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06/13/2024

Nobody talks about this.

Nobody talks about after you finally heal from a traumatizing relationship.

When you have taken the time to concentrate on yourself and you are finally in a place where you're done healing and you are ready to step out into the dating world again, it's nearly impossible to find someone because you see the red flags in everybody.

You see so many things you're not willing to compromise with because you actually trust your intuition.

You can see when things are an issue with people, and you know you won't be able to get over it later on in that relationship.

So you don't allow your feelings to get in the way of logic and just cut it off before it even gets to that point.

Then you realize how many people aren't actually working on themselves and are just seeking a shallow connection.

They aren't even looking to improve themselves as a partner in a relationship, and they think their perfectly fine the way they are.

So there's no room to grow into a relationship together because they are already set in their ways.

It's a little exhausting at times because you also feel lonely during all of this and that sadness can take a toll on you but you have to remember one thing .....

It's better to be single with high standards than in a relationship settling for less.

~ Cody Bret

06/13/2024

Goodmorning everyone.

~ Cody Bret

06/13/2024

Date with a purpose.

You deserve someone who has plans on marrying you one day.

You deserve to find someone who understands love is not a game. It’s actually an investment.

You know, as a person dating someone you should look at your partner as the mother or father of your future children.

If you can’t picture them in the aisle, walking towards you with tears in your eyes, do me a favor ..... leave them alone.

If you can’t picture the two of you building your dream home together, or leaving homemade cookies out for Santa the night before Christmas with your children, there again ..... leave them alone.

Take my advice and if you dont plan on marrying them and building a future with them, take your hands off another person's future.

~ Cody Bret

06/13/2024

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~ Cody Bret

06/13/2024

Ending a Relationship with a Narcissist.

Ending a Relationship with a Narcissist is not like a regular breakup.

People always ask victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse the same questions.

"Why can’t you just move on?"

"Why can’t you get over it?"

"Why are you still thinking about this person who treated you so bad?"

And what alot of people don't understand is......you can’t verbalize why, because you don't even know where to start.

The fact that you fell in love with someone that never existed and now you have to mourn the loss of them.

The fact that they conditioned you to be someone that you don’t even recognize in the mirror anymore.

The fact that you can’t explain the guilt that you feel for letting go of this person that made you feel like it was your only job on earth to save them.

The fact that you can’t explain the anxiety and loneliness that you feel from not having them there because they were the person that soothed you after they abused you.

The fact that you can’t explain that even though they lied to you and fed you empty promise after empty promise, that you still had a fraction of hope in your head that maybe they can change.

Or maybe it's the fact that you can't explain the anger that you have towards them because you can’t let go of knowing that you were manipulated by them since day one.

Ending a relationship with a narcissist is traumatizing to say the least, but you're very capable of recovering from such an unfortunate chain of events.

You have to accept the reality that this narcissistic person never loved you.

They used you to fuel their admiration, and they needed you to reflect their magnificence because they never truly felt it about themselves.

You also have to realize it's not that you're unlovable, but it was the person you were with, that was incapable of loving anyone including themselves.

Take my advice and remember.... if you're in a relationship that makes you question your own value, you need to reconsider the appraisers in your life.

~ Cody Bret

06/13/2024

A real man.

What's sad about this picture is that most women will go their entire lifetime and never experience the meaning of a love like this.

It's even slightly depressing to think that most people will never understand how powerful this picture actually is.

This gentleman is a prime example of how men should be treating their partner with everyday that passes.

They have been married for over 61 years and he still takes time out of his day to reassure her just how special she truly she is to him.

We unfortunately live in a generation with men who have no idea what it takes to be a real man.

Let me give you a couple examples of a real man.

He asks about your day and genuinely cares about the answer.

He respects your boundaries and never forces you to anything you're not ready to do.

He makes time for you, and takes that time to learn and understand who you are as a person.

He consistently shows you the definition of effort with every day that passes.

He will call you randomly throughout the day just to check on you and your mental health.

He is undeniably committed to you and looks for new ways to fall in love with you with every day that passes.

He makes protecting your heart a number one priority.

He never makes permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

He always apologizes when he is wrong and stays true to his character.

He doesn't mind hurting other people's feeling to protect yours.

He gives you affection without sexual expectation.

He refuses to entertain any women that isn't you.

He has genuine intentions with you from day one and shows you how it truly feels to be a priority rather an option.

He will help you heal from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

He values you and would never put themselves in a position to lose you.

Take my advice and wait for the gentleman that is so infatuated with you ... you will never have to question where you stand in his life.

~ Cody Bret

06/13/2024

Never beg someone to be in your life.

If your love and emotions get ignored .... do yourself a favor and walk away.

You're worth so much more than what people have unfortunately made you believe.

Wait to be with someone who cherishes you and is proud to have you with every day that passes.

Someone who actually knows your worth.

Someone who is there for you and genuinely wants to know your heart's needs and desires.

This is what your life needs.

~ Cody Bret

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