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We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come.
07/09/2024
In this episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' hosts J Black and D Johns engage in a meaningful conversation about responsibility, preparedness, and the unexpected lessons life throws at us. They discuss a personal experience involving an unintentional firearm incident at an airport, the implications, and the importance of being judgmental and aware of one's surroundings. The hosts also delve into the evolution of friendship loyalty, gun safety, and how these topics are crucial conversations to have with their children. The episode concludes with an exciting announcement about the 'Dear Son, Network' obtaining its trademark, signifying a major milestone in their journey.
00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Beliefs
00:00:40 Airport Incident Unfolds
00:01:46 Welcome to the Dear Son Show
00:02:16 Weekly Catch-Up
00:03:14 Travel Experiences and Reflections
00:04:37 The Airport Incident Revisited
00:09:17 Legal Consequences and Reflections
00:16:11 Gun Culture and Personal Experiences
00:19:57 Judgment and Grace
00:21:59 Facing the Consequences
00:22:47 The Complexity of Loyalty
00:24:32 Father-Son Conversations
00:26:22 Real-Life Examples and Lessons
00:31:20 Gun Safety and Family Dynamics
00:39:02 Trademarking Success
00:46:06 Final Thoughts and Gratitude
Key Takeaways:
1. **Gun Safety and Legal Consequences**: The speakers discuss the importance of gun safety, especially when traveling, sharing a personal story about accidentally carrying a loaded weapon in an airport. They highlight legal consequences, such as fines and losing TSA pre-check status, and reflect on the oversight and responsibility necessary to avoid such situations.
2. **Judgment and Understanding**: There's an emphasis on not being judgmental and understanding the context of others' actions. They point out how quick judgments can be misleading, sharing anecdotes about people making assumptions without knowing comprehensive details, thus advocating for empathy and broader awareness.
3. **Influences and Life Lessons**: The conversation ties back to the influence of one's social circle on decision-making and the importance of teaching children about responsibility and the repercussions of their actions. They touch on personal growth and learning from mistakes, as well as the impact of one's environment in shaping behavior and choices.
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The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community
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“Better Man. Better Father.”
06/06/2024
In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D. Johns and Jey Blac delve deep into the struggles and motivations of fatherhood and family life. They discuss the importance of internal motivation, the challenges of balancing family responsibilities with personal and professional aspirations, and the critical issue of maintaining authenticity in the face of external pressures. The conversation also touches on themes of aging parents, transitioning children, and personal pride. They underscore the significance of staying true to one's 'why' amidst life's adversities, sharing personal anecdotes that provide insights into their journeys as fathers and husbands. Tune in for a meaningful discussion aimed at fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless.
00:00:00 Introduction and Opening Thoughts
00:00:47 Welcome to the Dear Son Show
00:01:10 Hosts' Personal Updates
00:01:37 Family Challenges and Reflections
00:04:10 Conversations with Dad
00:06:10 The Fight of Life
00:09:46 Business and Loyalty
00:12:06 Impact on Family and Children
00:16:23 Balancing Family and Career
00:18:41 Remembering Your Why
00:23:47 Reflecting on the Journey
00:24:33 The Importance of Internal Motivation
00:26:00 Balancing Determination and Well-being
00:28:33 Learning from Setbacks
00:30:57 Standing Firm in Business Decisions
00:33:43 The Struggle with Pride
00:36:25 The Value of Support Systems
00:41:28 Future Plans and Personal Growth
00:43:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
03/03/2024
God’s peace to be exact, my boy.
02/28/2024
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02/24/2024
The video features a deep-dive conversation with Dallas-based entrepreneur Kevin Butler, who runs a construction and a commercial masonry company. From discussing his early learning about money and work ethics to connecting with his father later in life, Butler shares his journey in entrepreneurship. The discussion extends to his involvement in mentoring via a basketball program and his insights on wealth creation through real estate investments with a focus on the understanding of history and economics. The video also explores the intersection of wealth development and fatherhood. The video concludes with Butler inviting viewers to connect further via LinkedIn and Instagram.
00:00:00 Introduction and Early Life
00:01:17 Learning Money Principles
00:01:56 Welcome to the Wealth Blueprint Series
00:02:12 Guest Introduction: Kevin Butler
00:02:27 Kevin's Journey from Mississippi to Oakland
00:03:28 The Impact of Oakland on Kevin's Life
00:07:01 Kevin's Early Work Ethic and Financial Lessons
00:20:13 Reconnecting with His Father and Entering Construction
00:26:42 The Evolution into Development and Investment
00:32:39 Discussing Faith and Purpose
00:34:03 Understanding Your Unique Gift
00:34:58 Transitioning into Business Talk
00:35:31 The Journey of Building a Business
00:37:12 The Importance of Passion in Business
00:38:32 Expanding the Business and Partnering with Big Firms
00:40:46 The Role of Supplier Performance in Business
00:44:14 The Importance of Authenticity and Adaptability
00:59:00 Investing in Real Estate and Understanding Market Trends
01:02:08 Closing Thoughts and Contact Information
Key Takeaways:
1. The importance of work ethic: Kevin Butler shares how he began working at the age of 11, and that instilling a strong work ethic in him from an early age shaped his entrepreneurial spirit and dedication to his career.
2. Importance of mentorship: Kevin credits much of his knowledge and success to the mentorship he received from his father and cousin, both significantly involved in construction and real estate.
3. Emphasizing personal growth before financial growth: While it's important to pursue financial wealth, Kevin emphasizes the importance of personal, emotional, and spiritual growth in achieving true success and purpose in life.
4. Use of intuition in business: Being open to opportunities and following one's intuition can result in successful business ventures, as evidenced by Kevin's success in the real estate development industry.
5. Wealth transcends just money: Wealth is more than just financial success. It encompasses a balance of work and personal life, emotional health, spiritual well-being, and using one's gifts to benefit others.
Produced by The Dear Son, Network and WBMS Media
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01/21/2024
The darker nights give way to brighter mornings, my boy.
01/20/2024
In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac have candid conversations about fostering better family life and personal growth on the cusp of the New Year. They discuss the importance of lightening the load at home, being more active in family roles, the art of delegating responsibilities, and managing frustrations. They also delve into the significance of setting resolutions, staying true to them, treating goals as daily commitments, and having a healthier, more intentional lifestyle. Importantly, they highlight the cruciality of self-care, checking in on family and friends, and treating group efforts seriously. Moreover, they express their determination to make significant changes in their personal and professional life in the upcoming year.
00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote
00:01:35 Welcome to the DSR Show
00:02:00 New Year Reflections and Resolutions
00:02:20 The Problem with Resolutions
00:03:09 Setting Goals and Focus for the New Year
00:03:50 The Importance of Education and Follow Through
00:05:31 Restoration and Learning to Ask for Help
00:07:26 Diversification in Life and Business
00:08:57 Lightening the Family Load
00:19:07 The Importance of Time Allocation and Family Time
00:21:37 The Struggle with Rest and Guilt
00:22:23 The Dangers of Hustle Culture
00:23:10 The Importance of Self-Care
00:24:27 The Challenge of Overextension
00:25:02 The Art of Saying No
00:27:22 The Importance of Asking for Help
00:27:26 The Consequences of Ignoring Health
00:32:07 The Journey to Better Health
00:36:11 The Importance of Treating Your Network Right
00:38:50 The Power of Engaging with Your Circle
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01/19/2024
Just let her be, my boy.
01/17/2024
Their obedience aside, what about your child’s character confirms that you did something right as a parent?
01/16/2024
In this video podcast, hosts Jay Black and D John share candid discussion about the web of influence, the impact of actions on character and the responsibility as parents to guide their children in making better decisions. Their conversation reflects on recent events and self-reflective moments and underscores the importance of weighing every piece of information before forming conclusions. They also talk about stand-up comedian Katt Williams's recent interview with Club Shay Shay and the assumptions and reactions that ensued. The hosts take a broad view, focusing on the broader life lessons to learn about personal development, critical thinking, and standing up for one's values.
00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes
00:01:16 Welcome to the Dear Son Show
00:01:37 NFL Sunday, Week 18 Discussion
00:04:43 Current Events and Internet Trends
00:05:15 Comedian Battle Situation Analysis
00:11:41 Impact of Popularity Over Truth
00:21:20 Expectations from Family and Friends
00:22:22 Character Assessment and Personal Growth
00:25:00 Understanding Friendships and Disagreements
00:25:52 The Importance of Truth in Relationships
00:26:15 Consequences of Being 'Loud and Wrong'
00:26:49 Recognizing and Avoiding Trouble
00:27:09 The Role of Parents in Guiding Their Children
00:27:46 The Importance of Open Communication
00:28:10 Reflecting on Personal Experiences
00:29:05 The Impact of Jumping to Conclusions
00:34:07 The Importance of Influence and Character
00:36:14 Reflecting on Past Mistakes and Lessons Learned
00:39:54 The Impact of Teenage Pregnancy
00:44:15 Final Thoughts and Acknowledgements
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“Better Man. Better Father.”
01/08/2024
… because life can be meaningful and magical, my boy.
01/07/2024
Beware of the smoke and mirrors, my boy.
01/06/2024
We’ve got so much work to do, my boy.
01/05/2024
Be mindful of who you dismiss, my boy.
01/04/2024
Only up, my boy.
01/03/2024
Rumors are sure to come; make them hard to believe, my boy.
01/02/2024
In this free-flowing conversation, the two hosts discuss various socio-cultural and personal topics. They delve into the complexity of navigating life, addressing their journey with personal growth, authenticity, and their experiences as fathers. They reflect on the power of ego, the influence of people around them, the role of effective communication, expectations in relationships, and the significance of self-awareness. They touch upon the repercussions of false accusations, the impact of fabricated narratives, and the societal inclination to amplify negativity. An important aspect of their discussion is on the inherent difficulty of being human, the influence of external situations, and enduring societal pressures that often skew personal values. They also encourage open, candid conversations as a tool to improve understanding of oneself and others.
00:00:00 Introduction and Casual Conversation
00:00:10 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Changes
00:00:41 Discussing End of the Year Reflections
00:00:49 Reminiscing About the Show's Evolution
00:01:07 Appreciating the Journey and Acknowledging Challenges
00:02:09 Sports Talk and Friendly Banter
00:02:38 Official Show Introduction
00:04:43 Discussing the Impact of Scandals and Controversies
00:18:01 Reflecting on the Influence of Technology and AI
00:24:22 Discussing Expectations and Misunderstandings in Relationships
00:26:16 Desire for New Experiences and Physical Interaction
00:26:43 The Game of Being the Catch
00:27:16 Understanding Expectations and Communication
00:28:15 The Power of Ego and Pride
00:29:01 The Impact of People Around You
00:30:11 Tolerance vs Acceptance
00:31:21 The Importance of Genuine Conversations
00:31:40 The Reality of Relationships
00:32:18 The Challenge of Acceptance and Tolerance
00:32:46 Re-evaluating Friendships and Relationships
00:37:02 The Importance of Accountability
00:46:34 Understanding Identity and Genuine Conversations
00:48:46 The Importance of Growth and Progress
00:53:53 Acknowledging Good Things and Progress
Key Takeaways:
1. The hosts discuss the importance of understanding one's own uniqueness and identity in the face of societal influences. They emphasize that understanding who you truly are can guide your approach to relationships, decision-making, and personal growth.
2. The conversation highlights the significance of clear, open, and truthful communication in relationships, specifically, expressing one's actual truths without fear of how the other person may react. They suggest that such communication may prevent misunderstandings and build stronger bonds.
3. The hosts stress the fact that the individuals in one's immediate environment greatly shape their identity and behavior. They argue that one's interactions and experiences with these people substantially affect how they perceive themselves and the world.
4. The hosts explore the distinction between acceptance and tolerance in interpersonal dynamics. They suggest that while tolerance can be seen as coping with or enduring something, acceptance involves a more wholehearted and genuine embrace.
5. Lastly, the conversation unpacks the idea of living a life that's in conflict with one's public presentation. The hosts warn about the potential repercussions of such a conflicting lifestyle, encouraging listeners to live authentically and harmoniously with their public image.
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“Better Men. Better Fathers.”
12/31/2023
Carlton Young provides a great perspective on navigating the professional maze through a lens of leadership.
Escape the Rat Race: How Leadership Can Make You Wealthy
Carlton Young dives deep into his transition from a military career to entrepreneurship, in a series of powerful conversations. He discusses the intersection...
12/30/2023
Carlton Young dives deep into his transition from a military career to entrepreneurship, in a series of powerful conversations. He discusses the intersection of leadership, sales, and faith to overcome challenges and achieve success. Young's definition of wealth extends beyond monetary aspects, encompassing health, harmony, and personal advancement. He elaborates on his efforts to build generational wealth, emphasizing the harnessing of personal talents for prosperity. His practical financial advice and personal growth tips are key takeaways. He further stresses the significance of setting a positive precedent for his children and future generations. These thought-provoking discussions are part of the 'Wealth Blueprint' series, providing an insightful, beneficial viewing experience.
00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Background
00:00:23 The Importance of Family and Leading by Example
00:00:57 The Journey to Self-Improvement and Harmony
00:01:17 Introduction to the Wealth Blueprint Series
00:01:47 Guest Introduction: Carlton Young
00:02:19 Carlton's Early Life and Military Background
00:03:47 The Influence of Military Discipline
00:04:45 The Turning Point in Carlton's Life
00:05:35 The Impact of Moving and Cultural Exposure
00:09:31 The Role of Education and Career Choices
00:11:30 The Transition into Sales and Leadership
00:14:59 The Role of Faith in Personal and Professional Life
00:25:10 The Importance of Positive Mindset and Self-Care
00:29:55 Defining Wealth Beyond Monetary Terms
00:31:16 Appreciating the Lessons from Fatherhood
00:31:30 Defining Personal Wealth Beyond Material Possessions
00:32:01 The Role of Sales in Wealth Creation
00:33:06 The Art of Becoming Good at Sales
00:33:23 The Importance of Personal Development and Accountability in Sales
00:35:35 The Power of Problem Solving in Sales
00:35:50 The Intersection of Leadership and Sales
00:36:32 The Importance of Trying Different Paths in Life
00:37:35 The Journey of Learning and Expanding Wealth
00:38:25 The Intersection of Profession and Family Life
00:39:03 The Importance of Personal Growth in Leadership
00:40:24 The Role of Faith in Overcoming Challenges
00:41:30 The Importance of Problem Solving in Leadership
00:45:05 The Importance of Providing Value in Business
00:52:22 The Transition from Corporate America to Entrepreneurship
00:56:06 The Importance of Faith in Entrepreneurship
01:01:57 The Importance of Leaving a Legacy for Future Generations
Key Takeaways:
1. Carlton Young, the guest, shares about his journey from working in the military to progressing towards a career in sales and communications. He dealt with diverse roles including fiber technician, quality trainer, sales director, and now, transitioning into keynote speaking and leadership training.
2. Carlton emphasizes the importance of faith, personal development, and having a positive mindset. He believes that these elements have been crucial in shaping his career and life decisions.
3. He implements his leadership along with problem-solving skills in his professional and family life. He believes that real leaders take ownership of their mistakes and always strive to improve.
4. In terms of wealth, Carlton sees it not only as financial prosperity but also as health, happiness, personal and professional growth. Part of his wealth-building strategy includes investing in stocks, planning for real estate investments, and setting up insurance for greater financial security.
5. Carlton imparts to his children the values of hard work, the importance of education, and the essence of investing. He aims to create a legacy of wealth and prosperity for his family, emphasizing the importance of passing down economic stability through generations.
Produced by The Dear Son, Network and WBMS Media
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12/13/2023
The conversation explores the challenges and triumphs of the host's special guest, Vicki Blanton, a successful black ERISA attorney navigating the corporate world in America. She highlights her journey from being raised by divorced parents to her experiences of raising her own daughters, giving insights into her unique path to financial and personal success. The discussion also tackles the importance of consequential thinking, managing stress, and maintaining balance in both professional and personal life. Blanton's views on wealth as a matter of perspective rather than just financial status underscore the dialogue, noting that wealth extends to quality of life and personal peace of mind.
00:00:00 Introduction and Challenges of Being a Successful Black Woman in Corporate America
00:01:29 Beginning of the Wealth Blueprint Series
00:01:49 Introduction of Guest Vicki Blanton
00:02:09 Vicki Blanton's Background and Career
00:04:04 Discussion on Oak Cliff, Dallas
00:09:05 Vicki's Childhood and Early Experiences
00:09:54 Impact of Living Abroad in Japan
00:12:17 Vicki's Perspective on Wealth and Quality of Life
00:23:39 Parenting and Raising Successful Daughters
00:28:51 The Rise of Women in Business
00:37:24 The Importance of Skills in Sports
00:37:52 The Reality of Opportunities in Sports
00:38:24 Understanding the True Love for the Sport
00:39:32 The Concept of Ownership and Commitment
00:41:05 The Struggles of Being a Successful Woman in Corporate America
00:00:13 The Challenges of Being a Black Woman in Corporate America
00:44:38 The Power of Black Women in Society
01:00:23 The Importance of Personal Peace of Mind in Wealth Management
Key Takeaways:
1. Balance in conversations and decision-making is crucial to ensure a harmonious dynamic, both in personal and professional settings.
2. It's essential to consider the consequences of actions, choices, and decisions, which often requires a blend of rigidity and flexibility.
3. The ability to adapt to new cultures and experiences can significantly shape one's perspective of life and overall wealth.
4. Enhanced soft skills can provide an edge in environments like corporate America, where the nature of interactions is often direct and intense.
5. Being clear and concise in communication, but still wrapping it in love and understanding, creates a more fruitful and positive environment for growth.
Produced by The Dear Son, Network and WBMS Media
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12/06/2023
In this episode of The Wealth Blueprint, hosts D Johns and Phillip Washington Jr sit down with father, husband, and entrepreneur Anthony Hartzog, who shares his journey from growing up in the projects to building a successful cleaning business. Anthony talks about the importance of family, creating wealth, the significance of good money management, and the wisdom of being intentional with spending time with loved ones. He also emphasizes the necessity for financial education in the Black community and having serious long-term conversations about life and estate planning.
00:00 Introduction and Early Life
00:22 Understanding Wealth Beyond Finances
01:30 The Wealth Blueprint Series Begins
01:50 Guest Introduction: Anthony Hartzog
02:55 Anthony's Journey from Brooklyn to Entrepreneurship
04:36 The Transition to Entrepreneurship
05:33 The Influence of Faith and Family
07:01 The Role of Faith in Business and Personal Life
18:07 Defining Wealth and the Importance of Family
22:14 The Dynamics of a Family Business
26:50 Family and Business: A Unique Partnership
27:38 The Challenges of Mixing Business and Personal Life
28:45 Navigating Strong Personalities in Business
31:09 The Evolution of Personal Growth and Business Success
34:48 The Cleaning Business: A Journey of Entrepreneurship
38:50 The Importance of Online Presence in Business
43:18 The Hartrimony: A Brand Born from Love
44:41 Wealth Building and Estate Planning: A Family Perspective
Key Takeaways:
Being a family-first person can influence and shape the nature of your businesses and schedule. From their experiences, the character Anthony Hartzog explained the importance they place on spending time with their family, and how that factored into their decision to focus primarily on a residential cleaning business.
The power of being proactive and solution-oriented in business was reiterated. Rather than accepting the inefficiencies of existing systems, companies like the Hartzog's cleaning business sought to simplify and streamline processes for their clients, including online booking and payment.
Faith plays a significant role in their lives and businesses. It is one of their foundational values and guides their financial decisions. Tithing, for instance, was a non-negotiable practice for them, even as they worked on paying off debt.
Anthony highlighted the significance of having clear communication and boundaries when working with a spouse. They stressed the need for understanding each other's strengths and using them to complement each other's work rather than cause friction.
Having a long-term perspective on wealth was underscored. Generational wealth, from ensuring their daughter's financial stability to setting up a trust, are all part of their financial strategy. They also addressed the importance of preparing for the unexpected, such as setting up life insurance.
Produced by Dear Son Podcast Network and WBMS Media
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In this episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' hosts J Black and D Johns engage in a meaningful conversation about responsibility, preparedness, and the unexpected lessons life throws at us. They discuss a personal experience involving an unintentional firearm incident at an airport, the implications, and the importance of being judgmental and aware of one's surroundings. The hosts also delve into the evolution of friendship loyalty, gun safety, and how these topics are crucial conversations to have with their children. The episode concludes with an exciting announcement about the 'Dear Son, Network' obtaining its trademark, signifying a major milestone in their journey. 00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Beliefs 00:00:40 Airport Incident Unfolds 00:01:46 Welcome to the Dear Son Show 00:02:16 Weekly Catch-Up 00:03:14 Travel Experiences and Reflections 00:04:37 The Airport Incident Revisited 00:09:17 Legal Consequences and Reflections 00:16:11 Gun Culture and Personal Experiences 00:19:57 Judgment and Grace 00:21:59 Facing the Consequences 00:22:47 The Complexity of Loyalty 00:24:32 Father-Son Conversations 00:26:22 Real-Life Examples and Lessons 00:31:20 Gun Safety and Family Dynamics 00:39:02 Trademarking Success 00:46:06 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Key Takeaways: 1. **Gun Safety and Legal Consequences**: The speakers discuss the importance of gun safety, especially when traveling, sharing a personal story about accidentally carrying a loaded weapon in an airport. They highlight legal consequences, such as fines and losing TSA pre-check status, and reflect on the oversight and responsibility necessary to avoid such situations. 2. **Judgment and Understanding**: There's an emphasis on not being judgmental and understanding the context of others' actions. They point out how quick judgments can be misleading, sharing anecdotes about people making assumptions without knowing comprehensive details, thus advocating for empathy and broader awareness. 3. **Influences and L
Navigating Life's Challenges: The Fight Within | Ep 94
In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D. Johns and Jey Blac delve deep into the struggles and motivations of fatherhood and family life. They discuss the importance of internal motivation, the challenges of balancing family responsibilities with personal and professional aspirations, and the critical issue of maintaining authenticity in the face of external pressures. The conversation also touches on themes of aging parents, transitioning children, and personal pride. They underscore the significance of staying true to one's 'why' amidst life's adversities, sharing personal anecdotes that provide insights into their journeys as fathers and husbands. Tune in for a meaningful discussion aimed at fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. 00:00:00 Introduction and Opening Thoughts 00:00:47 Welcome to the Dear Son Show 00:01:10 Hosts' Personal Updates 00:01:37 Family Challenges and Reflections 00:04:10 Conversations with Dad 00:06:10 The Fight of Life 00:09:46 Business and Loyalty 00:12:06 Impact on Family and Children 00:16:23 Balancing Family and Career 00:18:41 Remembering Your Why 00:23:47 Reflecting on the Journey 00:24:33 The Importance of Internal Motivation 00:26:00 Balancing Determination and Well-being 00:28:33 Learning from Setbacks 00:30:57 Standing Firm in Business Decisions 00:33:43 The Struggle with Pride 00:36:25 The Value of Support Systems 00:41:28 Future Plans and Personal Growth 00:43:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Kevin Butler's Journey: From Sports to Success in Real Estate & Construction
The video features a deep-dive conversation with Dallas-based entrepreneur Kevin Butler, who runs a construction and a commercial masonry company. From discussing his early learning about money and work ethics to connecting with his father later in life, Butler shares his journey in entrepreneurship. The discussion extends to his involvement in mentoring via a basketball program and his insights on wealth creation through real estate investments with a focus on the understanding of history and economics. The video also explores the intersection of wealth development and fatherhood. The video concludes with Butler inviting viewers to connect further via LinkedIn and Instagram. 00:00:00 Introduction and Early Life 00:01:17 Learning Money Principles 00:01:56 Welcome to the Wealth Blueprint Series 00:02:12 Guest Introduction: Kevin Butler 00:02:27 Kevin's Journey from Mississippi to Oakland 00:03:28 The Impact of Oakland on Kevin's Life 00:07:01 Kevin's Early Work Ethic and Financial Lessons 00:20:13 Reconnecting with His Father and Entering Construction 00:26:42 The Evolution into Development and Investment 00:32:39 Discussing Faith and Purpose 00:34:03 Understanding Your Unique Gift 00:34:58 Transitioning into Business Talk 00:35:31 The Journey of Building a Business 00:37:12 The Importance of Passion in Business 00:38:32 Expanding the Business and Partnering with Big Firms 00:40:46 The Role of Supplier Performance in Business 00:44:14 The Importance of Authenticity and Adaptability 00:59:00 Investing in Real Estate and Understanding Market Trends 01:02:08 Closing Thoughts and Contact Information Key Takeaways: 1. The importance of work ethic: Kevin Butler shares how he began working at the age of 11, and that instilling a strong work ethic in him from an early age shaped his entrepreneurial spirit and dedication to his career. 2. Importance of mentorship: Kevin credits much of his knowledge and success to the mentorship he received from his father and cousin, bot
Now That Your Resolutions Have Failed... | Ep 93
In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac have candid conversations about fostering better family life and personal growth on the cusp of the New Year. They discuss the importance of lightening the load at home, being more active in family roles, the art of delegating responsibilities, and managing frustrations. They also delve into the significance of setting resolutions, staying true to them, treating goals as daily commitments, and having a healthier, more intentional lifestyle. Importantly, they highlight the cruciality of self-care, checking in on family and friends, and treating group efforts seriously. Moreover, they express their determination to make significant changes in their personal and professional life in the upcoming year. 00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote 00:01:35 Welcome to the DSR Show 00:02:00 New Year Reflections and Resolutions 00:02:20 The Problem with Resolutions 00:03:09 Setting Goals and Focus for the New Year 00:03:50 The Importance of Education and Follow Through 00:05:31 Restoration and Learning to Ask for Help 00:07:26 Diversification in Life and Business 00:08:57 Lightening the Family Load 00:19:07 The Importance of Time Allocation and Family Time 00:21:37 The Struggle with Rest and Guilt 00:22:23 The Dangers of Hustle Culture 00:23:10 The Importance of Self-Care 00:24:27 The Challenge of Overextension 00:25:02 The Art of Saying No 00:27:22 The Importance of Asking for Help 00:27:26 The Consequences of Ignoring Health 00:32:07 The Journey to Better Health 00:36:11 The Importance of Treating Your Network Right 00:38:50 The Power of Engaging with Your Circle follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns
So Much to Shay | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 92
In this video podcast, hosts Jay Black and D John share candid discussion about the web of influence, the impact of actions on character and the responsibility as parents to guide their children in making better decisions. Their conversation reflects on recent events and self-reflective moments and underscores the importance of weighing every piece of information before forming conclusions. They also talk about stand-up comedian Katt Williams's recent interview with Club Shay Shay and the assumptions and reactions that ensued. The hosts take a broad view, focusing on the broader life lessons to learn about personal development, critical thinking, and standing up for one's values. 00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes 00:01:16 Welcome to the Dear Son Show 00:01:37 NFL Sunday, Week 18 Discussion 00:04:43 Current Events and Internet Trends 00:05:15 Comedian Battle Situation Analysis 00:11:41 Impact of Popularity Over Truth 00:21:20 Expectations from Family and Friends 00:22:22 Character Assessment and Personal Growth 00:25:00 Understanding Friendships and Disagreements 00:25:52 The Importance of Truth in Relationships 00:26:15 Consequences of Being 'Loud and Wrong' 00:26:49 Recognizing and Avoiding Trouble 00:27:09 The Role of Parents in Guiding Their Children 00:27:46 The Importance of Open Communication 00:28:10 Reflecting on Personal Experiences 00:29:05 The Impact of Jumping to Conclusions 00:34:07 The Importance of Influence and Character 00:36:14 Reflecting on Past Mistakes and Lessons Learned 00:39:54 The Impact of Teenage Pregnancy 00:44:15 Final Thoughts and Acknowledgements follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcomp
The Court of Public Opinion Exposed: The Ugly Truth
In this free-flowing conversation, the two hosts discuss various socio-cultural and personal topics. They delve into the complexity of navigating life, addressing their journey with personal growth, authenticity, and their experiences as fathers. They reflect on the power of ego, the influence of people around them, the role of effective communication, expectations in relationships, and the significance of self-awareness. They touch upon the repercussions of false accusations, the impact of fabricated narratives, and the societal inclination to amplify negativity. An important aspect of their discussion is on the inherent difficulty of being human, the influence of external situations, and enduring societal pressures that often skew personal values. They also encourage open, candid conversations as a tool to improve understanding of oneself and others. 00:00:00 Introduction and Casual Conversation 00:00:10 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Changes 00:00:41 Discussing End of the Year Reflections 00:00:49 Reminiscing About the Show's Evolution 00:01:07 Appreciating the Journey and Acknowledging Challenges 00:02:09 Sports Talk and Friendly Banter 00:02:38 Official Show Introduction 00:04:43 Discussing the Impact of Scandals and Controversies 00:18:01 Reflecting on the Influence of Technology and AI 00:24:22 Discussing Expectations and Misunderstandings in Relationships 00:26:16 Desire for New Experiences and Physical Interaction 00:26:43 The Game of Being the Catch 00:27:16 Understanding Expectations and Communication 00:28:15 The Power of Ego and Pride 00:29:01 The Impact of People Around You 00:30:11 Tolerance vs Acceptance 00:31:21 The Importance of Genuine Conversations 00:31:40 The Reality of Relationships 00:32:18 The Challenge of Acceptance and Tolerance 00:32:46 Re-evaluating Friendships and Relationships 00:37:02 The Importance of Accountability 00:46:34 Understanding Identity and Genuine Conversations 00:48:46 The Importance of Growth and Progress 00:53:53 A
Escape the Rat Race: How Leadership Can Make You Wealthy
Carlton Young dives deep into his transition from a military career to entrepreneurship, in a series of powerful conversations. He discusses the intersection of leadership, sales, and faith to overcome challenges and achieve success. Young's definition of wealth extends beyond monetary aspects, encompassing health, harmony, and personal advancement. He elaborates on his efforts to build generational wealth, emphasizing the harnessing of personal talents for prosperity. His practical financial advice and personal growth tips are key takeaways. He further stresses the significance of setting a positive precedent for his children and future generations. These thought-provoking discussions are part of the 'Wealth Blueprint' series, providing an insightful, beneficial viewing experience. 00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Background 00:00:23 The Importance of Family and Leading by Example 00:00:57 The Journey to Self-Improvement and Harmony 00:01:17 Introduction to the Wealth Blueprint Series 00:01:47 Guest Introduction: Carlton Young 00:02:19 Carlton's Early Life and Military Background 00:03:47 The Influence of Military Discipline 00:04:45 The Turning Point in Carlton's Life 00:05:35 The Impact of Moving and Cultural Exposure 00:09:31 The Role of Education and Career Choices 00:11:30 The Transition into Sales and Leadership 00:14:59 The Role of Faith in Personal and Professional Life 00:25:10 The Importance of Positive Mindset and Self-Care 00:29:55 Defining Wealth Beyond Monetary Terms 00:31:16 Appreciating the Lessons from Fatherhood 00:31:30 Defining Personal Wealth Beyond Material Possessions 00:32:01 The Role of Sales in Wealth Creation 00:33:06 The Art of Becoming Good at Sales 00:33:23 The Importance of Personal Development and Accountability in Sales 00:35:35 The Power of Problem Solving in Sales 00:35:50 The Intersection of Leadership and Sales 00:36:32 The Importance of Trying Different Paths in Life 00:37:35 The Journey of Learning and Expanding Wealth 00:3
The Art of Compassionate Confidence
The conversation explores the challenges and triumphs of the host's special guest, Vicki Blanton, a successful black ERISA attorney navigating the corporate world in America. She highlights her journey from being raised by divorced parents to her experiences of raising her own daughters, giving insights into her unique path to financial and personal success. The discussion also tackles the importance of consequential thinking, managing stress, and maintaining balance in both professional and personal life. Blanton's views on wealth as a matter of perspective rather than just financial status underscore the dialogue, noting that wealth extends to quality of life and personal peace of mind. 00:00:00 Introduction and Challenges of Being a Successful Black Woman in Corporate America 00:01:29 Beginning of the Wealth Blueprint Series 00:01:49 Introduction of Guest Vicki Blanton 00:02:09 Vicki Blanton's Background and Career 00:04:04 Discussion on Oak Cliff, Dallas 00:09:05 Vicki's Childhood and Early Experiences 00:09:54 Impact of Living Abroad in Japan 00:12:17 Vicki's Perspective on Wealth and Quality of Life 00:23:39 Parenting and Raising Successful Daughters 00:28:51 The Rise of Women in Business 00:37:24 The Importance of Skills in Sports 00:37:52 The Reality of Opportunities in Sports 00:38:24 Understanding the True Love for the Sport 00:39:32 The Concept of Ownership and Commitment 00:41:05 The Struggles of Being a Successful Woman in Corporate America 00:00:13 The Challenges of Being a Black Woman in Corporate America 00:44:38 The Power of Black Women in Society 01:00:23 The Importance of Personal Peace of Mind in Wealth Management Key Takeaways: 1. Balance in conversations and decision-making is crucial to ensure a harmonious dynamic, both in personal and professional settings. 2. It's essential to consider the consequences of actions, choices, and decisions, which often requires a blend of rigidity and flexibility. 3. The ability to adapt to new cultures an
From $100K Debt to Wealth: Anthony Hartzog's Story
In this episode of The Wealth Blueprint, hosts D Johns and Phillip Washington Jr sit down with father, husband, and entrepreneur Anthony Hartzog, who shares his journey from growing up in the projects to building a successful cleaning business. Anthony talks about the importance of family, creating wealth, the significance of good money management, and the wisdom of being intentional with spending time with loved ones. He also emphasizes the necessity for financial education in the Black community and having serious long-term conversations about life and estate planning. 00:00 Introduction and Early Life 00:22 Understanding Wealth Beyond Finances 01:30 The Wealth Blueprint Series Begins 01:50 Guest Introduction: Anthony Hartzog 02:55 Anthony's Journey from Brooklyn to Entrepreneurship 04:36 The Transition to Entrepreneurship 05:33 The Influence of Faith and Family 07:01 The Role of Faith in Business and Personal Life 18:07 Defining Wealth and the Importance of Family 22:14 The Dynamics of a Family Business 26:50 Family and Business: A Unique Partnership 27:38 The Challenges of Mixing Business and Personal Life 28:45 Navigating Strong Personalities in Business 31:09 The Evolution of Personal Growth and Business Success 34:48 The Cleaning Business: A Journey of Entrepreneurship 38:50 The Importance of Online Presence in Business 43:18 The Hartrimony: A Brand Born from Love 44:41 Wealth Building and Estate Planning: A Family Perspective Key Takeaways: Being a family-first person can influence and shape the nature of your businesses and schedule. From their experiences, the character Anthony Hartzog explained the importance they place on spending time with their family, and how that factored into their decision to focus primarily on a residential cleaning business. The power of being proactive and solution-oriented in business was reiterated. Rather than accepting the inefficiencies of existing systems, companies like the Hartzog's cleaning business sought to simpli
Mastering the Legal Hustle | TWB S1 E4 | Sean Tate
In this episode, guest Sean Tate, a real estate and business attorney, shares his personal experiences and challenges in building his law firm. Hosted by D Johns and Phillip Washington, Jr. they discuss wealth creation, the importance of fiscal stability, their methods for managing stress in high-stress jobs, and the significance of mentorships and professional networks in success. They share insights about the entrepreneurial journey, emphasizing the necessity of adaptability, belief in self, and maintaining patience. The conversation revolves around Sean’s journey as a lawyer and his consistent efforts to improve the lives of the people in their community. They also speak about issues of systemic racism and the difficulty faced by many Black professionals and entrepreneurs. Key Takeaways: The key takeaways from this episode with Sean Tate, a real estate and business attorney, are: 1. Understanding the bias and expectations people may have is important. Staying positive and being the best feeling person in the room can help overcome biases others might hold. 2. Embracing change, believing in oneself, and maintaining a high tolerance for unexpected situations are vital attributes needed in achieving success and wealth. 3. Communication, being consistent, and being reliable not only in business but also in personal life are crucial. Being honest about your current situation lessens the burden and confusion on both parties involved. 4. Learning to ask for help when needed is not a sign of weakness, but an opportunity for growth and solving problems more effectively. 5. Taking care of your health translates into better performance in your job. Regular physical activity can help in managing stress and staying sharp. 6. Being resilient and patient, especially when things aren't going as planned, can help you navigate your career in the long run. 7. Finally, embracing continuous learning is vital as the business and technological landscape evolves. In the leg
Why Dads Need to Slow Down | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 90 #fatherhood #anxious #anxiety
Sometimes you just need to slow down. In this episode, we discuss various personal experiences to emphasize the importance of slowing down in life. We got into our hectic daily schedules, balancing family and work, overcommitting to tasks, and the challenges of entrepreneurship. This conversation highlights the importance of effective communication within families and re-evaluating their priorities to maintain a healthy work-life balance. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital #daddyissues #parentingadvice #blackfathers #fatherandson #parentingtips #betterparents #vulnerable #beliefsystem Latest DSN Series, The Wealth Blueprint: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-wealth-blueprint/id1714573861 Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow the show: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs
Discipline is the Key to Wealth | TWB S1 E3 | Robbie Thompson
Robbie Thompson, an engineer and executive in the architectural engineering construction field, joins the Wealth Blueprint Series to discuss his origin story and the importance of family and finance. He shares his experiences growing up with a hardworking mother who taught him the value of education and discipline. Robbie also talks about his entrepreneurial ventures in high school and the opportunities for wealth building in the construction industry. He emphasizes the need for second chance offenders to explore careers in construction and the importance of passing down wealth principles to the next generation. Key Takeaways: - Opportunities for second chance offenders in the construction industry can help close the labor gap and provide a path to financial stability. - Real estate is a valuable wealth-building tool, but it's important to invest in affordable areas with growth potential. - Balancing work and family life requires open communication and understanding in relationships. - Hard work, problem-solving, and leadership skills are crucial in the architectural engineering construction fields. Produced by Dear Son Podcast Network and WBMS Media https://thedearsonpodcast.com https://wealthbuildingmadesimple.us Follow Phillip: https://instagram.com/askphillip Follow Derek: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. #blackwealth #blackchamberofcommerce #dallastexas #familyandfinance #successful #executive #hbcu #southdallas
The 9-year-old Mortician | The Wealth Blueprint | S1 Ep 2
Christie K, a mortician and advocate for generational wealth, shares her journey and insights on the intersection of family and finance. She emphasizes the importance of intentionality, prayer, and following God's guidance. Christie discusses her experience in the funeral home industry, overcoming challenges, and educating families. She highlights the significance of teaching her daughter about wealth and success, focusing on mindset and intention. Christie's story is a testament to the power of faith and perseverance in achieving personal and financial goals. She also discusses her nonprofit, the Christie K Foundation, which supports aspiring and current entrepreneurs. Key Takeaways: - Wealth and success are relative and defined by the ability to do what you want every day without financial constraints. - Being intentional in business means serving God's people through education and empathy. - Following intuition and relying on prayer can guide decisions and actions. - Supporting and uplifting your partner in their entrepreneurial journey is crucial for success. - Giving back through first fruits, tithing, alms, and offering can lead to abundance and blessings. Produced by The Dear Son, Network and WBMS Media
Top 5 Lessons I've Learned From My Kids | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 89 #fatherhood #top5 #studentteacher
This platform focuses on lessons we’ve learned as men and how we apply them to fatherhood. Sometimes we need to take a step back and identify what we’re learning from our children. We used this episode to be very intentional about giving our children their flowers. The assignment was for each of us to bring five lessons to the episode, but we didn’t compare notes. Luckily, the lists didn’t overlap… so we’re really delivering the top 10 lessons we’ve learned from our children. The episode is serious but delivered in a lighthearted manner. Laughter is good for the soul. It is amazing how much you can learn from your children when a little humility is applied. Too often the pressures of parenthood are self-inflicted. That is, we take it so seriously that we miss the beautiful moments of being present. As a father of 5, I can assure you that there is no play-by-play guide to always getting parenthood right. I have learned to renew my commitment to being better every morning. Little by little…bit by bit, I’ve noticed the growth. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20li
Fatherhood Is Overwhelming | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 88 #fatherhood #pressure #overwhelmed
The fatherhood journey has emotional phases. We should talk about that more. At some point, just being resilient isn’t enough. I encourage all fathers to find safe spaces to emotionally dump the toxins within. That’s what this episode was for me. If you feel a way, process that feeling. When necessary, seek professional help. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital #daddyissues #parentingadvice #blackfathers #fatherandson #parentingtips #betterparents #vulnerable #beliefsystem Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow the show: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.co Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishajstudios.com Other social media: http
Entrepreneurship Sucks. It's Also Great. | The Wealth Blueprint | Ep 1 w Matt Houston
Matt Houston, a professor, and entrepreneur, joins hosts D Johns and Phillip Washington Jr. on the Wealth Blueprint podcast to discuss the development of generational wealth in the Black community. They explore the importance of knowledge transfer and the role of traditional education in wealth creation. Matt shares his personal experiences growing up in a middle-class family and the impact of his father's entrepreneurial ventures. The conversation also delves into the challenges of balancing entrepreneurship and family life, as well as the potential for entrepreneurship to create opportunities for Black individuals. They also discuss a recent meeting with the Dallas Economic Development Corporation and the lack of understanding and support for the Black perspective in economic development initiatives. The hosts wrap up the episode with positive feedback and encourage listeners to follow them on social media. Key Takeaways: - Generational wealth is the transfer of knowledge through bloodlines to equip future generations for success. - Traditional education plays a role in wealth development by providing a foundation for processing information and developing critical thinking skills. - Entrepreneurship offers the potential for creating generational wealth and along with it comes the lesson of learning to deal with uncertainty - Diverse perspectives are essential in decision-making processes to ensure comprehensive and effective solutions. - Genuine efforts are needed to build systems that benefit the black community and address social issues. Produced by Dear Son, Network and WBMS Media These conversations from the intersection of Family and Finance are long overdue. We hope that you enjoy this episode and the others that will be released weekly (Wednesday). Follow Phillip: https://instagram.com/askphillip Follow Derek: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the noti
Your Purpose Will Be Attacked | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 87 #fatherhood #parenting #generations #legacy #resilience
Purpose is heavy and often looks foreign to others. Stay the course. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital #daddyissues #parentingadvice #blackfathers #fatherandson #parentingtips #betterparents #vulnerable #beliefsystem Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow the show: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.co Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishajstudios.com Other social media: https://twitter.com/dearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast https://tiktok.com/podcast_pops The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help others through telling stories of it all “Better Men. B
I Went Too Far | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 86 #fatherhood #parenting #generations #legacy #transparency
Dear son, I went too far! We don’t discuss this often, but I was once a child. Not only was I a child, but a very stupid one at different phases. Well, maybe not a stupid child, but if you isolated certain actions and behaviors, you could easily classify me as stupid-adjacent. This was a very lighthearted discussion, and it the message is impactful. Yes, those two seemingly opposing concepts can be simultaneously true. Enjoy the banter, but don’t miss the jewels. We took advantage of this safe space to evaluate how far the apple fell from the tree. We take parenting seriously, but sometimes we need a quick reminder that we didn’t always have life figured out. We still don’t have life figured out. We departed the hypocritical role of the know-it-all dad and evaluated life through the lens of grace. That’s the beauty of having transparent meaningful conversations with someone that will hold you accountable. Sometimes collectively searching for answers yields collateral benefit beyond the desired solutions. That’s how this platform works, and I pray that you find value here. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcas
The Torch is Yours | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 85 #fatherhood #parenting #generations #legacy
Dear son, the torch is yours! I think every proud father looks forward to the day when he knows his son is ready to the lead the family. There’s no generic timeline for this transition of authority, and the path is nuanced for each scenario. What does the preparation look like? Do fathers and sons even discuss this in advance or do most wait for an untimely life event to thrust the weight of patriarchy onto an unsuspecting son. I also want to believe that my son will be ready, yet this conversation caused me to question whether I’m fully prepared to receive the responsibility from my father. He is a great man and led the household with integrity, under the fear of God. The challenge was me. I didn’t always want his information as he attempted to impart it. Even with the information gap, his example was more than enough for me to understand the basics of manhood and fatherhood. We took advantage of this safe space to evaluate how we want our sons to honor the family legacy. There were several gaps identified between where we are and where we want to be. That’s the beauty of having transparent meaningful conversations with someone that will hold you accountable. Sometimes collectively searching for answers yields collateral benefit beyond the desired solutions. That’s how this platform works, and I pray that you find value here. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the bes
Don’t Prey On Broken Women | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 84 #fatherhood #parenting #brokenrelationships #dating
Dear son, don’t prey on broken women. In this age of opportunity and seemingly unlimited access to everything, don’t allow women to become a commodity in your mind. Every opportunity to gain, isn’t a good or fair opportunity, especially when it comes to women. The simple truth is that how you treat them is always a reflection of you. The woman you choose reflects your decision making, tolerances, and morals. Remember that. Now, I’ll dismount my high horse to communicate more transparently and practically. This conversation stems from experiences (personal and observed), and it caused me to address some of my past behaviors. Some of the perspective sounded hypocritical in real-time; however, I’d rather have these conversations with my son to give him a roadmap rather than celebrate him arriving at the same destinations I should’ve avoided. We took advantage of this safe space to evaluate how we want our sons to view women, and how we want our daughters to view themselves. There’s so much bad advice about who is the “prize,” and all the while prizes are rewards for playing games. We can play around with the semantics and delineate between earthly and heavenly applications, I get it. I don’t want my daughters believing that they are an objective accomplishment based on a man’s performance. Okay…so I’ve mounted the high horse again. Check the episode and sound off as you’re so inspired. This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it. We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in yo
