The Chambi Nation

12/09/2022

Better days are coming. You won't always wake up in the morning with a heavy heart.

16/04/2022

MEN HAVE PAINS TOO

A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too. I took my husband for a super human. I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us. One day as I have left the house and he was at home, I remembered that I needed to take something along, I turned back and headed home. As I got home, I tried going through the back door which was closer to the window of our room. I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family. He has never complained to me before but that day, I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone"

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?".

Men always try to hide their pains.

Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they have lonely life. Sometimes, ask your husband out. Men are not always busy as women think.

You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too. Don't judge him by things you want from him. Sometimes, your husband doesn't have things you want.

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love...

14/04/2022

“AVOIDING YOUR SPOUSE AFTER A MISUNDERSTANDING IS DANGEROUS”

There are so many forces working tirelessly to ensure that your relationship do not see the sun that rises in the morning, these forces could be spiritual or physical. In some relationship it's spiritual, in other relationships it could be physical but there are certain relationships that its both spiritual and physical joining forces together to ensure that your relationship ends no matter what.

In other for their plans to succeed they set traps for you and your spouse and patiently wait for either of you to fall into that trap and then they destroy you. That is why you need to be very careful so as you don't fall into such traps, not just you, lead your partner by the Hand and lead them so they don't fall into such traps because if they do it will affect you.

One of these traps they set for you is MALICE AFTER A MISUNDERSTANDING. Misunderstanding is something you can never do away with in a relationship but you can decide the affects it would have on your relationship.

When you have a misunderstanding with your spouse stop keeping malice with them, stop avoiding them its very dangerous, by doing that you have already fallen into their trap. When you avoid them and they are alone these evil forces keeps playing with their minds and feeding them with negative thoughts hereby making matters worst.

When you avoid your spouse and you leave them all alone by themselves that's when one fine dude will come into the picture, that's when one beautiful girl will come into the picture, since they are vulnerable 60% of people in such cases end up cheating on their spouse.

Avoiding your spouse after a misunderstanding only creates room for problems, it could create damages that may never be fixed so at the end of the day the beautiful relationship ends, a relationship you could have saved was killed by your own ego and pride.

When there is a misunderstanding, don't avoid each other, apologise weather you're wrong or right it does not matter the most important thing is that you didn't fall into the trap and your relationship is still intact. The greatest way to resolve misunderstanding is through "DIALOGUE" (talk about it) I didn't say argue, I said have a conversation talk about it.

Immediately after the misunderstanding apologize, don't talk about the matter immediately, look for a time that both of you are in a happy mood and then have a conversation about what happened.

- Joseph Uteno

05/03/2022

The process is never easy but we stick to the vision until the nation is built we will never retire.

09/02/2022

LADIES PLEASE TAKE NOTE!!!!!

Men attend to Women for two reasons, S*X, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for S*x or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain:
A man can Love you and not Marry you.

A man can have s*x with you for years without marrying you.

But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind"

I have seen some guys who made this statement "I love this lady but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her." Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most Ladies think is fanciful.

They think whether this woman can build me a home, Can she take care of my kids and I, Can she give me PEACE of mind?.

Men don't like Ladies who give them discomfort, This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her.

It's the comfort of having Peace of Mind they want.

S*x is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is Stability ♥️
Fellow or add me for more write ups Emily Wills Brooklyn
Re-Define your attitude and character to meet that husband of your dream.
I love you all.

26/01/2022

On the other side of that difficulty is a new level of your destiny. You have to go through it to get to it. Some promotion only comes through adversity, through closed doors, through things that are not fair.

20/12/2021

BEYOND S*X

S*x is not just s*x, s*x is more of soul ties. When you sleep with different guys or ladies, you tie your soul with theirs, their souls may come in different forms of darkness. Some of this souls could possibly destroy you or delay your Blessings.

Sometimes we act so strange, so weird because the body is full of different darkness of souls.
As you go chasing for girls lusting after girls, sleeping with different girls lusting after guys, keep this on your mind, s*x is not just s*x, but a soul ties.

Having s*x with different bodies means your body has different Shadows consist of different souls, you are not you, but different people in you.

No wonder many are suffering from marital delay; sometime in their life they slept with somebody who has an ancestral curse in their lineage. The demon is now in charge of your body. Marry 💍💏 you of in the spirit realm.

Now think of this, your partner is faithful to you, but you go sleeping around and come back sleep with your partner( him/ her), that means you transferring all shadows to your faithful partner. Don't you think you are heartless? , careless or selfish by doing that?

Let's think before we do things. No amount of condom can protect your soul . just pick one partner and make him/ her your King 👑🏰 / Queen 👑💍👸💅✊, have self control and do what is right for you. you won't go early to grave.

30/11/2021

Maybe you’ve gone through a loss and it looks like a dream has died, but if you’ll search your heart and dare to dream another dream, you can see great days up ahead. If there are things in your heart that you have laid down for one reason or another, ask God to give you another opportunity and open your heart and mind to His possibilities.

25/11/2021

Meditate on this today:

Whatsoever you are seeking,
Is seeking you also.

29/10/2021

"Those who love peace must learn to organize as effectively as those who love war. "

__ Martin Luther King

27/10/2021

The scripture says, “Two are better than one. When one falls, the other can lift him up.” When doubt comes, negative circumstances, you can encourage your spouse. You can lift up that other person. Let them know, “We’re not moved by what we see. We’re not going to break our agreement. God is faithful; what He promised is on the way.”

26/10/2021

A man’s ego is his greatest asset or his greatest liability, according to the way in which he relates himself to it.

16/10/2021

"Do not act as if you were going to live ten thousand years. Death hangs over you. While you live, while it is in your power, be good. "
__ Marcus Aurelius

27/09/2021

You'll stay average always avoiding fear.

If you're not scared to do it, you're not going to grow from it.

19/09/2021

18/09/2021

“When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you’d like them to be.”
— Leo Tolstoy

15/09/2021

When you start to have doubts... remember you were BORN TO WIN!🏆

14/09/2021

Let today be a reminder that life is short. So don't spend it arguing and fighting. Stop worrying so much. Have fun. Be grateful. Be yourself. Don't allow others to bring you down. Count your blessings and value those who love you. Most importantly, make the most of each day because we do not know which one will be our last ❤️

14/09/2021

Wives, if your husband cheats regularly with other women, don't fight them or him. 🤔 Instead, become the best version of yourself and succeed powerfully, then see if he will continue with his foolishness! ☺️

14/09/2021

"Young man. Ask yourself this question, 'if s*x was completely removed what value would she bring to you and your relationship?' Think young man."
Anonymous.

Dr. Mujajati Aaron

08/09/2021

Don't die old. Die empty. That's the goal of life. Go to the cemetery and disappoint the graveyard.

08/09/2021

A water bottle in the supermarket is worth k4 approx. Same bottle in a bar is k6 to k8. In a good restaurant or hotel it can be worth up to k10 or k15 and at an airport or on a plane, up to k25.

The bottle is the same, the brand too. The only thing that changes is the place. Each place gives a different value to the same product. When you feel zero, you're worthless, when everyone around you despises you, change places, don't stay there. Have the courage to change your circle and go to a place where they give you the courage you deserve and consider you who you are. Surround yourself with people who really appreciate your worth. Don't settle for less.