11/30/2025
Life has a way of unraveling quietly at first, and then all at once. For George, the unraveling felt relentless. His car gave up on him. His job drained every ounce of joy he had left. His marriage slipped into a cold, polite distance. He moved through his days feeling cornered, worn down, and certain that the world had nothing good left to offer.
And then Joy stepped in.
Not the feeling, but an actual person. A bus driver with a laugh that cut through his gloom and a belief in possibility that refused to be shaken. With her came ten simple rules that didn’t just challenge George, but flipped his entire outlook upside down. What began as an ordinary ride to work slowly transformed into an unexpected journey back to himself.
Jon Gordon’s The Energy Bus is exactly that kind of story. It’s a sharp jolt, a small book with a big pulse, reminding you that momentum is something you choose, not something you wait for. It pushes, nudges, and sometimes provokes you into seeing that the direction of your life is still in your hands.
Here are five of the ten rules that stayed with me long after turning the last page:
1. You're the Driver of Your Bus
George's car breaks down on the worst possible morning. But Joy doesn't offer him sympathy—she offers him a mirror. "You've been riding shotgun in your own life," she tells him. The truth lands like a gut punch: he's been blaming traffic, bosses, bad luck—everything but the person with hands on the wheel.
This rule is the foundation. It says: You may not control what happens, but you absolutely control how you respond. The moment George stops waiting for life to fix itself and starts steering with intention, everything shifts. Victim mode or driver mode—you pick.
2. Desire, Vision, and Focus Move Your Bus in the Right Direction
Joy hands George a piece of paper and asks him to write down where he wants to go. Not vague wishes. Not "I hope things get better." A real vision—vivid, specific, and compelling enough to fight for.
Because here's the thing: if you don't know where you're headed, every road looks like the right one. George learns that clarity is rocket fuel. When you can see the destination, suddenly obstacles become detours, not dead ends. Your focus sharpens. Your decisions align. The bus starts moving with purpose.
3. Fuel Your Ride with Positive Energy
George used to think positivity was for people who didn't understand how hard life really is. Then Joy shows him the scoreboard: his negativity was costing him his health, his relationships, his results. Every complaint, every rant, every "nothing ever works out"—it was all draining the tank.
Positive energy isn't about pretending problems don't exist. It's about choosing to focus on solutions instead of spirals. Gratitude instead of grievance. What builds you up instead of what tears you down. George starts fueling differently—and the ride transforms.
4. Invite People on Your Bus and Share Your Vision for the Road Ahead
George realizes something powerful: energy spreads. When he finally opens up at work and shares his vision, a few people lean in. They want to be part of something that matters. They're tired of going through the motions too.
This rule is about leadership—not the kind with a title, but the kind that inspires. When you're clear about where you're going and why, you don't have to beg people to join you. The right ones will grab a seat and help push the bus uphill. You just have to be bold enough to extend the invitation.
5. Don't Waste Your Energy on Those Who Don't Get on Your Bus
Here's where it gets uncomfortable. Some people won't join you. They'll mock your vision. Doubt your plan. Tell you all the reasons it won't work. And George learns the hardest lesson of all: you can't drive forward while dragging dead weight.
Letting go isn't cruel—it's necessary. Not everyone is meant for your journey. Trying to convince them is like slamming the gas with the parking brake on. Joy teaches George to release them with love and keep moving. The bus only goes as fast as the energy inside it allows.
The Energy Bus walks beside you through George's messy, relatable life and shows you what transformation looks like when someone finally decides to choose differently. You'll finish it in a few hours. But the rules? They'll follow you into Monday morning meetings, tense conversations, and those quiet moments when you wonder if change is even possible. It is. You just have to get in the driver's seat.
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