07/09/2021
MomentsOfAffection
Tue:GBV
I tried several attempts to let go but I can't. She cheats opening
LetterOfDeDay
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Rolex I know it's shameful to let people know about the issue am going through but enough is enough.
I married my wife when we had nothing six years ago I loved her a lot the problem is that we have two children with her She left her house one day and switched off her phone for three days but i discovered she was sleeping at a lodge with a man and she thinks she is in love with the same man I was hurt.
That happened after four years of marriage, I became completely devastated. After we split up, we continued seeing each other for a couple of months with the excuse of checking on the children, but then I ended it again when I discovered sheâd actually met someone else.
I managed as best as I could. I tried to do new things and make new friends.
Then in May this year, she told me she was regretting her decision and wanted to try again. At this point, she was still in her new relationship.
Stupidly, I had s*x with her but afterwards I told her she needed to finish with the man before we could try again, so a week later, she did just that. She started living at her parentsâ house and we tried to take it slow. For the first week, we went out on a few dates, but during this time, this man was still sending her texts and calling her. She wouldnât block his number â she said she would, but she never did.
On the Friday night, she stayed over and I allowed her to sleep in our bed, we had s*x on the Saturday morning then he went back to her parents.
On Sunday, when I was alone, someone sent a picture to my phone of her in bed with the other man, with the words âlast nightâ underneath. So it would seem after she left me on Saturday morning, she went straight over to him on Saturday night. I was so enraged that I called him straightaway and asked him what he was doing â and then told him to tell me he loved her and he would never hear from me again. He did just that.
Now I feel worthless and heartbroken. I just don't know how to carry on. Iâm forty-six and suddenly single. This other man is a drug user -I cry, I can't function and I wish I wasn't here.
My children are in the hands of her mother (mother in law).
I need help from members pliz