Pre cious 2

25/09/2023

14/06/2023

“WHY DATING HAS BECOME DIFFICULT THAN MARRIAGE THESE DAYS.”

Please take a minute of your time to go through this...it worth your time.

The true test of dating is in marriage, and reasons why most marriages are not lasting is because couples came into the marriage with bâd grades from dating.

They fa!led at dating yet proceeded to marriage. It's like giving a job to someone who is not qual!fied. People got married to the wrong and called it right because of material gift and looks.

Being single is more of a blessing than getting married to the wrong person who can't respect you or your family. You are better off being alone than being in a wr0ng relationship. This is why no single should play with dating; they should date intentionally, relationship is not a playing ground, date to honour your Creator, your parents and family.

Dating is so hard these days because of hidden mot!ves, some people who go into dating are not transparent, they l!e about everything; age, faith, education, character, lifestyle, etc. People are just not honest with their feelings and what they truly want from the next person.

You have no idea whether the one you are dating is only entertaining you until they can physically have your body, or whether they are only using your good spirit and energy to get over an old flame that once burned in them, or to use you to clean the mess in their life until the right person for them arrives.

At the beginning they tell you all the things you want to hear, project the future you dream of, but in the end, some don't really mean what they said.

Many people don't know that relationship is work, building a bond takes an amount of time and work. You can't go on a break, you can't go on holidays, you can't go for a vacation and you can't take days off when you are building a relationship.

Every day comes with tasks and challenges geared towards growing stronger as a couple. A lot who come your way and ask for dating don't understand the concept. So at the end of the day, they just waste your time and em0tions.

Imagine how amazing marriage will become if you meet someone without hidden mot!ves, someone who is open to you, talks to you about anything without thinking of time.

It is amazing when you meet someone who won't be s!.ck and tired of getting hu.rt or fo0led. Someone who is honest because he or she wants to be trusted. Someone who will be a good mother/father to your kids. oh yes remember beauty and handsomeness won't raise ur children for they do fa.de away.

It shouldn't be about s£x, for that wears off after a while; it shouldn't be about beauty for that fa.des too. But to be with someone who makes you smile with the truth, who makes you laugh every day.

Always remember it costs nothing to tell the truth but telling l!es can c0st you everything.

Please do not let material gift and looks bl!nd you u because they will display their true colors once you enter their homes.

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- Isreal D Advisor

13/06/2023

Some things are not meant to be, always know this and move on when you need to move on.

Stop break!ng your hea.rt by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you, you can't force someone to be loyal to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be, sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. Got to understand somethings are meant to happen, but not just meant to be.

Some people are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.

Don't l0se yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay br0.ken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. You might not understand why, but your future will always bring understanding of why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you.

Some chapters just have to close to open new better chapters.

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- Isreal D Advisor

13/06/2023

Marriage does not improve you, it exp0ses you.

Whatever you don't FIX while you're still single cannot be auto-fixed when you get married.

Everything is a gradual process.

10/06/2023

Ap0logizing to your wife doesn't stop you from being a man.

K.!ll that pride and build your home.

A single “ I'm sorry” won't cost a d!me from you, instead, it settles disputes and unnecessary argumènts from h@ppening.