Verbal Abuse

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How to handle verbal abuse

•Avoid arguing with them because they won’t change their mind. When someone verbally abuses you, it’s normal to want to defend yourself because they’re being unfair. While you have every right to argue with them, it usually makes the abuse worse.

•Instead of telling them why they’re wrong, explain that what they’re saying is abusive. First, think about what they’re saying and why it hurts you.

•Ask the person to stop being verbally abusive in a calm voice. It’s possible that the person doesn’t know they’re being abusive. Even if they do, calling them out on it can help you get them to stop. Using a calm, non-judgmental voice, firmly tell them to stop talking to you this way. Keep your request short and to the point.

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Verbal abuse can hurt more than physical actions do.

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Abuse comes in many forms, not all of which are physical. When someone repeatedly uses words to demean, frighten, or control someone, it’s considered verbal abuse. Verbal abuse often involves yelling, put-downs, name-calling, and belittling behaviors. When someone is being verbally abused, the person attacking them may use overt forms of abuse like engaging in name-calling and making threats, but also more insidious methods like gaslighting or constantly correcting, interrupting, putting down, and demeaning them. Even prolonged silent treatment is a form of verbal abuse.

Verbal abuse can impact every element of life, including academic performance, relationships, and success at work later in life. Just like any other form of abuse or bullying, verbal abuse has both short- and long-term consequences, including their mental health. They experience
anxiety, changes in mood, chronic stress, decreased self-esteem, depression, feelings of shame, guilt, and hopelessness, post traumatic stress disorder, social withdrawal and isolation.

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I’ve learned that verbal abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse and take longer to heal from

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What’s the difference between verbal abuse and a ‘normal’ argument?

We all get into arguments from time to time. Sometimes we lose our cool and yell. It’s all part of being human. But verbal abuse isn’t normal.

The trouble is, when you’re involved in a verbally abusive relationship, it can wear you down and seem normal to you.

Here are some examples of what normal disagreements look like:

•They don’t dissolve into name-calling or personal attacks.
•They don’t happen every day.
•Arguments revolve around a basic issue. They aren’t character assassinations.
•You listen and try to understand the other’s position, even when you’re angry.
•One of you may yell or say something truly awful out of frustration, but it’s an unusual occurrence and you work through it together.
•Even if you can’t agree completely, you’re able to compromise or move on without punishments or threats.
•Arguments aren’t a zero-sum game: One person won’t win at the detriment of the other.

Consider it a red flag when the other person engages in these behaviors:

•They insult or attempt to humiliate you. Then they accuse you of being overly sensitive or say that it was a joke and you have no sense of humor.
•They frequently yell or scream at you.
•Arguments take you by surprise, but you get blamed for starting them.
•The initial disagreement sets off a string of accusations and dredging up of unrelated issues to put you on the defense.
•They try to make you feel guilty and position themselves as the victim.
•They save their hurtful behaviors for when you’re alone but act completely different when others are around.
•They get into your personal space or block you from moving away.
•They hit the wall, pound their fists, or throw things.
•They want credit for not having hit you.

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07/02/2022

Even though you don’t use your fists to hit someone, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t hurt.

The tounge is a small thing but what enormous damage it can do. So think before you speak.

Verbal abuse can hurt more than physical actions do.

07/02/2022

Please know the difference between jokes and verbal abuse, when you tease your friend and they laugh with you it's a joke, when you keep teasing them and it's making your friend upset, it's not a joke please stop, jokes aren't supposed to attack someone's insecurities or make them feel bad about themselves, if you make more fun of your friend when they ask you to stop you're an abuser, read the signs and apologize, you have no right to hurt someone's feelings on purpose.

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Verbal Abuse involves calling someone negative names or using put-downs or insults, sometimes based on factors such as gender, age, or education level. trying to control another person's decisions, actions, or other elements of how they live their life. causing someone to question their own self-value, thoughts, and beliefs.

The following are examples of verbal abuse, that are the most common in many relationship types: Insulting comments about a particular gender, career, religion, etc. to which the victim may belong. Insulting comments about the victim's ideas, behaviors, and/or beliefs.

With that I myself therefore conclude that verbal abuse must be stop because stopping verbal abuse means stopping our world to experience a monstrous disaster and a stopping it is a key for a change .

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