Terrell & Jen - Relationship Coaches

Terrell & Jen - Relationship Coaches We teach couples how to communicate in their relationship so they can build a haven of peace and love. Psalm 1:2-3

Terrell and Jen founders of The Oakhaven Company which provides inspiration and educational resources for your everyday life. As an ordained and licensed counselor, Terrell holds 20 years' experience helping people access and walk in their purpose. Jen's background as a preschool teacher and school administrator provides practical ways to organize and run a smooth home. If you want to grow in your

relationships, navigate the complexities of emotions and interactions, learn helpful tips to run your home smoothly with children, schedules, and budgets, and gain resources you can apply immediately that are from a true Biblical perspective, this is YOUR home! "Those who delight in instructions of the Lord will be like a tree firmly planted, yielding fruit."

Ready to build a powerful prayer life with your spouse? Don’t know what to pray for or how to get started? Our free guid...
10/27/2025

Ready to build a powerful prayer life with your spouse? Don’t know what to pray for or how to get started? Our free guide gives you the words and Scripture to pray boldly over the 5 most critical areas of your marriage. Grab our prayer guide and get started today! 🙏 (link is in our bio!)

👉 Tap save and send this prayer to your spouse. You’ll want to come back to this when things feel overwhelming.

This week’s prayer is for the tired and overwhelmed heart, with a focus on three key areas:

REST - “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” - Matthew 11:28

PEACE - “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” - Philippians 4:7

PRIORITY - “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” - Genesis 2:24

Remember, a marriage that stays in sync is a marriage that stays strong. A powerful prayer life is the bridge from spiritual disconnection to a faith-filled team. You CAN find peace in the chaos, and this is just the beginning.

Emotional connection is the bridge between two people living in the same house and two souls building a life and legacy ...
10/20/2025

Emotional connection is the bridge between two people living in the same house and two souls building a life and legacy together. It requires vulnerability, but that vulnerability is the foundation of true marital intimacy. When you choose to speak the truth in love and build trust with each other, your connection will naturally deepen.

👉 Tag your spouse or send this to them today to commit to building deeper trust this week.

Ready to build a powerful prayer life with your spouse? Don’t know what to pray for or how to get started? Our free guide gives you the words and Scripture to pray boldly over the 5 most critical areas of your marriage. Comment “PRAYER” below to get it and start today! 🙏

A powerful prayer life is the bridge from surface-level safety to a fully open, deeply connected, and faith-filled partnership. You CAN cultivate radical vulnerability, and this is just the beginning.

This week’s prayer is for Emotional Connection, focused on three key areas:

OPEN - “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.” - Ephesians 4:15

TRUST - “Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” - 1 Corinthians 13:7

DEEPEN - “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight.” - Philippians 1:9

You love each other deeply, but somewhere between the kids and the to-do lists, you started to feel more like roommates ...
10/09/2025

You love each other deeply, but somewhere between the kids and the to-do lists, you started to feel more like roommates than teammates.

That feeling of disconnection is a quiet sign that your marriage might need a shared vision. It’s a Christ-centered roadmap that helps you simplify your life and prioritize what truly matters.

In our latest podcast (DM us “112” and we’ll send you the link), we’re diving into three clear signs you need a shared vision: feeling like you’re going in different directions, having a chaotic calendar, and feeling spiritually disconnected.

If any of these signs resonate with you, it’s not a sign of a failing marriage—it’s an invitation to start building your vision together. The truth is, your love isn’t the problem; your plan is.

Ready to find your shared roadmap? Comment “VISION” to download Our 20-Minute Marriage Vision Guide.

What if you started your week with gratitude for the one you married? ✨👉 Tag your spouse or send this to them today to r...
10/06/2025

What if you started your week with gratitude for the one you married? ✨

👉 Tag your spouse or send this to them today to remind them just how much of a blessing they are to you.

🙏🏼 Ready to build a powerful prayer life with your spouse? Don’t know what to pray for or how to get started? Our free guide gives you the words and Scripture to pray boldly over the 5 most critical areas of your marriage. Comment “PRAYER” below to get it and start today! 🙏

This week’s prayer is one of gratitude and intentionality, focused on three key areas:

BLESSING - “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” - Proverbs 18:22

JOY - “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” - Nehemiah 8:10

LIGHT - “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” - Matthew 5:16

A powerful prayer life is the bridge from spiritual disconnection to a faith-filled team. You CAN be a light in your marriage, and this is just the beginning.

🙋‍♂️ Which one of these hits home for you?We’ve seen these mistakes in our own marriage, and they kept us stuck in argum...
10/03/2025

🙋‍♂️ Which one of these hits home for you?

We’ve seen these mistakes in our own marriage, and they kept us stuck in arguments.

Most couples don’t realize these small mistakes are actually signs of a bigger problem: no shared vision.

That’s why we built the Relationship Vision Planner. To help couples replace these habits with God-honoring communication that brings peace, not pain.

✨ Ready to stop the cycle? The waitlist is open! Just comment “WAITLIST” and we will send you the link.

Navigating the pressures of the outside world can feel like a full-time job for your marriage. From family to work to so...
09/29/2025

Navigating the pressures of the outside world can feel like a full-time job for your marriage. From family to work to social media, it’s easy to get pulled in different directions. But you were designed to be a united front.

👉 Tag your spouse or send this to them today to remind them you’re in this together.

Ready to build a powerful prayer life with your spouse? Don’t know what to pray for or how to get started? Our free guide gives you the words and Scripture to pray boldly over the 5 most critical areas of your marriage. Comment “PRAYER” below to get it and start today! 🙏

This week’s prayer is for the protection of your marriage, focused on three key areas:

UNITED - “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” - Genesis 2:24

BOUNDARIES - “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” - Proverbs 4:23

TOGETHER - “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” - Ephesians 5:31

A powerful prayer life is the bridge from spiritual disconnection to a faith-filled team. You CAN create a safe haven for your relationship, and this is just the beginning.

The sting of trying to communicate, only to be dismissed, is real. In this episode, we’re diving deep into those moments...
09/24/2025

The sting of trying to communicate, only to be dismissed, is real. In this episode, we’re diving deep into those moments when your emotions run high and your message isn’t getting through.

We’re unpacking why a tool like “I language” still wins, but why context is everything. We’ll also cover how to stay grounded when your feelings get big, so that your message is heard—not just dismissed.

Listen to Episode 111 now to unpack the powerful impact of how you say it, not just what you say.

DM us “111” and we’ll send over the link!

What if one small prayer could start changing your marriage? 💖👉 Save this post to pray later!Sunday is a perfect day to ...
09/07/2025

What if one small prayer could start changing your marriage? 💖

👉 Save this post to pray later!

Sunday is a perfect day to pause and pray over your relationship. A quick, intentional prayer can shift your perspective and invite God’s peace into your week. ✨

Ready to build a powerful prayer life with your spouse? Comment “PRAYER” below to get our free guide, 5 Powerful Prayers Every Couple Needs, and start today! 🙏

This week’s prayer is for communication and connection, focused on three key areas:

**LISTEN** - “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” - James 1:19

**PATIENCE** - “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” - Colossians 3:13

**KIND** - “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” - Ephesians 4:32

Remember, a marriage that prays together is a marriage that stays together. A powerful prayer life takes you from spiritual disconnection to a faith-filled team. You CAN build a powerful prayer life with your spouse - and this is just the beginning.

Is there anything better than the feeling of a fresh start? 🤗A new month feels like turning a clean page in your planner...
09/04/2025

Is there anything better than the feeling of a fresh start? 🤗

A new month feels like turning a clean page in your planner, full of possibility. This September, that feeling is a chance to start a new rhythm in your marriage.

It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being intentional.

The goal isn’t just to manage a schedule but to create a life you both love.

This month’s reminders are your key to getting on the same page and finding your flow as a team.

Because your relationship is the most important plan you’ll ever make, we’ve created the perfect tool to help you do it.

🎉🎉🎉 The Relationship Vision Planner is coming soon! Get on the waitlist now to be the first for updates and exclusive pricing. Comment “WAITLIST” for more info. 🎉🎉🎉

Anyone else’s home feeling a little chaotic with the new school routine? 😅 The to-do lists get longer, the days feel sho...
09/04/2025

Anyone else’s home feeling a little chaotic with the new school routine? 😅 The to-do lists get longer, the days feel shorter, and sometimes our patience gets stretched a little thin.

This is a powerful time to cover your spouse in prayer, asking God to go before them in this new rhythm. We created these prayer points for you because a strong marriage is your greatest asset in every new season.

And if you’re looking for even more when it comes to your marriage, we’ve got a tool to help you find clarity and purpose right where you are.

Our Marriage Reset 7-Day Devotional is designed to give you a renewed mindset, clarity in your role and purpose, and a practical video/PDF series to help you navigate toward a Christ-centered reset.

Ready? DM us the word “RESET” and we’ll send it right over.

Do you ever find yourself going through the motions, sharing a home - but not always your heart, with the person you mar...
06/10/2025

Do you ever find yourself going through the motions, sharing a home - but not always your heart, with the person you married?

That feeling of quiet distance, even when you’re side-by-side, can creep into the busiest of marriages.

We get it. Life with kids, work, and endless to-do lists can leave little room for intentional connection. But what if strengthening your marriage didn’t require hours you don’t have? What if it could start with something simple, yet profoundly powerful?

We believe in the transformative power of prayer, and we know that even in the midst of the busiest seasons, you can invite God’s presence back into your relationship.

These prayers are a reminder that God wants your marriage to thrive, and He’s given you the most powerful tool to help make that happen.

Ready to invite more of God’s grace and connection into your relationship? ✨

Comment “PRAYERS” to download your FREE “5 Powerful Prayers for Your Relationship” guide today! It’s designed to help busy spouses like you nurture their marriage, one intentional prayer at a time.

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