22/01/2025
Loved. Accepted. Forgiven.
‘We all stumble in many ways.’ James 3:2 NIV
When we make a mistake, we can end up fixating on it and punishing ourselves about it for ages. We overthink it, worry about it, think we’ve failed, and anticipate that we’ll just fail again. Once we’re in this mindset, it’s dangerous. Our self-esteem evaporates and we can label ourselves as failures.
But this isn’t our identity. It’s true that we’ll make mistakes. James wrote: ‘We all stumble in many ways’ (James 3:2 NIV) and Solomon said: ‘No one in this world always does right’ (Ecclesiastes 7:20 CEV). We will fail. But we aren’t failures.
It’s good to recognise where we’re going wrong so that we can try and avoid making the same mistakes again. But when we start living out of a place of guilt and shame, we’ve let God’s truth about who we are become drowned out. The truth is that we’re loved by God and accepted by him. He doesn’t see all our mistakes and condemn us. Instead, he sees the mistakes, forgives us and continues to love and accept us. The Bible says: ‘There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus’ (Romans 8:1 NIV). God isn’t condemning us, so we need to stop condemning ourselves.
So what now? You are a work in progress. In Philippians 1:6 (NLT), there’s a promise: ‘God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns’. He’s not a harsh God who’s angry when you make mistakes. He’s gentle with you, so be gentle with yourself.