Hey, it’s Shar.

13/02/2025

12/02/2025

Manifestation:
Preparing for the abundance that God said already belongs to me! ✨

19/06/2024

Why does no one talk about how weird friendship breakups are? It’s such a bizarre feeling, but you know that phase of your life has passed…
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19/06/2024

If God cares enough to provide for the birds flying above you daily, imagine what he’ll do for you. The very species he made in his likeness.
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Stop worrying, girl! He’s got you 🤞🏽
Matthew 6:26-27

16/06/2024

I woke up this morning with the lingering worries of yesterday but with that tiny desire to overcome them. I decided to sit in it. I wanted not to figure out what was wrong but what was supposed to come from it. I didn’t have the breath to pray, but I desired to be heard by God. I genuinely understand what older women meant when they’d say, “When you can’t say a word, you just moan.” I found myself just feeling, “God, hear my heart.” Although I have no clue where the trauma of these events will settle within me, I do know that it’ll be a permanent fixture in the history of the woman I’ve become. Earlier this year, God told me, “Brace for impact.” Having no actual knowledge of the impact, I carried this warning. Even finding humor in understanding the word, I’m reminded that “Warning comes before destruction”…..
I’m destructed.

•Destruction: The action or process of causing so much damage to something that it no longer exists or cannot be repaired.

I have no desire to be repaired. Repairing often consists of being mended. Keeping and utilizing the same foundation, only tending to the broken parts. I have no desire to exist in my prior foundation. I want these fractured parts of me to be nothing more than a landmark.

•Landmark: an event, discovery, or change marking a critical stage or turning point.

Although I’m still in the dark phases of the traumas I’ve experienced, I’m finding my solace in the “why.” Not the Why me? Not the why now? Not even the why this…. I’m hanging on because when I get to the other side, I’ll be able to say…. THIS WAS WHY!

01/06/2024

We’ve done a thing 👀
Enjoy the introduction & “Soft Listening” of Hey, it’s Shar. 💕

https://youtu.be/l8wZysHbhA0?si=UWOUjikYq0-TOOta

We hope you’ve found a new place to call home!

09/04/2024

If you love them, hold them accountable. Don’t make everyone else responsible for their behavior.

04/04/2024

If you always see yourself as a victim, you will continually attract people to victimize you.

03/04/2024

Courage is doing what you know has to be done before you are forced to do it.

28/03/2024

Love is durable. Trust is fragile.

07/03/2024

We are gearing up for our first episode of “Hey, it’s Shar” Podcast. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and click the notification 🔔 bell so you won’t miss the premiere!

A safe space to talk our s #!t and pour back into one another. We’re having the conversations your grandma should’ve had with you, but didn’t have the tools t...

21/02/2024

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12/01/2024

Hey, babe!
When was the last time you took care of YOU?
Taking care of yourself is especially important during times of stress or when you are feeling overwhelmed. Practicing good self-care can help you manage stress levels, improve your mood, and increase your overall sense of happiness and well-being. It is important to prioritize self-care as a regular part of your routine, rather than just something you do when you are feeling particularly stressed or overwhelmed. By making self-care a habit, you can help ensure that you are always taking care of yourself, even during challenging times.
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12/01/2024

Just in case you forgot, here’s a thread 🫶🏼
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10/01/2024

A 30-day trial like Hulu🍿
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10/01/2024

Welcome home, Babe!

A safe space to talk our s #!t and pour back into one another.
We’re going to cover it ALL over here with weekly topics ranging from faith, Love, relationships, s*x, and sooooo much more!

This our house and if you don’t like it… Do what Beyoncé said 😉
(Alexa, play “My House”, by Beyoncé)
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