Apinspires78

10/19/2025

Date night. Drip Check. 🥰

10/18/2025

We've reached 254k FOLLOWERS!

Hi, I'm A.P. and I'm the creator and moderator of this page. 👋🏾

I thought it would be appropriate to reintroduce myself

First of all, thank you for your support of this page. I am extremely grateful for those who have been rocking with me since the beginning and even those who are new and are now enjoying my content.

Some people literally engage with everything I post. Although I can not respond to all comments, please know I see you, I appreciate your support, patience, and dedication.🩷

Now, here's some background tea on me and this page:

1. I'm currently rocking the blessed chapter of 47. I'm a part of the GenX era.

2. I create content for people 40 and OVER. But all are welcome to enjoy regardless of age if it resonates with you. This is not a dating page, but I do talk about dating relationships, amongst other random things.

3. I got married this year! ❤️

4. I'm responsible for two male humans and a dog named Bella. She's the supporting actress in many of my videos. 🐾

5. I've held a bachelor of science degree in dental hygiene for twenty-five years now.🦷 I am currently not practicing because I've decided to focus on content creation.

6. I am an imperfect Christ follower. I have great faith, and I live my life by trusting in the Lord daily and trying not to lean to my own understanding. It takes a lot for me to snap, so if I ever do, that's the imperfect part of me shining through. 😆

7. I love dancing, smiling, eating, napping, encouraging others, and having fun. Live. Love. Laugh. Dance. Skate.

8. I'm on all the platforms under the same handle (APINSPIRES78). I try to show different things on each platform for a spice of variety. So please check me out on the different platforms.

9. Me and hubby have a couples page here on FB. (Itsallluv) Please check it out.

FYI: Some housekeeping takeaways.

10. My goal is to keep this page positive and light. There's enough negativity in the world. Thus, I do try and monitor comments. I don't mind people having an strong opinion about something (and I've been very lenient lately 😌). But once the comments get to the point of attacking or being mean/evil, I will delete or even block the comment and the offender. If I catch it.

I will also repost comments from others. I do this as a learning tool. I don't mind giving an understanding and clarity to things, so I give replies if I feel moved to do so.

Plese understand, I'm not ever offended by what people say. My joy nor my peace is disturbed by someone on the internet who doesn't know me personally. A lot of people speak from a place of hurt, rejection or etc. So I give grace like God gives me daily.

I DO NOT argue with people in the comments. My energy is focused on creating fun, entertaining, relatable, and encouraging content. If YOU ever feel attacked in the comments section, please don't engage. You can even delete your own comment so others will stop replying.

One more thing...

11. The skits are silent. 👍🏾

And with all that being said, thanks again, and welcome to this community. ❤️

10/18/2025

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10/18/2025

I post in my stories too. Don't miss out on the fun. 😁

10/18/2025

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10/18/2025

I MARRIED A MAN WHO PLANS DATES

✨ I speak from my experience/my testimony

I personally would consider myself one who loves to plan things. Organizing an itinerary is my love language. I honestly get so much joy out of doing such things.

I remember when my man came to visit me for the first time. Although our time was brief, I had everything planned out and I couldn't wait to make new memories with him.

When it was my turn to visit him, I remembered him previously saying that he wasn't big into planning things. So I had already made up in my mind that we were just gonna go with the flow. And I was okay with that. Honestly, if we had just watched movies and chilled, I would have been okay with that. I just wanted to be with him.

But ya'll...from the moment I flew in until the time I left, he had my entire visit planned out. We even wore matching colors/outfits to the different activities/dinner he had set up for us to enjoy.

I will admit, I was shocked and proud of him. He did that thing! 👏🏾

And even since then, he's still a great "date" planner and organizer of our coordinating outfits.

He "kinda" even planned our wedding. But that's another story for another day.

I am blessed. 🥰 (Follow our FB page: itsallluv for daily posts of our journey)

I leave you with this:

* Ladies, men know how to plan dates. They are just choosing not to.
* If he wanted to, he would.
* Stop wasting time you can't get back waiting on a guy to plan a date when you initially met weeks prior. (Exception is long-distance)
* Men, stop allowing women the opportunity to take advantage of you on initial dates. You know your budget. Act accordingly.
* Planned dates should come with confirmations.

10/18/2025

Life hack:
Stop taking memes so literally and seriously. 😁