The CZ’s

21/12/2024

My mga tao na ayaw ng maayos at tahimik na buhay kaya sa iba nakikinig👏

20/12/2024

20/12/2024

Sa totoo lang, hindi ka naman talaga magagalitin na tao, ISA KANG NANAY.

Nanay na nangangailangan ng suporta.

Nanay na laging napupuyat kakaalaga sa anak.

Nanay na napapagod sa araw-araw na gawain.

Nanay na struggling sa mental health.

Nanay na nangangailangan ng pagunawa ng asawa.

Nanay na nagsstruggle kung uunahin ang sariling pangangailangan.

Minsan hindi tayo naiintindihan ng mga taong nakapaligid satin pero wag natin sisihin ang mga sarili natin kung nakakaramdam tayo ng mga ganito. This is normal. This is part of our parenting journey.

Suporta, respeto, pagunawa at pagmamahal ang kailangan ng isang INA.

20/12/2024

-Imagine losing a woman who doesn't sleep around, doesn't go out, doesn't play games, knows what she wants, works hard for what she has, communicates clearly, knows her worth, but only wants you.

To lose a woman of such rare conviction and unwavering loyalty is a loss that extends beyond the relationship itself, it is a loss of connection to a depth of character and integrity that is scarcely found. In a world where authenticity is often traded for appearances, recognizing and valuing someone who brings a quiet, unyielding devotion becomes the truest mark of wisdom. The most profound embarrassment is not in losing her presence but in failing to see the worth of her spirit.

20/12/2024

TO YOU, WHO HURT ME SO MUCH

I told you I was in pain,
And I showed you my wounds
But instead of helping me heal,
You added more salt to my wounds.
You saw my weaknesses and turned them into weapons.
There was word you said that cut deeper.
And when I was on the edge, barely holding on,
And you gave me the last push,
It's like you'll enjoy watching me fall apart.
As if seeing me lost gives you power.
You knew exactly where to attack me.
Always playing with my mind.
Piece by piece, until there's nothing left of me.
Now I sit here, broken and empty,
And somehow, I'm the one to blame.
Today you say I'm too distant, too cold.
And while you paint yourself as the victim.
The world will hear your story,
But no one will see the destruction you left on me. 💔

A broken hearted me💔

19/12/2024

She didn’t leave because you made a mistake, she left because you made it a habit. No sane woman has ever said, “ i cannot wait ti become a single mother.” Again. The reason you lost your family is because she chose peace and the peace of her children over your chaos and childhood trauma. ❤️‍🩹

18/12/2024

WHEN SARAH LAHBATI SAID IT BEST

"How can a man expect peace from a woman he's made miserable?"

To all the men out there: love is not about asking for peace; it's about giving her reasons to feel secure, cherished, and genuinely happy.

Misery has no place in a relationship where love should thrive. Treat her right, or don’t expect her to be okay with being treated wrong.

16/12/2024

When you do the best you can and you hear they talk bad about you, being disrespected and judged 🖤

13/12/2024

MAPANUMBAT NA ASAWA📍

Napakasakit ang mabuhay kasama
ang isang taong hindi marunong magpahalaga
at magbigay-galang sa mga sakripisyo mo.

Bilang asawa at ina,
walang pag-aalinlangan ang iyong pagbibigay
at pagsasakripisyo para sa pamilya.

Lahat ng hirap at pagod ay kinikimkim,
dahil alam mong para ito sa ikabubuti
ng mga mahal mo sa buhay.

Ngunit paano kung ang tao mismong dapat na
unang magpasalamat at magpahalaga sa iyo
ay siya pang nagiging dahilan ng iyong sakit?

Ang bawat salitang mapanakit,
bawat pagdududa sa iyong kakayahan
bilang ina at asawa, at bawat galit na ipinapakita sa iyo
ay dagok sa iyong puso.

Nakakapagod magbigay nang magbigay,
lalo na kung ang kapalit ay mga salitang
nakakasugat sa damdamin.

Hindi man pisikal na masakit,
ngunit ang mga salita’y may kapangyarihang
masaktan nang higit pa sa anumang suntok.

Ang masakit pa,
sa kabila ng iyong pagiging ulirang ina,
ikaw pa ang kinukuwestiyon,
nasasabihan ng "walang kwenta,"
na para bang walang halaga ang lahat
ng pagmamahal at pag-aaruga na
ibinubuhos mo para sa pamilya.

Ngunit alam mong hindi totoo ang kanilang sinasabi,
sapagkat ikaw ang nagdadala ng tahanan,
nag-aalaga ng mga anak, at nagtataguyod ng pamilya sa abot ng iyong makakaya.

Darating ang araw na makikita rin nila
ang tunay mong halaga.
Huwag mong hayaan na mawalan ka ng pag-asa
at pagmamahal sa sarili dahil lamang
sa mga masasakit na salita.

Tandaan mo, ikaw ay mahalaga
at may kakayahang magmahal nang wagas,
kahit na tila walang makakapansin nito ngayon.

Ctto. 🫶🏻

11/12/2024

Naiintindihan ko na kung bakit
marami ang naghihiwalay kung
kailan nagkaanak.

Marami kasing partner ang
hindi naiintindihan ang pinagdadaanan
ng isang ina (mentally, physically, and emotionally) during pregnancy and postpartum.

Akala nila laging galit, akala nila naginarte, pero hindi nila alam kung anong pagtitiis yung ginagawa ng ina. huwag lang maapektuhan si baby.

Communication, patience and understanding lang naman ang makakatulong para sa maayos na relasyon at higit sa lahat kailangan mas higitan pa ang pasensya ng mga partner natin.

To all future husbands, Please understand & take good care of your wife 🤍 They risk their lives to gave birth .

—Credits to the righful owner of this post.

11/12/2024

Sabi ni father habang nagmimisa,

“Once you fall in love, kakayanin mo lahat-lahat, yung sakit, selos, sama ng loob and the truth kahit na masakit na, still mahal na mahal mo pa rin siya because true love never surrender. It always finds a way to understand the pain.” 🤍

( To understand and trust not to judge 🙏🏻 )

゚viralシ

09/12/2024

True 😔

09/12/2024

When Sofia andres said…

TELL YOURSELF THIS, “IF THEY WANT TO THEY WOULD” ✨

If they want to talk to you, they would.
If they want to see you, they would.
If they wanted to spend time with you, they would.
Let’s stop chasing people who are half hearted towards us.
Who are not even sure if they really like us. Who don’t even give us a 100% YES.

GIRL WAKE UP! 👀
You are not an option.
You deserve someone who is sure of you and will treat you like a QUEEN 👸

P.S. To those who found their true love, YOU DESERVE IT. 🫶🏻🤍

09/12/2024

“Stick with the people who believed in you when you were invisible to everyone else.” ❤️‍🩹

09/12/2024

Learn to accept that some things are out of your control. You don't have to force people to do something that you want them to do for you. You can't force them how they should behave or treat you. The only thing you can do is let them show who they really are. You just have to stay genuine and let them show how they would respond to you. Let them expose their true intentions and express what you really mean to them.

While it is true that communication is important, you must also know when to stop explaining how you want to be treated. Know that begging is not necessary. Some people don't treat or love you well, not because they don't understand but because they don't want to. No matter how many times you beg people to value you or how hard you convince yourself that they will change for you someday, it will never be possible unless they decide to. You can only tell them that you're hurt and you wish them to act right, but you can never force them to finally give you everything that you deserve.

Let them lose you if they do not value you. It might be easier said than done, but the least you can do for yourself is to stop holding on to people who do not choose you, do not love you properly, and do not value your presence in their lives.

゚viralシ

09/12/2024

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