10/10/2023
LOVE FOR IMPERFECT THINGS BOOK by HAEMIN SUNIM :
Is it just me or some of you are also like me that whenever Iâm reading Haemin Sunim books, it feels like Iâm in a peaceful areaâŚa cool wind blowing my face with a beautiful view of nature, mountain and streams of water? Aaah! So relaxing! đżđ
Plus, I love all the artworks from his books! đ The artwork from this book is by Lisk Feng, his other book, The things you can only see only when you slow down is by Youngcheol Lee đ
Have you read this one? Whatâs your thought? Please comment below to share your favorite lines or your review! đđđ¤
Here are some of the lessons we can all learn from this book:
â The true winner is the one who is happy with his life.â
âWhen we become kinder to ourselves, we can become kinder to the world.â
â what if we are just measuring ourseleves against socieetyâs yardstick of success?â
âBecause I have experienced pain, I am able to embrace the pain of others. Because I have made mistakes, I am able to forgive others their mistakes. May my suffering become the seed of compassionâ
âWho is an unfortunate person? One who looks at other people and sees only their flaws.â
âItâs okay that you have flaws. How could our lives be as clean and white as a blank sheet of paper? Life naturally takes its toll on our bodies, our minds, and our relationships. rather than choosing a life in which you do nothing for fear of making a mistake, choose a life that improves through failure and pain. And shout out loud to your struggling self, I love you so muchâ
âThe reason we think we are better than others is that inferiority still lurks within us. A sense of superiority exists because of a sense of inferiority.â
âDonât judge people based on how they appear, as they may have difficulties that nobody can see.â
âDonât assume another bus will be coming.ďż˝Sometimes the route will have changed,ďż˝and you will never get another chance to catch the bus you missed. If an opportunity is presented to you, donât give in to your fear. Muster your courage and get on that bus.â
âInstead of postponing your happiness until youâve achieved your goal, live a little and enjoy the moment.ďż˝Life is passing you by while you are waiting.â
âEven if you have everything youâve ever wanted,ďż˝you wonât be happy if youâre always striving for more or better. Happiness comes when our hearts are peaceful and content, and when we learn to appreciate what we already have.â
âWhen you feel disappointed, and you see itâs because you expected something from someone else, consider why it is that you often rely on others to make you happy. Why is your self-reliance so low? Does it maybe relate to how you were brought up, or to a past trauma? Do you have a strong need for approval or attention from others? If you often feel disappointed in yourself, ask why you hold yourself to such a high standard. Are your expectations reasonable? When you understand yourself better, you might find it easier to deal with disappointment, and to accept and love yourself.â