17/10/2024
HERE ARE WAYS TO TEST TRUE LOVE
I Love you! You love me!
Is a common saying. Everyone wants to be in Love but not everyone is ready to pay the price. To know whether it is true love or not. I will mention a few ways to test true love.
1. TRUTH TEST
True love is not afraid to tell the whole truth, but lust and infatuation have a lot to hide/keep. So, if you are still hiding behind one “finger”, keeping the truth from your partner because you don't want him or her to know the truth, who will later know? Don't be a deceiver. You're not a true lover. True love doesn't lie neither keep any records of truth.
Be truthful and real. If he or she will stay, why not, she will. You should tell him or her than find out later.
2. TIME TEST
Real love does survive the test of time because it was deeply rooted before it started. It is rooted in the other person’s total personality and not just the physical appearance because the more they know of each other, the more the love grows.
Check it, if that guy who used to come almost every day now finds it difficult to see you for a whole month, fails to call, or never picks up your calls, it only shows that he is not in love and he has seen it all, it is time to go. Not a real love.
3. GOAL TEST
True love is ready to give, even if it hurts, it is unselfish and committed, you want to do all you can to make the other party happy as far as he wants in the fear of God, that is true love. If all that your partner wants is to collect from you or have s*x with you, he or she is not in love.
If you desire to get somebody to kiss, caress, fo**le, and sleep with that's infatuation, not true love. His her her goal must not be s*x.
4. MATURITY TEST
Teenagers are not ripe enough for love affairs or anything called love, they can only be infatuated which they call love. If you are still a teenager you are deceiving yourself, if the person you are going into a relationship with is a teenager you are both Infatuated not love because True love can only come from a mature, regenerated, and unselfish mind.
True love is always matured both physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, financially, etc.
5. PRAYER TEST
The person you are in love with, is he a lover of prayer and the word of God? If not, it is very dangerous to marry such a person. It is better to marry someone who is in love with prayer than someone who is in love with beer.
True love puts God first and is not afraid to go before him in prayer. Marry someone who loves prayer, not someone who doesn't see reasons why prayer is needed.
6. CHARACTER TEST
How is the character of your lover? Is he or she a drunkard, a smoker, or a flirt? Does he/she put God first in everything? Does he or she believe in pure courtship? Have you ever found him fighting on the street, or have you discovered that he is a cultist and indulges in examination malpractices or embezzlement of the company’s money?
If he or she is not of a good character and you know all these and you pretend as if you do not see, it shows that you are only being infatuated but not in real love. Real love is based on godly character and integrity.
7. FRIENDS TEST
My dear! Friends matter. Who are the friends of your partner, are they believers or not? If they are not, you are about to sell yourself cheaply into the hand of a wolf that will devour you because no way, no how, they will influence your partner negatively.
Look at his or her friends, if they drink, smoke, and womanize then you are just deceiving yourself because you've not found a true love partner.
8. GOD’S VOICE TEST
If God is not leading you into that relationship you are living dangerously by going into it.
Real love hears God’s voice and obeys it, infatuation and lust disdain the voice of God.
9. DISTANCE TEST
Distance kills infatuation easily but in true love there is always Faithfulness no matter where your partner is.
In real love absence makes your heart grow, fond of the one you love, real love does survive the distance test.
10. PEACE TEST
Do you have peace of mind in that relationship? Is your mind settled? Or does it take away your joy, and happiness and all you now have is fear, guilt, sorrow, and regret? This is a sign that the relationship is not based on true love.
Test that love, with your peace of mind. If peace is absent or far from it, God is not in it and love is far from it.
11. PEOPLE’S TEST
I know that people will not choose for you but If everybody around you most especially your friends, parents, and pastor disagree with your choice of partner. Please, watch it.
If you're blindfolded with love people around you are not “blind together with you. If all of them disagree with you, it is not true love.
12. PROTOCOL TEST
True love is obedient and submissive to constituted authority, infatuation and lust have no regard for anybody or authority.
If he or she is not ready to be submissive, obey your church leaders, or feel you are too much in love to be corrected or directed by your church leaders, that's not true love.
13. THOUGHT TEST
What are your thoughts on your partner? Of good or evil? Do you always have a dirty thought about him or her? Thought of s*xual in*******se? This shows that it is not real love.
Real love always has a pure and godly thought towards the other party.
14. MONEY TEST
Is it someone you can trust your money with? Or all that is after is your money. Are you safe with him or her when it comes to money? If you can't trust your money with your partner that is not real love. You're not safe.
Your lover must be someone you can trust your money, possessions, and everything you're to.
15. DOMESTIC TEST
Can he or she do some domestic chores? Like cooking, washing of dish and clothes, sweeping and mopping of floor, laying off the bedspread, etc if you find out but you keep saying she will change you're on Your Own. Real love is always domesticated.
16. GIVING TEST
The person you're in love with must be a cheerful giver. Not someone who only receives. Must be ready to give all your time not only when you need his or her assistance or help. Anyone who cannot live without being forced doesn't have real love for you. True love gives.
17. ACCEPTANCE TEST
Does he or she accept you the way you are or he or she is just managing you? True love never manages each other but accepts each other. If all he or she does is just complain about you all the time, your appearance, how you talk, etc you've not got a true love.
18. ENGAGEMENT TEST
If you find out that the person you are engaged with or want to engage with you lacks all these, I beg, flee! Test the Love and hold unto that one which is true.
