03/19/2025
When was the last time you truly checked in with yourself?
Not the quick “I’m fine” answer, but a real, honest look at how you’re actually doing.
If you’re anything like me, sometimes you push through without realizing just how much you need to slow down and take care of yourself.
Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. And before we know it, we’re running on empty, wondering why we feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or disconnected.
Lately, I’ve been making a conscious effort to prioritize my mental, physical, and emotional health, and here are five things that have been helping me (maybe they’ll help you too):
Faith: For me, my faith is my foundation. Spending time every day in prayer and scripture helps me stay grounded and centered—even in the most trying seasons. Whatever faith, spirituality, or a high-power looks for you—setting aside time to pause, reflect, or just breathe can bring clarity and peace.
Therapy: Talking to a therapist has been a game-changer. Having someone who truly understands my journey helps me process emotions, navigate challenges, and see things from a different perspective. If you’ve been considering therapy, this is your reminder: It’s okay to ask for support.
Moving My Body: After having Mason, I struggled to get back into a fitness routine. My body felt different, and time felt limited. But recently, I’ve prioritized an hour a day for the gym—and I feel stronger, more energized, and more like me again. Whether it’s working out, playing a sport (I’ve been loving tennis!), or just taking a walk, movement is medicine.
Journaling & Writing: Over the years, I’ve realized how much I process through writing. Even jotting down notes from a podcast, a sermon, or something inspiring helps me reflect and grow. If you don’t love journaling, try writing just one thought a day—you might be surprised at what comes to the surface.
Community & Relationships: Who we surround ourselves with matters. Lately, I’ve been asking myself: Am I spending time with people who uplift me? Who challenge me in a good way? Who make me feel lighter, not heavier? We weren’t built to navigate this life alone—find your people and hold them tight.
I’m still learning, still figuring things out, and still reminding myself that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s essential.
Maybe one (or a few) of these resonate with you. Maybe you already have your own ways of taking care of your mental health.
Whatever it looks like for you, I just want to remind you: You deserve to prioritize yourself. You don’t have to wait until you’re burned out to check in and take action.
So, let me ask again—how are you really doing?
DM me or comment below. I'd love to hear what's working for you these days!