Asher Witmer

11/07/2025

Political idolatry views people on the other side as enemies to destroy rather than neighbors to love.

Allegiance to Jesus loves your neighbor who votes or sees things differently, refusing to demonize them.

11/06/2025

"What are we really committed to?"

Are we committed to seeing biblical values actually fulfilled—lives cared for, abortions decreased, the vulnerable protected—or just to supporting a political movement that claims to do that?

It's easy to get swept up in agendas. But followers of Jesus are called to ask:

Is what we're doing actually helping people flourish?

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11/04/2025

What if marriage and singleness both tell the same story—just from different angles?

In this conversation, Greg Coles shares how marriage mirrors the coming union between Christ and His Church, while singleness declares the sufficiency of Jesus right now.

Whether we're married or single, both invite us to live as if we're already betrothed to Christ.

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11/02/2025

Most accountability groups don't fail because men stop showing up.

They fail because the structure itself never went deep enough.

In this free resource, I unpack six avoidable reasons most men's accountability groups fall short—and how to build ones that lead to real healing and lasting freedom.

This isn't about willpower or shame. It's about learning to walk together toward wholeness.

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11/01/2025

This might be one of the most honest conversations I've had on divorce and remarriage.

In this clip, Dwight Gingrich shares about a friend whose husband was unfaithful.

It wasn't a permission to leave that gave her strength to stay—it was the freedom to choose.

When her counselor told her she had the right to divorce according to Scripture, she said it gave her the courage to fight for her marriage.

It's a powerful picture of grace that validates both the pain of betrayal and the hope of restoration.

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10/31/2025

Ever been part of an accountability group that started with good intentions but slowly fizzled out?

You're not alone. In this free ebook, I explore six common reasons accountability groups fail—and what kind of honesty, trust, and structure actually help men grow in sexual integrity and spiritual maturity.

Accountability doesn't have to be awkward, shallow, or guilt-driven. It can be transformational.

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Make your accountability group more effective. This free ebook helps you create a setting where men feel safe to open up and share vulnerably about what they're going through and find lasting freedom from p**n.

10/30/2025

"God will marry us."

That's how Laurie Krieg summed up the story of Scripture.

Ephesians 5:32 isn't just about marriage advice — it's a revelation of Christ and the Church.

The point isn't that marriage illustrates Christ's love; it's that Christ's love defines marriage itself.

Our relationships are meant to reflect the union of heaven and earth, of the eternal God who became one with His people.

When you really see it, "You may now kiss the bride" feels a lot more sacred.

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10/29/2025

Accountability groups tend to fail men because any form of unwanted sexual behavior is a symptom of a deeper issue that accountability groups are rarely designed to explore or solve.

If those leading the group are not aware of and trained in dealing with psychological, emotional, and spiritual components of ones being, they will only be able to address behavioral modification and provide surface care at best.

But people struggling with sexual sin need something far deeper than comfort in their struggle or reporting on their goals for behavioral change.

10/28/2025

The way of Jesus isn't just about having the right sexual ethic.

It's also about how we engage people—with humility, gentleness, and love.

Too many Christians today act like the fight is political. But the warfare isn't against parties — it's about whether we choose to walk in the way of Jesus and that question runs through the heart of every person, including our own.

There are people on the left who need Jesus.

There are people on the right who need Jesus.

Our president needs Jesus.

We all do.

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10/26/2025

When Greg Coles was 24, he went for a walk and told Jesus he'd do anything He asked.

Then, Greg recalls,

"I remember Jesus asking me really clearly: does that include talking to people about your sexuality?"

That moment changed everything.

In this clip, Greg shares how honesty about his story became part of knowing—and being known by—the love of God. It's a reminder that we all long to be seen fully and loved fully, and that love is one of the ways we experience the face of God.

🎧 Watch or listen to the full Unfeigned Christianity Podcast episode → https://www.asherwitmer.com/single-gay-christian/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=facebook_page&utm_medium=Asher%20Witmer

10/25/2025

If you've grown up believing sexual desire is shameful, this might be freeing to read.

In this article, I explore what it means to experience sexual desire as a single person without drowning in shame—or acting out in ways that harm ourselves and others.

Desire isn't the enemy. It's a sign of something sacred within us, pointing to our deeper need for communion and love.

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A Christian look at sexual arousal vs. lust for singles—why arousal isn’t automatically sin, how to respond wisely, and practical next steps toward freedom.

10/24/2025

Did Jesus' teaching on divorce come from a rabbinic debate between Hillel and Shammai?

That's what most of us have heard. But as Dwight Gingrich explains in this conversation, that debate likely didn't even exist yet in Jesus' time.

Instead, most Jews believed divorce was permissible for any reason—even something as trivial as a burned meal.

That's the backdrop for Jesus' words in Matthew 19. He wasn't splitting hairs between rabbis. He was calling out an entire culture's easy acceptance of divorce and restoring God's original vision for faithfulness.

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