Death in Cambodia, Life in America Podcast

12/29/2024

How does a country stay neutral when war rages on every side?

Cambodia’s neutrality during the Vietnam War was meant to shield it from devastation, but instead, it became a fragile balancing act with tragic consequences. Prince Sihanouk’s decision to keep the country uninvolved allowed Cambodia to avoid direct conflict for years. But neutrality came at a steep price—fragile alliances, covert operations, and the eventual destabilization that opened the door to the Khmer Rouge’s rise.

On the Death in Cambodia, Life in America Podcast, journalist and historian Elizabeth Becker unpacks the complex relationship between Cambodia, Vietnam, and the United States during this volatile period. She explores how Cambodia’s neutrality—a bold, if precarious, strategy—ultimately unraveled under the pressures of war, shifting political allegiances, and relentless outside interference.

What might have happened if Cambodia had chosen a different path? Could a stronger alliance with either side have prevented the years of devastation that followed?

Cambodia’s story is a powerful reminder of how decisions made on the global stage ripple across borders, leaving lasting impacts on everyday lives.

🌏 Listen to the episode to dive deeper into this pivotal moment in history and share your thoughts: Could a different stance have changed Cambodia’s fate? Let’s discuss in the comments.

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12/24/2024

The city of Nimitt was a crossroads for thousands of Cambodians fleeing the Khmer Rouge. It was a place of hope, but also one of terror.

In Season 1, Episode 19, Robert recalls how the Khmer Rouge raided the city at night, leaving countless people dead and forcing others—himself included—to run for their lives. The smell of sewers became the only shield from gunfire and certain death.

Stories like this remind us of the resilience of those who survived and the importance of uncovering the hidden battles that shaped Cambodia’s history.

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12/24/2024

Meet Chris Moon, a man who turned unimaginable challenges into a testament of the human spirit.

In 1993, while leading a demining team in Cambodia, Moon was ambushed and kidnapped by the Khmer Rouge. Facing certain death, he escaped through courage, strategy, and an extraordinary connection with his captor, Mr. Clever.

Just two years later, Moon stepped on a landmine in Mozambique, losing his right arm and leg. Instead of giving in, he made a choice: "It doesn’t matter how bad it is; we still choose our attitude."

Within a year of his injury, Moon ran his first marathon. By 1997, he shattered boundaries as the first double amputee to complete the grueling Marathon des Sables - 155 miles through the Sahara Desert.

Moon’s experiences ignited his advocacy against landmines, helping achieve the historic 1997 Ottawa Convention banning their use. "It is fundamentally wrong to use a weapon that harms civilians for decades."

In 2024, Moon revisited the jungle where he was once kidnapped, meeting families now thriving on the land he helped clear. His journey reminds us of the long-term impact of humanitarian efforts and the power of resilience.

Today, Moon runs resilience workshops, sharing the lessons from his extraordinary life. "Life is such a gift. I feel sorry for those who can’t embrace that."

12/19/2024

🌟 Join us on January 23rd from 6 PM to 7:30 PM for Khmer Courageous Conversations as we dive into the topic: Bravery While Healing.🌟

This empowering virtual event will explore how courage plays a vital role in the healing process and how we can embrace bravery to move forward together.

Through open and honest conversations, we can build strength, foster understanding, and inspire healing and connection. Join us as we share experiences, face challenges, and grow as a community.

Sign up now via this link 👉 https://www.eventbrite.com/o/dorothy-chow-dr-sochanvimean-phd-63753692633

We look forward to seeing you there!

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12/17/2024

Rithy Panh, Cambodia’s most renowned filmmaker, brings one of the darkest chapters of history to life in his latest film, Meeting with Pol Pot.

Adapted from journalist Elizabeth Becker’s memoir, "When the War Was Over," the story follows three French journalists on an exclusive interview with Pol Pot, leader of the Khmer Rouge. What begins as a seemingly tranquil visit unravels into an exposure of genocide, uncovering the horrifying truths behind the regime that claimed the lives of nearly two million Cambodians between 1975 and 1979.

Panh not only examines the Khmer Rouge era but raises a critical question for our times: What happens when journalism sacrifices depth for speed? With powerful performances from Irène Jacob, Grégoire Colin, and Cyril Gueï, the film challenges us to confront the dangers of disinformation and the erasure of truth.

Premiering at the 2024 Cannes Film Festival, Meeting with Pol Pot is Cambodia’s submission for the 97th Academy Awards.

In an age of fleeting headlines, this cinematic masterpiece reminds us of the cost of ignorance and the stakes of truth-telling. History demands reflection, and Panh’s work ensures we never forget the lessons of the past.

12/07/2024

NEW EPISODE ALERT! 🎤

This week, we sit down with renowned anthropologist Dr. Judy Ledgerwood, an expert on generational trauma and Southeast Asian studies. Drawing from decades of research in Cambodia and with Cambodian refugees in the U.S., Dr. Ledgerwood unpacks the profound aftermath of the Khmer Rouge regime.

Together, we explore the regime’s devastating impact on mortality, family structures, and gender roles, and how survivors rebuilt their lives amid lingering fear and uncertainty. We also discuss the revival of Buddhism, which has provided solace and community to those grappling with trauma.

Dr. Ledgerwood emphasizes the importance of education and storytelling in understanding the Khmer Rouge’s legacy and ensuring history never repeats itself. Amid the challenges, she shares a hopeful vision for Cambodia’s future through progress in development and education.

This powerful conversation is an exploration of resilience, healing, and the enduring strength of the Cambodian people. 💪

This episode of Death in Cambodia, Life in America episode will be available to listen to on Spotify, YouTube Podcasts, and Apple Podcasts on Sunday, December 8 🔊

12/01/2024

Catch your favorite dynamic duo of Death in Cambodia at your nearest wedding!! 🫠

Celebrating beautiful love this weekend with the family filled my cup with so much joy!! Hope you all enjoyed time with people that fill your soul this week 🥹

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11/18/2024

In a world where social media is often lighthearted, one Facebook group stands out for its profound purpose... helping Cambodians reconnect with loved ones lost during the Khmer Rouge regime.

The Missing People in Khmer Rouge Regime group brings together over 9,000 members who share photos, memories, and stories in hopes of finding long-lost family and friends. For members like Virginie Ok and Marie Ly, it’s a space to keep hope alive, even decades after the regime’s devastation.

The journey is challenging - names have changed, records are missing, and memories have faded. Many rely on old photos and recollections to piece together their histories. Supported by the Documentation Center of Cambodia (DC-Cam), which preserves over a million documents, this group offers a lifeline for those seeking closure and healing.

If you or someone you know is searching for lost family from this era, consider joining and supporting this mission.

11/15/2024

NEW EPISODE ALERT! 🎤

Why did Khmer kill Khmer? Why did Cambodians kill Cambodians? These are the haunting questions at the heart of this week’s conversation with Dr. Alexander Hinton, a leading expert on genocide, mass violence, and human rights.

In this episode, we dig deep into the Cambodian genocide, exploring how ideology, intent, and a history of violence set the stage for one of the most devastating atrocities in modern history. Dr. Hinton shares powerful insights from his work as an expert witness at the Khmer Rouge tribunal and explains why education, accountability, and dialogue are crucial to preventing history from repeating itself.

If you’ve ever wondered how societies recover from such unimaginable trauma—or what we can do to stop future genocides—this episode is for you.

This episode of Death in Cambodia, Life in America episode will be available to listen to on Spotify, YouTube Podcasts, and Apple Podcasts on Sunday, November 17 🔊

11/07/2024

10/31/2024

Learning about the Khmer Rouge’s devastating rule is tough, but necessary. It’s not just a story of loss—it’s a testament to the courage and strength of those who lived through it. When Robert survived the Killing Fields, he didn’t just endure—he found a way to rebuild, to create a new life, and to inspire a future for himself, his family, and his community.

Today, Cambodia is rising—entrepreneurs, artists, and dreamers are crafting a new path, refusing to let tragedy define them. Robert’s journey from a war-torn country to building a new life in America shows that no matter how dark the past, there's always a way to create light. Your story isn’t over; it’s just beginning. If you ever need a reminder of the power of starting anew, listen to how one man’s journey from devastation to rebuilding can light a spark in all of us.

10/29/2024

The Khmer Rouge era stands as one of the most harrowing chapters in Cambodian history, a period marked by unimaginable suffering and loss. Millions of innocent lives were impacted under the oppressive rule of a regime that sought to reshape society through violence and fear. The scars left by this dark time run deep, etched into the collective memory of a nation.

However, amidst the shadows of this painful past, a remarkable narrative of resilience has emerged. From the depths of despair, the Cambodian people have woven countless stories of strength, determination, and hope. These tales of survival and perseverance serve as a testament to the indomitable human spirit.

As we reflect on Cambodia's path, we are reminded of a universal truth: our past, no matter how challenging, does not dictate our future. The power to shape our destiny lies within our own hands, fueled by resilience, hope, and the unwavering belief in the possibility of a brighter tomorrow. 🙏🏼🌱

10/28/2024

Pchum Ben, Cambodia’s Festival of Ancestors, is a deeply significant celebration that honors the spirits of loved ones and strengthens the bonds of family and tradition. Spanning 15 days, the festival brings together communities across the country to reconnect with their heritage.

The first 14 days, known as Kan Ben, are marked by villagers offering food to monks at local pagodas, with the belief that these offerings reach the spirits of their ancestors. The final day is the most important, as Cambodian Buddhists, regardless of their status, come together to make offerings and reflect on their cultural traditions.

King Norodom Sihamoni highlights how Pchum Ben not only preserves Cambodian traditions but also fosters love, unity, and harmony within families. It’s a time when rich and poor alike come together to honor those who came before them, reinforcing the national spirit.

From October 1-3, the country celebrates with a 3-day official holiday. Millions of Cambodians travel to pagodas, reunite with family, and pay respect to their ancestors, while visitors get to experience the spiritual and cultural richness of Cambodia firsthand. Last year, over 1.89 million local and international tourists visited cultural sites during Pchum Ben, marking a 52% increase from the previous year.

Pchum Ben is not just a festival - it’s a beautiful reminder of Cambodia’s cultural identity, the enduring power of family, and the traditions that unite us all.

10/24/2024

When I started this podcast with my dad, it wasn’t just about sharing his story—it was about remembering a part of history that so many know little about. It’s about giving voice to the struggles, the pain, and the resilience of the Cambodian people. And more than that, it’s about understanding that every person has a story worth telling, and every story has the power to change how we see the world. I hope, as you listen to these episodes, you find a piece of your own story in them too. ❤️

10/21/2024

Cambodia’s classical dance tradition nearly disappeared during the brutal Khmer Rouge regime, but one woman’s resilience saved it. The new documentary ‘Pol Pot Dancing' tells the story of how Cambodia’s dance culture was preserved in the face of unimaginable loss.

Pol Pot’s regime was responsible for the deaths of a quarter of Cambodia’s population, including intellectuals and artists. The Khmer Rouge ruthlessly suppressed the arts, targeting dancers in their effort to erase Cambodian culture. One of the greatest classical dancers, Chea Samy, barely survived - but she never gave up her passion for dance.

Despite Pol Pot’s own connection to the royal court and his foster mother Chea Samy, he concealed his ties to the arts and led the brutal campaign that nearly wiped out the tradition. Samy, though forced into labor, held onto her love for dance, and after surviving the genocide, she passed her knowledge to new generations, ensuring that Khmer classical dance would not be lost.

Directed by Enrique Sánchez Lansch, ‘Pol Pot Dancing’ explores the dark paradox of Pol Pot’s relationship with Cambodian dance, while celebrating the enduring spirit of those like Samy who kept the tradition alive. The film showcases a new dance choreographed by Sophiline Cheam Shapiro, Samy's student, symbolizing the resilience of Cambodian culture.

More than a film, ‘Pol Pot Dancing’ is a powerful reminder that no regime can destroy the soul of a nation. It honors Cambodia’s dance tradition, which has survived, thrived, and now continues to inspire future generations.

10/18/2024

NEW EPISODE ALERT! 🎤

In this week’s episode, we sit down with Chantha Nguon, author of *Slow Noodles, Fast City* and survivor of the Khmer Rouge. Nguon opens up about her incredible journey—from fleeing Cambodia as a child, to finding refuge in Vietnam, to rediscovering hope through cooking. Joined by her daughter, Clara Kim, the conversation dives into the emotional process of writing her book, the healing power of sharing stories, and the beautiful memories tied to her mother’s recipes. Together, they reflect on the impact of food, family, and resilience. Don’t miss this heartwarming and inspiring episode about survival, love, and cultural preservation.

This episode of Death in Cambodia, Life in America episode will be available to listen to on Spotify, YouTube Podcasts, and Apple Podcasts on Sunday, October 20th🔊

10/15/2024

Independence often comes not when you're ready for it, but when life demands it. As a child, my father Robert's life quickly shifted from playfulness to survival during the Khmer Rouge era. It meant growing up faster than he wanted to, learning to stand on his own when the world around him was crumbling. For many who lived through such challenging times, childhood became a distant memory, replaced by the urgent need to survive and adapt.

But within these stories of hardship lie incredible tales of human resilience. It's the strength born out of necessity, the maturity that comes with facing adversity, and the unwavering spirit that grows in the face of uncertainty. These experiences, while difficult, often forge individuals with remarkable character, compassion, and wisdom beyond their years.

If you've had to grow up fast, remember that your journey is a testament to your inner strength. Your experiences have shaped you, but they don't define you. Today, we invite you to reflect on your past and recognize the incredible resilience you've developed. What unexpected sources of strength did you discover as a child? How has that strength continued to serve you in adulthood?

We want you to share your story of resilience and inspire others. If you're interested in sharing your story on the Death in Cambodia, Life in America Podcast, we strongly encourage you to fill out our Survivor Story Submission form (check the comments for more details). Together, let's celebrate the strength that emerges from adversity and the beautiful, resilient spirits that continue to thrive against all odds. Your story matters, and your strength can light the way for others on their own journeys of growth and healing.

10/14/2024

To remember the victims of the Khmer Rouge regime, the sacred Kan Ben ceremony is held at the Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum. This memorial serves as a powerful reminder of Cambodia's tragic history and the resilience of its people.

Kan Ben is a deeply meaningful festival where Cambodians honor their ancestors. This year, the ceremony was especially dedicated to those who suffered and perished at the notorious S-21 detention center under the brutal rule of Pol Pot.

Originally a high school, Tuol Sleng became a site of unimaginable horror during the regime, where thousands of innocent lives were lost through torture and ex*****on. Of the 18,000 prisoners who were detained, only 12 survived. The memorial ceremony honors their memory and the countless others who perished across Cambodia during one of the darkest chapters in history.

The ceremony began with a blessing, monks receiving offerings, and the symbolic act of piling sand—a gesture of respect for the thousands who lost their lives at Tuol Sleng and throughout Cambodia. This annual gathering ensures that the deep injustices faced by the victims are not forgotten.

“We know that Tuol Sleng is where people suffered immense injustice. Every year, we dedicate this memorial to them,” shared Sum Map, spokesman for the Ministry of Culture and Fine Arts.

Tuol Sleng now stands as a somber reminder of the past, ensuring the stories of those who suffered will live on.