Unsaid Feelings

02/07/2024

My unconditional love for people has hurt me more than hatred ever could.

12/06/2024

29/05/2024

Anytime you doubt yourself, remember, you are a strong soul who shines after any storm. You literally get ANYTHING. You have demonstrated that time and time again. Keep going, keep shining, you got this!

27/05/2024

Every moment of doubt and hesitation does not define your true value. Trust in your potential, believe in your capabilities, and remember that your worth is inherent and immeasurable, transcending any fleeting uncertainty. Embrace your worth with confidence and clarity 🤍

21/08/2023

Helping others in their times of need is a noble act, but it's important to remember that reciprocity isn't guaranteed. True strength comes from cultivating your independence, so you're prepared to navigate life's challenges on your own. Be kind, but also empower yourself to stand strong.

23/07/2023

These past weeks have been incredibly challenging as consistent failures have cast a shadow of doubt over my life. I find myself grappling with the unsettling question of whether I have been living my life the wrong way. It's disheartening to face disappointment after disappointment, and it has left me feeling lost and defeated.

As I wallowed in self-doubt, a glimmer of hope unexpectedly found its way into my life. I received a heartfelt message from a close friend, and it instantly touched my heart. In her words, she expressed how I had made her happy through the years, and she wanted to reciprocate that happiness back to me.

Reading her message was like a ray of sunshine breaking through the dark clouds of my current struggles. It reminded me that life's worth is not solely measured by accomplishments and successes. It's about the impact we have on the lives of others, the joy we bring to their hearts, and the love we share.

Her kind words made me realize that I have positively influenced someone's life despite my perceived failures. It was a beautiful reminder that life's journey is not just about avoiding mistakes but also about the meaningful connections we forge with others.

It's easy to become fixated on what's going wrong and overlook the moments of happiness and love we create. My friend's message showed me that I am capable of making a positive difference, even when I may feel like I'm stumbling along my own path.

This revelation has given me a fresh perspective on my struggles. It has taught me to be more compassionate towards myself and to appreciate the good that I've done in the lives of others. While I may not have it all figured out, I now understand that life's purpose is not always straightforward, and failures are an inevitable part of the journey.

With newfound determination, I want to approach my challenges with resilience and a sense of grace. I'll strive to learn from my mistakes, grow stronger, and use my experiences to shape a more meaningful life moving forward.

As the day comes to an end, I am grateful for my friend's message, which lifted my spirits when I needed it the most. Life's uncertainties still lie ahead, but I am now equipped with the knowledge that I can positively impact the people around me. And in that realization, I find hope and strength to embrace whatever comes my way.

21/07/2023

Life is an ever-changing journey, and along the way, we often find ourselves holding onto things that burden us. We may desperately want to cling to them, fearing that letting go would bring about a sense of loss or emptiness. However, the truth is that sometimes, the only way to truly flourish and embrace the beauty of life is to relinquish these burdens, no matter how much we desire them.

Holding onto burdens can be likened to carrying a heavy backpack on a long hike; it becomes increasingly exhausting, hindering our ability to enjoy the journey fully.

Confronting and accepting that certain things are no longer meant for us allows us to heal wounds and foster resilience. Just as pruning dead branches from a tree enables it to grow healthier and stronger, letting go enables us to nurture our emotional core and move towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.

Letting go does not signify weakness or indifference; rather, it is an act of self-empowerment. Recognizing that some things are beyond our control is liberating.

Sometimes, you have to let go of the things that burden you, no matter how much you want them in your life.

19/07/2023

18/07/2023

Have you ever discovered your love language? For me, it's acts of service, and it holds a special place in my heart.

Acts of service are all about going the extra mile for our loved ones, showing them we care by taking action to make their lives a little bit easier or more enjoyable. It's incredible how something as simple as cooking a meal or lending a helping hand can express love in such a profound way. 💕

You see, when someone I care for allows me to help them, it truly warms my heart. It's not about seeking recognition or praise; it's about being able to contribute to their happiness and well-being. I find joy in knowing that I can make a positive difference in their lives through acts of service. ✨

However, I must admit that it can be a little disappointing when those I care for refuse my help or seek assistance from someone else. It's not that I expect them to rely solely on me, but when I genuinely want to be there for them, it can be disheartening. I want them to know that I'm always willing to lend a hand, and their trust in me means the world. ❤️

Remember, love languages are unique to each individual. While acts of service might be my primary love language, it's important to understand that everyone has their own way of feeling loved and valued. Some may prefer words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, or physical touch.

So, I challenge all of us to discover and honor the love languages of those around us, especially our significant others, friends, and family. By understanding and speaking their love language, we can deepen our connections and strengthen our relationships. 🌈✨

Let's open up a discussion in the comments below: What acts of service make you feel truly loved? Have you ever experienced disappointment when your willingness to help was turned away? Let's share our stories and inspire each other with our love language experiences! ❤️

12/07/2023

"In the quiet corners of my soul, a bittersweet symphony lingers, as whispers of a fading love cascade like autumn leaves. The once vibrant colors of our story now blend into muted hues, and the warmth we shared dissipates like morning mist. Our hearts, once entwined in a dance of passion, now stumble upon disjointed steps, lost in the maze of uncertainty. The familiar touch feels distant, like a melody carried away by a passing breeze. Yet, amidst the melancholy, a flicker of hope remains, seeking solace in the fragments of what once was, and longing for the dawn of a new melody to be composed.."

falling out of love.

08/06/2023

Sometimes, the weight of the world becomes too heavy to bear. The overwhelming thoughts and emotions consume me, and I yearn for solace, for a temporary escape from the chaos. In those moments, I retreat into the shadows, hoping that someone will notice my absence and recognize the significance it holds.

I don't want to be forgotten. I don't want my presence to fade away into insignificance. By disappearing, I want to ignite a spark of curiosity in those who know me, a spark that compels them to reach out, to seek me out. I want them to realize that behind the veil of my absence, there is a longing for connection, for understanding, for someone to truly see me.

It's not an easy task, to be the one who disappears and expects others to seek. It requires vulnerability, trust, and a deep belief that there are people out there who care enough to embark on the search. I know it's a lot to ask, but it's a desperate plea for genuine human connection.

31/05/2023

Hey there, it's not always easy for me to share personal experiences, but I feel compelled to open up about something that has been weighing on my heart. Today, I want to talk about the feelings of being uninvited, not the favorite, and not belonging.

We all have those moments in life when it seems like we're on the outskirts, watching from the sidelines while others take center stage. It can be a painful experience, leaving us with a sense of isolation and self-doubt. I know because I've been there, too.

There have been instances where I've felt overlooked, as if I didn't quite fit into the mold that others deemed worthy. It's disheartening to see friends and acquaintances gather together, seemingly effortlessly, while I stood on the periphery, feeling invisible. I questioned my worth and wondered what I was doing wrong.

But as time went on, I realized that my worth isn't defined by external validation or popularity. It doesn't hinge on being everyone's favorite or receiving constant invitations. It lies within me, and it's up to me to recognize and nurture it.

I learned to appreciate my uniqueness and embrace my individuality. I understood that not belonging to every group or being the center of attention doesn't make me any less valuable. I began to focus on building genuine connections with people who appreciated me for who I am, rather than striving for superficial acceptance.

Through this journey, I discovered the power of self-acceptance. I started investing time in my passions and interests, cultivating my strengths, and nourishing my soul. I surrounded myself with those who uplifted and supported me, forming a tribe that celebrated my quirks and differences.

I realized that being uninvited or feeling like an outsider doesn't mean I don't belong. It simply means that I belong in a different place or with different people. I belong to a community that values authenticity, kindness, and compassion.

So, if you're going through a similar experience, I want you to know that you are not alone. You have inherent worth and deserve to be surrounded by those who appreciate and cherish you for who you truly are. Embrace your uniqueness, seek out like-minded individuals, and build a support network that nurtures your growth.

Remember, you are worthy of love, acceptance, and belonging. Don't let the opinions or actions of others define your self-worth. The path to self-acceptance may be challenging, but the reward of finding your true tribe and embracing your authenticity is immeasurable.

Hold your head high, my friend, and know that you are deserving of love and belonging, just as you are. Your journey to self-acceptance starts with you, and I believe in your ability to navigate through the challenges and come out stronger on the other side.

With love and encouragement,
~R

27/05/2023

You wake up every day with a determination to conquer the world. Your energy is contagious, and you radiate positivity wherever you go. You've always been the one to lend a helping hand, offering unwavering support to those around you. You've cheered on your friends during their triumphs and provided a shoulder to lean on in their darkest moments. You've celebrated their successes with genuine joy, genuinely believing in their potential.

But as time goes by, you start to notice a discrepancy. The support you give so freely doesn't seem to be reciprocated. While you continue to pour your heart and soul into lifting others up, you can't help but feel a pang of disappointment when the same level of support isn't extended your way.

At first, you brush it off, reminding yourself that everyone has different capacities for giving. You understand that people have their own battles to fight, and their limited ability to provide support doesn't diminish their value as friends or loved ones. But deep down, there's a part of you that yearns for that same unwavering support you've always given to others.

You've always been the rock, the foundation upon which others have leaned. You listen with an open heart, offering advice and encouragement without hesitation. Yet when you find yourself needing a listening ear or a comforting word, you feel as though the weight of the world rests solely on your shoulders.

But here's the thing: it's okay. It's okay not to receive the same level of support that you give. It's okay to have moments of vulnerability, even if others can't reciprocate in the same way. Your strength isn't measured by how much support you receive, but rather by how resilient you are in the face of adversity.

Remember that the worth of your support isn't contingent on its return. Your kindness and compassion have touched countless lives, and that in itself is a remarkable feat. The joy you find in lifting others up shouldn't be diminished by the absence of the same support from them.

Instead of dwelling on the disparity, channel your energy into self-care and self-love. Celebrate your own victories, no matter how small they may seem. Seek solace in the knowledge that you have a heart overflowing with love and a spirit that refuses to be defeated.

So, continue being the incredible person you are, even if the support you receive isn't always on par with what you give. Embrace the strength within you, and remember that it's okay not to receive the same support. You are enough, and your journey is one of resilience, growth, and unwavering self-belief.