Imafidon Stanley

12/03/2023

The fact that you're chasing someone who is also chasing someone else and they can end up settling for you because they didn't get who they were chasing is too deep!

12/03/2023

Don't beg for love because you're someone's prayer!!!

12/03/2023

Money can never buy genuine love.
Now what money buys you is limited affection.

Which means that noce the money stops coming, the affection will disappear and that is why a lot of guys make the mistake of calling some ladies gold diggers after awhile but they forget that were the one that attracted the lady with money it wasn't as if the lady was interested in them.

So, instead of you trying to impress a lady buying her gifts showering her....

Gifting a Lady something is very good.

But you need to be very sure that she actually likes you.

Because you should also understand that a lot of guys are also using the same method to get her and trust me, ladies don't actually accept those kind of guys as their first choice they only settle for them.

And that's why you see that in no time the relationship will crash.

Because the foundation is not based on genuine love.

It's based on what you can offer her and that is the reality and something with some ladies that want to get a guy with their body, it will never end well.

So that's why you have to be very careful not to beg or fight for love.

Cause it's a very dangerous one and if you are not careful, you might end up feeling empty.

Because this person will show the attribute of just managing you.

12/03/2023

*Life changing lessons I learnt about relationship so far.*

Never fight for love. Because if you do you might never be happy in your relationship. Even in life. Because, no woman is too hard to get. And no man is too busy to give you attention because people always give Their full attention to whatever or whoever they really want. So if you are chasing somebody, and they are not reciprocating or they're not giving you attention, just move on.
That person you are chasing is also chasing someone else which shows that that you are not Their priority and the problem with these kind of thing is that when when you chase somebody or when you chase a Lady for too long she might end up accepting you, not because she really want you but because she couldn't get that person she was chasing. So, simply settling for you and that is why I advise people don't stay where you are tolerated, stay where you are celebrated.

Because if you are not your partner's first choice, it means that they settled for you and whenever there's any issue, they will start feeling as if they're just managing you.
And that is a terrible feeling and why because even you yourself you start feeling empty.

Because that person you're chatting that is not responding to you....
Some guys will say fine it's just a ladies thing.

I will tell you that when a Lady likes you, she will be very fast to respond to your chat.

So if you're trying to talk to a lady and she is spending like hours to respond to you,
My brother!
She's not interested. so it's better you move on, why because if you don't move on and you continue to keep chatting and chatting her and maybe you....

There's this thing you notice that maybe when chat you chat up a girl for a very long time, and she is not responding All of a sudden, she just change and she just start responding to you, you know why?

Because, her first choice is no longer available for her to get. So she starts settling for you. And that's why I always say to say this,

Never beg for love.
It will never end well.

Check out my next post.

09/20/2023

The best relationship is when our yesterday's fight does not stop our today's communication.

02/02/2023

01/26/2023

Anybody that is in your life that is making you feel smaller than who you really are... Avoid them. That's why you have have your legs. Walk away from a tool who doesn't value you, when God blesses you, you owe nobody explanation. I greeted you, you didn't answer very well, it's your cup of tea. Am OFF!!!

01/13/2023

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01/02/2023

Think positive!!!