelled. Those who have fully embraced the mantra “in matters of the Heart, use your Head”
#newlove #relationships #helovesme #blacklove #omenadaniels
Girl Power is great!
But if you are not aware of and properly manage the changing dynamics of your friendships and it’s influence on you, what started out as your support system, may be holding you back from the life of your dreams!
#omenadaniels
Y O U A R E E N O U G H !
By all means work on yourself and commit to being the best version of you and an undeniable asset to any partner.
All you can do is your best and if they don’t appreciate it, pick up yourself and walk.
You are enough! And what you are and have will be all that is required by the person that chooses you…
#enough #confidence #knowbetter #relationships #helovesme #omenadaniels
When it comes to love, dating and marriage, very few topics are as controversial as finance. The issues of WHAT KIND OF PARTNER ARE YOU? Has become a lot more fundamental with ‘equality’ ‘feminism’ vs ‘traditional roles’ ‘patriarchy’ etc
“Is a pretty face and banging body enough?”
“Is a man irresponsible for asking his woman to make a contribution, even if it’s not 50/50?”
“Is being homemaker and child bearer all a woman should be?”
“Is it hypocritical to be a career woman, ask for equality and refuse to pay any bills?”
“Did the Bible really say men are providers?”
“If a woman builds with a man and contributes 50/50 or more to household bills, is he still the head of the home?”
LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK.
Video credit: @juhahnjones 🙌🏽
TIP 1: BE CONFIDENT -
Even if you are smart, sexy, and have a sense of humor, if you don't have a healthy dose of self-confidence that translates in your carriage, most serious dudes will pass up and you would attract abusers.
HOW DOES THIS WORK
Surprisingly,this is not about self promotion. He takes that willingness to share the spotlight and put someone other than you first, as a sign of confidence.
TIP 2: BE BUSY! -
Great guys are undeniably attracted to women with clear interests and lots of enthusiasm!
HOW DOES THIS WORK
The benefits are twofold: The dude won't feel totally responsible for your happiness — a huge weight to put on a new love interest — and he'll be more inclined to want to be a part of your multifaceted life.
TIP 3: BE STRONG, YET FLEXIBLE! -
These days, Intelligent and ambitious men are less likely to want to build a future with a Barbie doll – we want a woman who has a spine and is solid in her own right. Now when this intelligent, motivated wise woman objectively takes ‘his’ perspective on an issue and implements his suggestions – the man starts thinking‘forever’ without realizing.
HOW DOES THIS WORK
You will quickly establish your long term possibilities in his mind when you show how him that you can take charge of your own life but you are willing to pander to his constructive thoughts.
TIP 4: BE INTENTIONAL! -
By all means dress for yourself; pretty clothes and girly get-ups are all super cute and may get your girlfriends giggly, but to a discerning gentleman, you might as well be wearing joggers and an oversized hoodie in those outfits.
HOW DOES THIS WORK
The discerning man wants to see curves (remember, curves not skin!). The male mind is very imaginative; as little boys we could create a huge battlefield with a pen and rubber bands, as adults we love a woman that pushes us to fantasize not the one that demands we ogle.
When you subtly show curves and your clothes are sophisticated and well tailo
D U M P E D
#1– Appearing ‘NEEDY’ & ‘INSECURE’
This is where you inadvertently trigger a man’s “Insecurity Alert”. Sadly, you can even ‘unconsciously set off this innate masculine alarm that portray you as ‘needy’, ‘insecure’, ‘scheming’; they are dreadfully unattractive!
- The ex-checker -
An emotional sob story might in the long run reflect negatively on you.
- The bitch boundary -
When you go out of your way to ridicule, disparage or tear down other women, you come across as trying to cover up your own insecurities and inadequacies; he sees you as a hater.
- The clingy Cindy -
If you are always available at the drop of a hat, too willing, I dare say ‘eager’ to come over or show up somewhere to meet him, constantly calling and texting a new guy, bending over backwards to accommodate his excesses and never demanding how you want to be treated or respected. Men are hunters; we know when we have not earned the devotion you bestow.
#2 - Appealing To His “Sexual” Side not His Emotional Side
Promote your femininity and not your sexuality; plunging necklines and really short clothes would show off your physical assets but may diminish your long-term appeal.
In reality, a man has the uncanny ability to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things. Try this rule of thumb, show curves not skin.
#3 - Inability to Size Up A Man’s “Relationship Potential”
Every man is not in search of a relationship or long-term commitment. A few will honestly tell you this, believe them when they do. But most would avoid conversations about commitment and a few would be dishonest and deceive you.
(Full chapter with ‘to do list’ available in my book)
#relationships #dumped #loosinglove #omenadaniels
S H A R P E N E D
“Using a dull ax requires great strength, so sharpen the blade. That’s the value of wisdom; it helps you succeed.” - Ecclesiastes 10:10
“A dull ax requires more strengthen, be wise and sharpen your blade.” The old man said, “I was not resting. I stopped to sharpen the edge of my axe and adjust my handle.” He went on to explain that because the young man never stopped to sharpen his edge he labored more and accomplished less.
We’re Back!
#relationships #dobetter #omenadaniels
O P E N S E S A M E
We all approach love differently and at a pace cut to the continuity of our backgrounds, experiences, personality type and emotional needs.
One fail safe way to identify a man who wants you in his life for the long term, is that he is completely open and transparent.
- He makes the obvious effort to read you into most if not every aspect of his life.
- He shares not just his immediate plans but sometimes his vision for the future.
- He makes plans with you that go further in the future than just ‘next weekend’
- He is not sending mixed messages or leaving you confused at the days end.
When a man’s intention is sincere, he is eager to completely open up his world to you and bring you in.
When he willfully or subconsciously shuts you out or is uptight and guarded; being dodgy or reluctant to share information about his life, he may not think you are the one for the long haul… yet.
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#lovequotes #relationships #vulnerability #blacklove #truelove #author #helovesme #omenadaniels
D U M P E D
Are you dating fatigued?
Do you spend time ‘talking’ to a guy for a long while and what seemed to be going well at some point just fizzles away?
Are you tired of the endless cycle of ‘first dates’?
Let’s talk in a few…
#relationships #love #breakups #dating #author #omenadaniels
N E W L O V E
5 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR NEW MAN HOOKED!!! (Cont.)
- you are an awesome woman. Whatever you do is about you; being the best version of yourself and making sure you keep what you want in your life is what this post is about!
#relationships #newlove #selflove #omenadaniels #author
N E W L O V E
It’s here!
5 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR NEW MAN HOOKED!!!
- you are an awesome woman. Whatever you do is about you; being the best version of yourself and making sure you keep what you want in your life is what this post is about!
#relationships #newlove #selflove #omenadaniels #author
G I F T E D
Let me brag about my connection a little bit 😊
For years I wondered why I never seemed phased by other people’s success or influence. I could stand in close proximity to greatness, celebrate them and feel no tinge of jealousy or covetousness.
I have had friends look at me, bewildered at how I could be in an unpalatable state and still analyze a better situation with detachment.
This is why.
When God’s got you, when God has so loaded you; when his hand is mighty on you - You know it’s up to you to align to His purpose, find your Rehoboth, put your hand to the plow and wait for his abundance!
#godcentered
S E L E C T I O N
Why does a taller man or a shorter woman equal physical compatibility to most of us?
What has influenced those notions for you as an individual?
What has height got to do with the value of your love?
Let’s have a frank conversation 😊
#relationships #naturalselection #love #blacklove #omenadaniels #author
N E W L O V E
5 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR NEW MAN HOOKED!
Literally hundreds of text messages, a few dates and an inordinate amount of talk time; you must admit “things are going well”.
But you have been here before. So many times… let’s discuss 5 easy steps you need to take to keep the flame burning brightly.
#the5 #newlove #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #omenadaniels
T O L
In the hands of a toddler, a diamond is just a shiny pebble. Life has taught me that in matters of the heart, the truth is “You may not truly know what you have until you are grown”
#relationshipquotes #relationships #blacklove #lovequotes #omenaspeaks #author #white #tol
