14/05/2024
Most of y'all normalize the line “the right person will never get tired of you” relationship doesn’t work like that. they are also human‚ they get tired and drained too. we all have bad sides but both should learn to work on themselves‚ both should grow together‚ both should strive to be a better partner. pinagod mo partner mo kasi you won’t acknowledge your bad sides ─ do you expect na your partner will choose to stay with you? do you expect him/her to always tolerate your bad attitude or toxicity? no‚ not all the time your partner has to adjust. Never expect anyone to stay with you if you can’t work on yourself for you to deserve their stay. character development is a real thing.
If you're not appreciated,
If they make you feel that you're not enough,
If you keep giving but do not receive the same amount of love, energy, and vibe,
If you're not reciprocated,
If you're not valued
If they made you question your self-worth,
If they're emotionally abusive already
The pain of moving on and freeing yourself from the things that made you overthink at night is not selfish. You deserve rest. You're not selfish if you want to be treated the way you deserve not the way you're taken for granted because you show them the purest form of love.
You deserve someone who is good for your emotional and mental health.
'they said the right person will never get tired of you'
No, this is toxic. That person will never get tired. That person will understand, adjust, and help you grow because they care for you. And that person can get tired and have to leave someday if you're not working on yourself too, especially if you're just receiving love and care and not giving back. That's how things work in relationships.It's a give and take. That's how we grow, not draining each other but working together to be better.
And how could you wish for someone to not get tired of you when you are the one making the person tired? If you want to be understood then understand your person too, it's a give an take. We all make mistake but if the person keeps on doing the things that hurt you even if the person is aware of that then leave.
Because the truth is the right person will never make a way to make you tired on them.
Just a gentle reminder, that we should always learn to be the right person first before longing to have the right person. Shalom!
Ps: no hard feelings just an opinion.
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