13/01/2024
JUST SHARING.
What are the secrets of being likable?
Put that smile on your face everytime you communicate with people. It'll help to reduce anxiousness.
Say please and thank you. Manners define who you are. Respect can only be earned if you show it too.
Don't gossip about anybody. What goes around comes around. Nobody is going to like you if you try hard to fit in by making others look bad.
Be professional in your job. Do it well. If you know what you're doing, keep going. People who waste time are least likely to be seen as productive. Most people like people that are hardworking.
Groom. Look good. Look fabulous. Look classy. We look at appearance first because that's what catches our eyes. Someone liking your sense of fashion is definitely one easy way of being instantly liked.
Smell nice. Some people are attracted to different smells. The nicer you smell, the more people will like you. Hygiene is at the top of the list to some people. Maintaining good hygiene is crucial.
Speak politely. I am in awe when I meet people who speak politely and listen well. It shows they have good communication skills. Nobody wants to meet someone who raises their voice and utters ins*lting words most of the time. It costs nothing to be a nice person.
Be driven by something. Know what you want and let it be your motivation.
Don't be too sensitive. Be open about everything. Listen to what others have to say. Take in everything that's happening in the world. But, don't sit and dwell on the problems, instead choose to make a difference. Make the right choices that will benefit than cause hurt and division. The more open you are, the less likely people will think you're biased or even judgemental.
Having a voice and using it. Standing up for yourself. Respecting yourself enough to not giving anyone the right to d*srespect you. Be a person of value. Be YOU! CTTO.
LOOK GOOD, SMELL GOOD, FEEL GOOD..
HYGIENE AND GROOMING IS PARAMOUNT IN SENIOR YEARS...