18/02/2023
IN GOD'S PERFECT TIMING!😍☝️❤
Paano mo nga ba malalaman kung siya na ba yung WILL NI LORD?😇
Madalas tinatanong natin sa Diyos, "Lord, siya na ba?" Pag pogi o maganda, "Lord, siya na lang."
Sometimes we think this way, kung hindi nangyari ang isang bagay na pinagppray natin or hindi kayo nagkatuluyan, maybe he/she is not God's will for you. At kung nangyari naman ang pinagppray natin o nagkatuluyan kayo. Then it is God's will for you. WRONG! MALI PO ANG PANINIWALANG ITO!
Because there are times that God's answers are 'NO'. AT YUN YUNG WILL NIYA PARA SAYO. kasi baka hindi pa talaga ready ang heart mo, o kaya'y hindi yan yung tamang tao and it will just only lead you to destruction.
And there are times din na pinilit mo yung will mo kaya nangyari, but it doesn't mean it is really God's will for you. It could be just His permissive will since hindi ka mapipigilan sa mga desisyon mo.
So pano nga ba talaga natin malalaman kung sino ang itinadhana ng Diyos para sa atin?
I'll tell you the truth. GOD DOESN'T HAVE SOMEONE SPECIFICALLY NA ITINADHANA PARA SAYO. In fact, everything that happened to us is the product of our CHOICES.
Imagine with me for a while, kung may itinadhana ang Diyos na specific person para satin, then why is it there are failed marriages and relationships? Could it be nagkamali lang sila at hindi pala talaga siya ang itinidhana ng Lord
If that is so, then it would be a chaos. Magugulo ang lahat dahil maaaring nagkamali din yung iba at yung itinadhana para sayo ay nasa kanila, and you will be left with someone na hindi itinadhana sayo.
How do we know then if he/she is God's will for us?
God didn't destined us to a specific person but He gave us guidelines on how should we choose. (Proverbs 31:10-31)
Choose someone whom you can trust and makes you grow in all areas of your life. (Prov. 31:11)
Someone with good influence, someone who leads you to God and not to sin and harm. (Prov. 31:12)
Someone who is responsible. And prepares himself/herself FINANCIALLY, emotionally, physically, mentally and in all areas of his/her life. (vv. 13-19) Especially financially, dahil maaring mahal ka niya, pero tandaan mo, mahal din ang bigas.
Someone with a generous and compassionate heart. (v.20)
Someone with dignity. (v.25)
Someone who speaks words of wisdom and kindness, not of cursing and vulgar words. (v.26) kung palagi siyang nag mumura, baka hindi niya pa kayang magmahal? Think about it besh.
Someone who is diligent and not lazy (v.27)
Someone who is capable and praiseworthy (vv.28-29)
Someone whose beauty is not just in the outside but from the inside out. Because he/she is someone who fears the Lord. (vv.30-31) kung wala ang Diyos sa kanyang puso, di baleng wag na lang, kesa iiyak ka lang.
Do not beg for love. Because love is not something we could just ask or demand on someone. LOVE IS NOT FOUND IN A SINGLE EVENT, RATHER, IT IS BUILT IN ALL EVENTS OF OURLIVES. Start from friendship. I believe it is the best way to a relationship then let it be founded in the will and guidance of the Lord through His Words.
There's still a lot to tell you, but I'll summarize in this. "If he/she is leading you closer to the Lord, then he/she is God's will for you." There's no specific person, but it's your choice. out of the thousands of people that leads you to the Lord they are all God's will for you. Pero isa lang dapat ang piliin mo. Pray for it, and let the Lord guide you. And He will surely direct you into the center of His will. Then someday you'll find someone that you've been looking for. The person of your destiny.😍😇❤
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