JJ's Journals

19/11/2024

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19/11/2024

WHY A WIFE SHOULD ALSO EARN MONEY ✨️👩‍💻✨️

Regardless of how wealthy her husband may be, a wife should be financially independent. Whether through a job or a business, and regardless of whether she earns more than her husband, there are several important reasons for a wife to have her own income:

1. To Empower Herself and Hold the Husband Accountable

📌 Some men may take advantage of a wife who is financially dependent. They might cheat or mistreat her, knowing she has limited options. When a wife is financially capable, she has the power to walk away if necessary. Empowered women are less likely to be mistreated because they can stand up for themselves and leave unhealthy situations.

2. For Personal Fulfillment

📌 Just as men feel fulfilled when they chase their dreams, women also deserve that same sense of satisfaction. When a woman pursues her career or passions and contributes to society, it boosts her self-esteem and provides a sense of accomplishment, much like the pride a man feels in supporting his family and achieving his goals.

3. Two Heads Are Better Than One

📌 While a man may thrive on his own, a husband and wife together are even stronger. When both partners combine their efforts, they can achieve greater success. More income always benefits a family that knows how to manage it well.

4. To Support Her Own Causes

📌 Every person has causes they're passionate about, whether it's the environment, social issues, or other areas of interest. A wife who earns her own money can fund these causes without needing her husband's approval or support. Financial independence allows her to support what she believes in and make a difference.

5. For Financial Stability

📌 Life is full of uncertainties. If a husband loses his job, his business struggles, or he faces health challenges, a wife with her own income can step in to ensure the family is supported. Her ability to contribute ensures financial security even in tough times.

6. To Utilize Her Skills and Education

📌 A woman invests years in education and skills development. Whether it’s a degree or valuable life experience, these abilities shouldn’t go to waste. She should use her talents in the workforce and engage in activities that align with her potential. Don’t let your capabilities sit idle—make an impact.

7. To Build Financial Independence

📌 Rather than relying on her husband for money for personal expenses, a wife can become financially independent. This balance makes the relationship more interdependent, with both partners contributing equally. A wife who says, “I’ve got this!” brings strength to the partnership and fosters equality.

8. To Be a Role Model for the Children

📌 When children see their mother achieving success in her career or business, they learn that women are just as capable as men. Sons grow up respecting women as equals, and daughters believe they too can achieve anything they set their minds to.

9. To Stay Engaged and Grow with Her Husband

📌 Over time, a husband may grow professionally, socially, and mentally, while a housewife may feel limited to household tasks and child-rearing. When a wife pursues a career or business, she stays engaged, continually growing and evolving. This ensures that both partners remain equally stimulating and relevant to one another.

10. She Is More Than Just a Wife and Mother

📌 A woman is not limited to being just a wife or mother—she can be a leader, a businesswoman, an activist, or a scholar. Women have unlimited potential to balance all aspects of their lives, and it’s important for them to realize and tap into that. There is so much more to a woman than her role in the family.

Empowering women through financial independence benefits not only them but also strengthens the family and society as a whole. ✨️😇✨️

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Praying, Claiming and Manifesting ✨️🙏✨️

18/07/2024

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE ✨️🤵‍♂💍👰‍♀✨️

📌 SECRET 1:

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

📌 SECRET 2:

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past.

What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

📌 SECRET 3:

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage.

Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

📌 SECRET 4:

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind.

To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

📌 SECRET 5:

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage.

Some enemies of marriage are:
-- Ignorance
-- Prayerlessness
-- Unforgiveness
-- Third party influence
-- Stinginess
-- Stubbornness
-- Lack of love
-- Rudeness
-- Laziness
-- Disrespect
-- Cheating

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

📌 SECRET 6:

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service.

If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

📌 SECRET 7:

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and patience.

📌 SECRET 8:

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

📌 SECRET 9:

Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

📌 SECRET 10:

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

Marriage is a journey requiring dedication, patience, and continuous effort. Embrace your partner’s strengths and present life, knowing everyone has a past. Understand that all marriages face challenges and true love is proven in adversity. Avoid comparisons and work diligently on your unique relationship. Combat threats to your marriage through understanding, forgiveness, and unwavering commitment. Recognize that marriage is a permanent union that requires constant nurturing. By investing love, peace, and care, you can build a strong, fulfilling, and enduring marriage. ✨️💍✨️

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Inang Nagkatawa Rako Sa Mga Ulo2 Na Emoji Peru Na Discover Ko Na Amo Ni Gali Ang Kanta Niya Sakon Sang Gina Tulok2 Ya Palang Dw Ko. 😅

Peru Atleast Nagwork Dw Iya "Dog Way" Kay First Niya Na Chat Sakon Seen Kg Hambalan Yapa Ko Seener But Still Wai Ko Nag Reply, Kg After A Year, Nagchat Liwat Kg Ga Ask If Gusto Ko Sang Puppy Kay Gaan Ya Dw Ko. Ako Naman Kay Ga Wish Na Magka Puppy, Reply Eh, Mas Maayo Nang Libre Kaysa Magbakal2 Pa. 😅

Sus, Naging Kami Nalang Wai Ya Gid Ko Nahatagan Puppy, Kg Ang Ending Kami Duha Nagbakal, Kg Amo Na Subung Ang Amon Baby Rylee 🤩🐶🤩

Para Paraan Lang Gid Ya Jim No? 🤣