Do it yourself Mommy

19/11/2023

Alams na di ba forever

19/11/2023

Bawal huminto ang pagiging nanay. Pero pwede magpahinga

01/11/2023

PEOPLE WITH GOOD HEART ❤️

Here's the thing about people with good hearts.

They give you excuses when you don't explain yourself.
They accept apologies you don't give them, even though you should.
They see the best in you when you don't need them to.

At worst they lift you up, even if it means putting their own priorities aside.
The words "too busy" does not exist in their vocabulary.
They make time even when you don't.

And you wonder why they are the most sensitive people.
You wonder why they're the most caring people.
You wonder why they are willing to give so much, without expecting anything in return.
You wonder why their existence is not so essential to your well-being.

It's because they don't let you work hard for the attention they give you.
They accept the love they think they've earned, and you think they're entitled too.

Let me tell you something.

Fear the day when a good heart gives up on you.
Our skies don't become gray out of nowhere.
Our sunshine does not allow darkness to take over for no reason.
A good heart does not turn cold, unless it's been treated with coldness for a while.

HAVE A GOOD HEART AND BE GOOD TO OTHERS

IF IT DOESNT PAY TODAY, IT WILL SURELY PAY TOMORROW 👌

MAY YOUR DAY BE BLESSED 🙏❤️

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21/10/2023

😂ctto

19/10/2023

Do you want to know why you're sad.

You're attached to people who have been on and off with you for an extended period of time.

You pay attention to people who only make time for you when it's convenient for them.

You're too caring to people who could care less about you.

You give attention to people who take you for granted and put you on the back burner because they think no matter what they do, you will never leave.

Do me a favor and accept people for who they are, & leave them where they belong.

~ Cody Bret
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16/10/2023

15/10/2023

Ready… set… go…

13/10/2023

Re-posting
10 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE

Women aren’t the only ones responsible for keeping a home and it’s wrong for people to say that. It’s the responsibility of both partners to keep a home.

I previously wrote about 10 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE, so check it out if you are a woman.

Here are 10 mistakes men make in marriage

1. THINKING OF YOUR SATISFACTION ALONE IN THE BEDROOM

Most men are selfish in the bedroom and never think of their wife’s satisfaction. Disregarding the needs of your wife in the bedroom can ruin your marriage. Having a good time in the bedroom with your wife requires a very high level of communication and such conversations should happen when both partners are calm, relaxed and receptive to ideas.

2. RECKLESS SPENDING

Making big purchases without consulting your wife or spending recklessly is another big mistake most men make in marriages. Keeping a bank account hidden from your wife is a no-no in a marriage. When you cut off your wife from knowing about your finances, you make her feel less loved and connected. Your wife needs you to trust her with your heart and your finances.

3. NOT INVOLVING YOURSELF IN CHILD REARING

Most men leave child rearing for their wife and believe all they need to do is provide for the family and this is wrong. It is wrong as a husband to take a backseat when it comes to child rearing. Spend time with your children and play an active role in their lives.

4. NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY

Most men want their wife to take good care of their body but rarely do that themselves. I have seen so many husbands allow themselves to lose their body and many wives aren’t happy about it. Just as you want your wife to maintain a good body, you ought to do the same thing.

5. FAILURE TO MAKE FUTURE PLANS

As a husband, you need to give your wife and children security by planning for the future. You have to plan for the future of the marriage, your finances, the children etc. Don’t be the husband that lives for the now; make plans for retirement, old age, death, when the kids get married etc.

6. YOU DON’T LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE

Most men fail to see their wives as their partner and would rarely listen to her opinion. Learn to listen to what she has to say. Don’t assume you know what your wife is going to say or tune her out because you have heard it all before.

7. YOU DON’T CONFIDE IN YOUR WIFE

Not confiding in their wife is another common mistake most men make in marriages. Your wife is supposed to be your gossip partner and the one you confide in. She wants to be included in your entire world.

8. YOU ALLOW FAMILY AND FRIENDS DISRESPECT YOUR WIFE

You have failed as a husband when you allow your family and friends disrespect your wife. Anyone that disrespects your wife also disrespects you; it’s as simple as that. Avoiding talking bad about your wife in public so she won’t get disrespected. Your family and friends should only know about positives and not the negatives. You and your wife should sort out the negatives alone.

9. YOU REFUSE TO APOLOGISE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG

Refusing to apologize when you are wrong is one mistake husbands make in marriages. Many men believe they belittle themselves when they apologize to their wife and this is wrong. Just because you are a man is no reason not to apologize when you wrong your wife.

10. YOU COMPARE YOUR WIFE TO OTHER WOMEN

Comparison is dangerous and can destroy your marriage; never compare your wife to other women. There will always be women around you who have traits and strengths that your wife does not have but do you know the weaknesses these women have? Cherish and honour your wife for who she is, not for what she does or doesn’t do.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name.🙏🙏🙏🙏

Ctto thank you

12/10/2023

🙏🙏🙏

12/10/2023

LET THEM

Let them argue
let them fight
let them think
they are right

let them gossip
let them rage
let them build
themselves a cage

let them judge
let them talk
let them walk
the way they walk

let them laugh
behind your back
they cannot push you
from your track

let them steal
each other’s joy
let them silence
virtue’s voice

let them wrestle
for the throne
let them pick flesh
from their bones

but of all
you let them do
do not let them
alter you

keep your focus
on the sky
and all the beauty
you pass by

stay within
your well-built walls
and answer only
worthy calls

let them lie
if they must
it’s yourself
you need to trust.


Donna Ashworth
From my new Sunday Times Bestseller ‘Wild Hope’ 🩶
healing words to find light on dark days
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This amazing artwork is by Lisa Aisato, you can find Lisa’s books on her beautiful page.

12/10/2023

Never force a relationship...✍🏾

Sometimes it's better to move on, than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work to begin with.

You can't force someone to genuinely care about you.

You can't force someone to be faithful to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need
them to be.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without.

You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be
careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it's hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that's the person you could spend an eternity with, and you start to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be.

And no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn't work out in your previous relationships.

One thing I have learned throughout the years, is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who's not chasing you.

Ctto

11/10/2023

Dito na tayo magyakapan… pa hug naman dyan

27/09/2023

Love what you have, before life teaches you to love what you lost.

24/09/2023

Ctto

24/09/2023

❤️❤️❤️

21/09/2023

Bc ang lahat keep safe

19/09/2023

Good morning 🌞😃☀️

19/09/2023

Unboxing and installing our new dashcam

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A must try

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Di bale na maliit ang kita and mahalaga HINDI tayo nanloloko ng kapwa.
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Hello welcome
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