Gerald "Mr. BPOZ" Mayes

10/28/2024

👋🏾I want to know what exactly I am voting for and how my vote impacts my household and my actual life!

But the only thing available is "They Not Like Us" .....No Kendrick..... and unfortunately not being the other person is only good enough if you just vote party lines.

But what about the rest of us? The rest of us that try to take an honest realistic view at all candidates and would prefer to make our selections based on the Agendas and Policies they support and how it impacts the life of my family.

This is why I reached out to former Clark County Commissioner Lawrence Weekly and NAACP Branch #1111 - Las Vegas President Quentin Savwoir to help me put together a nonpartisan voter education workshop to 'EDUCATE' us on 'Policies NOT Politics'

If you are a dad and you are unsure about voting in this climate then I invite you out to learn a little bit about the impact of your vote in your own family.

When: Wednesday, October 30, 2024
How To Register: https://bit.ly/gooddadvote

*Whether you vote or choose not to, let your decision be an informed one. The impact of knowledge lasts longer than the act itself.

The Good Dads Club to Host FREE Webinar: “How Your Vote Impacts YOUR Family” on October 30, 2024 from 6:30pm – 7:30pm NAACP Local Branch 1111 Supports Initiative to Educate Male Voters on the Importance of Voting for Their Families Las Vegas, NV – In partnership with the NAACP Local Branch ...

10/24/2024

🗳️ Tired of the endless political bickering that distracts from what really matters? I hear you. As a dad, I’m not concerned with who’s the loudest or the flashiest—I care about how my vote will shape my family’s future, financial stability, and well-being.

Instead of getting caught up in the noise, it’s time to have a real conversation about how our votes directly impact the lives of the people we love most.

That’s why I’ve invited Former Clark County Commissioner and Host of Real Talk on Power 88.1 , Dr. Lawrence Weekly, and Quentin Savwoir, President of NAACP Branch #1111 - Las Vegas and Director of Programs for The Ballot Initiative Strategy Center, to join us in The Good Dads Club - Man Cave for an honest discussion about how your vote impacts your family.

Whether you plan to vote or not, I want you to make that decision because it’s what’s best for your family—not because you feel like your voice doesn’t matter.

🗓️ October 30, 2024; 6:30pm - 7:30pm
📍 Virtual Event
🕢 Q&A right after the discussion

Register today: https://www.clubgooddad.com/mancave

10/23/2024

🚨Attention, Fellow Dads!🚨

Your vote directly impacts your family’s future—both financially and socially?

Join me on October 30th for a Man Cave Session where we’ll break down exactly how your vote impacts YOUR household.

PLUS, just for registering you'll have a chance to win apart of $750 worth of gift cards! 🙌

💬 Special Guests: Former Councilman, Dr. Lawrence Weekly and President of NAACP-LV Quentin Savwoir will share their insights on how policies affect YOUR household.

🗓 Save the Date: October 30th, 6:30 PM (Zoom)

💻 To claim your spot and enter the gift card giveaway register here: https://www.clubgooddad.com/mancave

Don’t wait—limited spots available!

10/17/2024

👋🏾 Hey Fellow Dads,

Have you ever thought you were doing everything right as a dad, only to find out later that you missed something BIG? That was me with my daughter. I thought I was listening to her, but what I was really doing was brushing off her feelings and jumping straight to solutions. It wasn’t until years later that I realized just how much that affected her—and our relationship.

In my latest blog, I’m sharing a story about a time my daughter told me, “Dad, you never listened to me.” 😔 It was a hard pill to swallow, but it completely changed how I approach being a dad. The lesson learned? Active Listening—it’s a game-changer.

This isn’t just about hearing words; it’s about connecting with our kids on a deeper level, understanding their feelings, and being there for them when it counts. Trust me, when you master this skill, you can avoid years of emotional distance with your kids.

Want to learn how to start listening better today? Check out my latest blog where I break it all down and give you practical tips to become the dad your kids can truly open up to. 💬👇🏾

Read the full story here: https://bit.ly/407Kmbs

🍻 Cheers to connecting deeper with our kids!

09/18/2024

🚨 Netflix Recommendation: The Lost Daughter 🚨

My wife and I recently watched The Lost Daughter on Netflix, and let me tell you—it’s WILD. Without giving too much away, it's a powerful story about Kathy, a young mother who gave her daughter up for adoption. Years later, she embarks on a crazy journey to uncover what really happened to her daughter, who has been missing since she was 14.

It’s a gut-wrenching ride filled with twists and emotional complexities. What stood out to me the most, though, was the intense dynamic between Kathy and the adoptive family. It raises deep questions about the nature of parenthood: Is a child still "yours" if you didn't raise them? How connected are we to children we didn't biologically create?

As a father in a blended family myself, these questions hit home. I’ve been raising my stepson since he was 2, and though he’s not biologically mine, he's my son. It’s an interesting, emotional, and sometimes complicated dynamic that many of us in blended families face.

This documentary really makes you reflect on the bonds we share with our kids—whether biological or not—and the responsibilities we take on as parents, step-parents, or guardians.

If you’re in a blended family or navigating co-parenting, this documentary will have you thinking long after it’s over. I highly recommend you check it out when you have the time. It’s not just a story—it’s a conversation starter.

09/02/2024

💥 Are Financial Disagreements Stressing Your Relationship? 💥

Did you know that up to 40% of divorces are due to financial issues? 😳

Money matters are one of the leading causes of tension in relationships, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

But here’s the good news: Financial disagreements don’t have to drive a wedge between you and your partner. In fact, they can actually bring you closer together—if handled the right way. 👫

In my latest blog, I share a personal story about how my wife and I navigated a major money disagreement, and the lessons we learned that helped us turn conflict into compromise. 💬

🎯 The key? Open communication, compromise, and a budget that meets both of your needs. 🎯

What if I told you that keeping just one credit card instead of canceling them all could actually bring more peace than sticking to a rigid plan? It’s all about finding what works for both of you.

👉 Ready to strengthen your relationship and find financial harmony? Check out the full blog for actionable tips on handling financial disagreements without damaging your relationship.

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08/29/2024

🛎️In a different life, I was an instructor for the Professional Fitness Institute. I taught all of their capstone education—the in-person, hands-on stuff that truly defines fitness.

One of my favorite guest instructors was Tommy Boyer-Kendrick. He used to always say that his job wasn't just about making athletes faster, stronger, or able to jump higher; it was about making them injury-proof. In other words, the more proper and deliberate work athletes put in, the better they could withstand the rigors of their sport.

In other words: Resilience‼️

This concept has stuck with me, and I've found it to be just as true in other areas of life. As a father and husband, we each need to put in our own proper and deliberate individual work to withstand the rigors of fatherhood and marriage.

Life, much like sports, is full of adversity. Some challenges are small, requiring just a simple tweak or adjustment to overcome. Others are life-altering, demanding a much deeper level of resilience and recovery. But in both cases, just like with any injury, you must properly rehabilitate and find your way back to full strength.

Here’s what I mean:

Small Setbacks: These are the daily challenges—missed opportunities, minor disagreements, or unexpected obstacles. Like a minor sprain, they might slow us down temporarily, but with the right mindset and a small adjustment, we can quickly get back in the game.

Major Challenges: Then there are the major adversities—losses, significant life changes, or deep emotional wounds. These are the equivalent of a major injury in sports. They require time, patience, and a thorough rehab process. You can’t rush through it, but with dedication and the right support, you can come back stronger.

Rehabilitation and Recovery: Whether the challenge is big or small, the key is to engage in proper rehabilitation—physically, emotionally, and mentally. Just as an athlete would follow a recovery plan, we too must take deliberate steps to heal, grow, and regain our strength after facing adversity.

Returning to the Game: The goal, always, is to get back in the game. Life’s adversities are not meant to sideline us permanently. With the right approach, we can return to our roles—whether as parents, partners, or professionals—better equipped to handle whatever comes our way.

Just like in sports, the work we put in to overcome adversity ensures that we can continue to perform at our best. Whether it’s a minor tweak or a major comeback, each step in the recovery process builds the resilience we need to thrive in the long run.

08/26/2024

💰 Are you setting your kids up for financial success, or leaving them to learn the hard way?

As dads, we know that money management is one of the most critical skills our kids will need in life.

But when's the right time to start teaching them? The answer might surprise you.

In today’s complex financial world, our kids face more challenges than ever. From digital banking to the rise of cryptocurrency, understanding money isn’t just about balancing a checkbook anymore. Without the right guidance, they could struggle with financial pitfalls we never saw coming.

I’ve just released a new blog post that breaks down why it’s crucial to start teaching your kids about money early, and how to do it effectively. Whether you’re working on your own financial game or helping your kids build theirs, this post offers practical steps to guide you through.

📖 Check out the full blog here https://www.clubgooddad.com/blog/b/money-lessons-for-kids

and let’s raise a generation of financially savvy kids together. Don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments—how are you teaching your kids about money?

08/20/2024

🚨New Blog Alert!!!

Does fatherhood sometimes feel like an overwhelming mountain to climb? It’s a common struggle, and many dads wish they could lighten the load and find some relief.

The truth is, stress can make it incredibly hard to balance your responsibilities and still enjoy quality time with your family. The good news? There are practical, actionable tips tailored specifically for dads that can help you manage stress and restore balance in your life. But beware—if you don’t address the stress now, it could take a serious toll on both you and your loved ones.

Don’t wait until it’s too late. Check out our blog, "How Dads Can Conquer Stress For Themselves and Their Families," and discover how you can take control of your stress and find the harmony you’ve been searching for.
https://www.clubgooddad.com/blog/b/how-dads-can-conquer-stress-for-themselves-and-their-families

08/19/2024

🚨New Blog Post!!

Feeling the pressure of being a dad? You’re not alone. Many fathers struggle to juggle responsibilities without feeling completely burnt out. Stress can weigh you down, making it difficult to be the calm, present dad you want to be for your family. But it doesn’t have to be this way. In our latest blog, we explore 7 practical techniques to help you conquer stress and reclaim your peace of mind.

But here’s the thing—if you don’t take action now, the stress could continue to build, affecting not just you but your entire family. Don’t let stress control your life. Dive into "How Dads Can Conquer Stress For Themselves and Their Families" today, and start your journey toward a more focused and balanced life.

https://www.clubgooddad.com/blog/b/how-dads-can-conquer-stress-for-themselves-and-their-families

08/13/2024

🎙️ New Episode Alert! 🚨

Join me on the Good Dads Podcast as we dive deep with Damion Byrd, a father, entrepreneur, and retired Air Force Officer. Damion shares his "old-school" approach to fatherhood, balancing business with family, and how he turned his health journey into a thriving snack company, Only3 Snack.

This episode is packed with insights on parenting, discipline, and living authentically in today’s world. Whether you’re a dad, an entrepreneur, or on a health journey, you don’t want to miss this!

🔗 Listen now: Link In The Comments

08/12/2024

🚨New Blog Post: What Dad Type Are You?

Growing up I always looked to the TV dads for guidance. Not because my father was inept he just wasn't Uncle Phil, Carl Winslow, or Danny Tanner. He was more Sanford and Sons mixed with a little bit of Dad from Everybody Hates Chris; which I love and respect.

But the TV dads seemed to inspire in a way that real dads never seemed to.

Once I became a father myself I realized that I was only as good as my examples and to be more well rounded I needed to formulate an understanding of what my options were because the fathering role was what I made of it.

This is why I wrote this blog. To share with you all the different styles of fathering and to stress the point that there is no RIGHT way to father, just different ways.

So as you read through this blog I want you to identify your skillset and then own it. Maybe you are more like Homer than Mufasa; I know I am in regards to my children's expression but I am a bit more Uncle Phil in regards to education and following through. Mix and match and find the style that works for you because that is the style that will; work for your kids.
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08/07/2024

🧠💭My brain has been telling me to post this on social media; "You Do Not Owe Anyone an explanation for how you think, feel, and act....."

But that is false 👎🏾I owe an explanation to everyone about everything; doesn't mean I will necessarily give it but it is owed. Here is why>

"...my feelings are generated by others, and my actions are influenced by the environment and people around me. This interconnectedness means that everything I do resonates beyond myself, affecting those I interact with in significant ways.

It's crucial to move beyond a self-centered view and consider the broader impact. For instance, when I express my thoughts, I should ask myself, "Who has shaped this thought" and "How will this shape someone else's thoughts?" When I react emotionally, I should consider, " Who sparked these emotions" and "How will my emotions affect those around me?" Similarly, my actions, whether big or small, have been influenced by others and once acted upon has the power to influence others' actions, creating ripples that extend far beyond my immediate sphere." - How To Be A Good Dad Manuscript

Again I may not give you an explanation but one is due!

📸Photo Credit: The New York Times (check ya boy out)

08/06/2024

🚨🎙️New Podcast Alert 🔥
I was lucky enough to have Antanus Pullum a local educator and Co-Founder of Gentlemen By Choice on the Good Dads Podcast. He shared his passion for students and the power of schools can have if they reached beyond the walls of the school grounds.

I don't think I've ever met an educator with as much passion as he has in my life outside of my wife. If you have time I implore you to give it a listen! 🔗Link in Comments

08/06/2024

Antanus Pullum graced the Good Dads Podcast and he brought the heat🔥🔥🔥!!!!! We talked extensively about education in our communities and the power of schools when they reflect the community!!!

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07/25/2024

You cannot give advice if you haven't built relationship.