So Here's My Story

So Here's My Story So, Here's My Story... is the only business podcast that promises wildly useful lessons from the abs Business has nuance. Business is messy and unpredictable.
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So, Here's My Story ... arose out of a burning hatred of bullet point blogs, canned solutions and business conversations that only include the highlight reel. We're not interested in stories where people move from triumph to triumph, because real life doesn't work that way and even if it did.... Business sure as hell doesn't. Business has depth. Business can't be told in bullet points. Business is stories.... and we want to hear them.

10/26/2021

All stories have to end...even ours.

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10/19/2021

Is your business in a rut? Is everyone showing up with “Non-Player Characters” energy? When you have an Organizational Depressive State, it can be hard to get out of it – or can it be as simple as one person, one change?

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10/12/2021

Do you have an on-demand Hermione outfit? Have you thought about what you’ll do if you need one suddenly?

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10/05/2021

Are there places where you complain, and other places where you just assume you have to accept what you get?

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09/28/2021

Oh, the things you learn in Tik Tok videos and massage parlors!

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09/21/2021

When you find out you are riding with the descendent of a nationally acclaimed blind wrestler, you know you’re in for some stories. And it turns out, we can turn those stories into some business lessons!

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09/14/2021

Many of us have weird hangups about ending or quitting things. But quitting is an art. Ending things is an art. And an ending has the potential to shape how you the world sees the beginning and the middle, too. So why don’t we spend more time talking about ending things well?

Lucky for you, in this episode, we do just that.

09/07/2021

Whether it’s politics, sports or happy hour, sometimes your company culture can make others feel uncomfortable. At what point do you make changes to include people, and at what point is that watering down an important aspect of your culture?

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08/31/2021

You’re playing a boardgame. You have the choice to either advance the game for everyone, or just progress yourself to the ultimate objective: winning.

What do you do? And what does this have to do with company culture?

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08/24/2021

Culture – whether in your business or in your family – isn’t just established in big picture planning. It is established in the little decisions that you make all the time about what’s important to you in the moment.

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08/17/2021

Feel like everything is uncertain and that you are a bit unmoored, maybe even languishing? You might just be shifting gears.

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08/10/2021

How do you establish or maintain a community when so many people still aren't comfortable in person, but so many others are burnt out on virtual?

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08/03/2021

Football training camp and comedy clubs - let’s talk about how to get better at something new.

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07/27/2021

Ever have to muster the energy to do something you don’t want to do, but really should do? How do you change your energy? And how do you know when it’s a losing battle?

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07/20/2021

Meeting hijackers: maybe they tell long-winded, off-topic stories, or hold the room hostage as they give an answer to a question no one asked. Whatever the case, as a leader, you need to know how to handle the situation.

Let’s talk about that in this episode.

07/13/2021

Have you ever found yourself saying “I’m going to regret this”, but doing it anyway? Let’s talk self-sabotage and the frustrating world of PREgrets.

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When you see a behavior you don’t like – barking at the door, for instance – you may have better luck stopping it by int...
03/24/2021

When you see a behavior you don’t like – barking at the door, for instance – you may have better luck stopping it by introducing a new replacement behavior – fetching pillows - than by focusing on the barking. It can be much more effective to train a dog to do something instead of training them not to do something.

And it just might be the same for those of us on two legs.

But it is important to not step over the part where the dogs had training. “Do this instead” works best when the “instead” is clearly communicated and sufficient or necessary training occurs...

Be aware that in every interaction you have, you are training people how best to interact with you and how to get what they want from you.

If you respond to an email immediately, for instance, you are teaching someone that that is a fast and efficient way to get what they need from you. When you notice that subconscious training is happening all of the time, you can direct it to encourage the behavior you want more of. 

But beware – the conversation is important. Though often people can figure out things on their own through reinforcement “training”, you may need a Care and Feeding conversation to make the behavior stick. And before you do that, you need to recognize not only what isn’t working, but what behavior you would like instead.

That frustration, of seeing what you don’t want, and turning it into an opportunity (what you do want), is what being an entrepreneur is about. If you act like an internal entrepreneur in your own company, you can look for the frustrations and find an opportunity to change things for the better.

What are your thoughts on Episode 196???






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So, Here’s My Story… is the only business podcast that promises wildly useful lessons from the absurd, the poignant and the seemingly irrelevant. We were tired of the bullet point blogs, canned solutions and highlight-reel conversations that skip over the realities of leadership. Business is messy and unpredictable. Business is more than spreadsheets. Business is stories…