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18/04/2024

Living Abroad and Building for Caretakers to Enjoy, The Wisdom of the African

I recently argued that many caretakers looking after the properties of those living abroad are the true owners or beneficiaries of these properties.

Usually, an African will erect a beautiful house back home while living abroad and then another person called a caretaker will be employed to live in the house, enjoy the house and watch over the house every day.

The legal/actual owner visits once a year for about 2-3 weeks to enjoy the property. The caretaker enjoys it every day.

Interestingly, the caretakers enjoy the property right from completion, when everything is fresh and beautiful. The legal owner may finally return home 10 or 15 years later, if lucky, to enjoy the remnant of the property; when style, taste, and beauty have all diminished.

Why? Because we are told this is what we ought to do. Build back home when you are never there, spend your money on things far away from you, for others to enjoy.

Even if I was not a minimalist, I couldn’t also see any good reason why a person with a family size of 3 or 4, wife and a child or two children, would build a 9-bedroom house in Africa; leaving about 6 rooms empty all the time to be occupied probably by the ghosts of their ancestors. Obviously a wastage in having a 9-bedroom family house, that the rooms are never used by the family, and the cost of maintenance is always a financial drain or another waste of resources.

You wouldn’t go and buy 10 doughnuts in the morning and just eat 3 and throw away the 7, simply because you can afford them. So why do the same with buildings?

I know someone who is building a 12-bedroom house in his village as his personal residence and this has taken 9 years so far, he is still on it. In the meantime, he is renting a small room in the US and he says he will one day leave to go back home to live in his mansion. He may die in US. Currently the design of this mansion is even outdated, and he has at least 5 years more to complete based on the pace.

In 2018, a certain young man, 43 years, died in the USA from a heart attack while asleep. It was 3 days after his death that he was found. He too was living in a small room, working 16 hours a day for 6 days and putting all his monies into building a 9-bedroom house back home on a piece of land he bought. When he died, his family/wife sold the house. It was too big for them to even maintain if it was completed. This was not also completed.

A lot of Africans abroad indeed build houses back home to create a certain impression of themselves or just to show off, and while doing so, they forget to live in the moment thinking they will one day, when on pension or old, go and enjoy these houses.

Who is an old man or woman going to impress? At 65 and over, you will be frail, battling to live each day and no one will care. How many people really live to enjoy anything beyond the pension age? At age 65 or 70. What would you be doing with a 12-bedroom residential house? In fact, how are you going to climb the stairs at that age?

When white people get old, they sell their huge houses to downsize, but we seem to want to live like rats when young and energetic, and then live like kings and queens when we are about to die.

While we must plan for the future, we must do so prudently and with the wisdom that today is all we really have, the future is a probability. Don’t grossly neglect your now because of a probability; tomorrow.

Invest in your future but do so while living a meaningful and balanced life today.🙏🏽

14/04/2024

THE BENEFITS OF MAKING LOVE IN THE MORNING

1. IT MAKES GOOD USE OF THE MAN'S ER****ON
Most men wake up with an er****on, it is good for this hardness not to go to waste

2. IT BOOSTS THE WIFE'S SELF-ESTEEM
When a woman wakes up naked to her husband admiring her, desiring her and wanting her; she ends up feeling s*xy, beautiful and confident even before she dresses up

3. IT STARTS THE DAY RIGHT WITH INTIMACY
The best way to say good morning is with intimacy. Sweet love making, kisses, heartfelt words and prayer

4. IT BRINGS OUT A GLOW
When both the man and the woman feel loved up, they exude an inner positive vibe that others around them pick

5. IT GIVES YOU SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT THE WHOLE DAY
Through out the day, both of them will find each other smiling, reminiscing about the morning. Maybe they will even text or call each other just to connect

6. IT MAKES STAYING FAITHFUL EASIER
When your body is s*xually satisfied in the morning, it is difficult to fall into temptation in the middle of the day. Unfaithfulness breeds where there is a vacuum

7. IT WAKES YOU UP PROPERLY
If you are sleepy or struggling to wake up, some good pumping, grinding, moaning, riding and touching will definitely wake you up

8. IT BLESSES THE CHILDREN
Because there is warmth in the bedroom in love making, that warmth will spread to the entire house with the children witnessing the love between mom and dad

9. IT CELEBRATES LOVE IN A NEW DAY
No matter how good or bad yesterday was, an episode of sweet love making sets the right tone today

10. IT MAKES YOU LOOK FORWARD TO COMING HOME
Since the day started in a memorable way, both husband and wife will miss each other and will long to see each other later in the day.

09/04/2024

*WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO IS AN ASSET, YOU GET TEXTS SUCH AS THESE*

1. Morning Dear, hope you had a wonderful night. How are you today? Wake up and get ready for work. Don't forget to send your application for the job I told you about yesterday.

2. Yes Darling, I miss you so much, I hope you are enjoying your day, I am heading out for lunch. Talk later. Take care of yourself. Love you.

3.Yes dear I am at the shop doing grocery for the house, next time I am coming with you.

4. Don't put yourself under pressure my love, I know you will achieve your goal. You have my full support.

5. Don't forget to say your prayers by 9am, 12noon and 3pm. Remember our strength is in God. Call me when you are ready for the prayers so we pray together online.

6. Hello dear, are you back from work. How was your day. .. Hope it was not stressful?

7. Good evening dear, i just wanted to call to find out how your weekend is going.
*WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO IS A LIABILITY/ SLAY QUEEN.*

1. Morning babe, send me some airtime,
please boo.

2. Hello sweet, I am coming over for some
pizza over lunch? And someone is selling nice perfumes can I take one please. Love you xoxoxo much.

3. Hey handsome, buy me data please. Also wanted to tell you my neighbor is selling skinny jeans, nice shoes from USA and Brazilian hair. You will let me know when you are ready to get me these. Loving you lots.

4. My friends are doing their birthdays this weekend at Ever Land Garden on Friday, Anita in Eko Hotels on Saturday and Famimi on Sunday at the famous Ark City, We must attend all. Cancel all your appointments.

5. Baby, I don't feel like talking , can we chat please....

*A reasonable guy will marry a lady that is an asset to him and not a liability. Guys are not stupid.*

NOTE:
So, if you are wondering why guys are dumping you, please check yourself, You might be the reasons for your own misfortune.

Learn or perish✌️

We move!🤷

26/02/2024

TO HELP YOU REACH OR**SM

WHAT EXACTLY IS AN OR**SM

Or**sm can be defined as the peak or climax of S*XUAL excitement. Married couples should make it an objective to drive their partner to this peak during s*xual act.

The following steps will help to build up the excitement that would help you reach Or**sm.

1: Look nice, smell nice and be clean. Stop carrying dirty pants around, learn to understand that va**na hairs need to be shaved or trimmed. It's so annoying that some ladies smell badly inside there which comes as a distraction.
You may chose to wear (nightwear, bra or panties.

Take note that every man is Attracted by what they see.

2: Chose a nice and comfortable place to help you have undistracted s*x. Eg. Hotel, living room, bathroom, bedroom, floor. Etc

3: Adjust the light to what suits you---- Darkness, dimlights or bright lights.

4: Foreplay should begin with spontaneous endearing conversation accompanied by loving pats, hugs and kisses.
Sir, foreplay is a must, women are more moved by what touches them, what they see and what they hears, unlike men that are been moved by what they see. Therefore, don't Rush your woman as if she is running to elsewhere.

5: Gradually learn to undress each other. Do you know a woman finds it Romantically rewarding, if her husband is the one that will gently undress her. Just as a man feels happy if the wife is the one that will tell her husband my king, I want you to s*x me. stop rushing her as if someone is about to caught you in the act. Even God knows you are doing it and he has not trouble of what you are doing.

6: The husband must continue Stimulating the woman's cl****is untill she is high before pe*******on. Eg. He may gently start fondling the cl****is with his tongue or finger.kissing and caressing her lips, tighs, buttocks, cl****is, l***a and other parts of her body untill she is s*xually excited. This will signalled with an increase in va**nal lubrication to enhance pe*******on and sweetness.

7: The wife should also continue Stimulating her husband's p***s by rubbing and caressing the p***s especially the cap or the tip and gently touching his tentacles.

PLEASE NOTE: Or**smic Excitement in women are slower and last longer than in men. The women's Build-up during or**sm can be compared to the heating of an electric iron, whereas that of the man can be compared to switching on of an electric bulb. This is why you need to take your time and not to rush her.

8: At a point where the husband judges that his wife is at the height of her cloud 8 now he can pe*****te. Do you know that one of the most pleasurable thing during s*xual in*******se is the woman's feelings of the man's p***s entering into her va**na. Not s*x toys or as man are fooled to Believe that toys are far better than the real p***s. Oh, my Goodness, you need to know the benefits of that pre-fluids that comes out from a man's p***s before entering.

9: Talk to each other each and express your feelings during the act.

19/02/2024

ABOUT S*X AND DATING

A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them S*x, Some have even turned into S*x toys just to keep their man

Let me be very open here.......

S*x might not be the reason these guys walk away!

Remove s*x from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their men!

Aside S*x,what do you have to offer to a man?

Can you support him Spiritually?

Can you Support him Physically/Financially?

How about Mentally?

All you do is Demand Money for Bags, Shoes,phones Clothes, and Outings.

Making him spend unnecessarily

What are you even bringing to the table?

Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan about his future?

Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life.

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!

Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for a ready made husband when you are not a ready made Wife.💐

09/02/2024

When nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness? ~Charles Bukowski

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07/02/2024

A must read!👇🏽

A woman was forcefully taken
by five men who according to
hospital and police reports said that she was r***d by
gang of men before they dumped her at a
bus
stop.

When she regain consciousness,she was unable
to remember
the events of the previous evening.
But the tests that were carried out on her revealed that she had
been r***d repeatedly.

The tests also revealed that there were
traces of
"Rohypnol" in her blood.

"Rohypnol" is presently being
used by rapists to r**e their victims.

"Rohypnol" is actually
a small sterilization
pill which is now being
used by
rapists to drug their
targets especially at
parties.

The drug makes the
minds of the
targets (Would be victims)
go blank
so that they don't remember
anything that transpired and worse still,the drug sterilizes the victims so that thet don't conceive
from r**es
and the rapists need not worry about
having their identities
revealed
later by paternity
tests.

The real bad news is
that the drug have very bad
side effects.

"The Side Effects "Are Not TEMPORARY But Sadly,They Are
PERMANENT".

Any female that
takes it "WILL NEVER BE ABLE
TO CONCEIVE".

Rohypnol is
administered by
dropping it into the
target's drink.

Their targets wouldn't
remember a thing the
next morning,nothing at all that had
taken place the
night before
will be remembered.

Rohypnol,dissolves
rapidly and
easily in drinks,leaving
no taste and
no change in colors
which makes it
impossible to detect.

These weasels can
get this drug
from anyone who is in
the vet school or
any medical university.

It's that easy and
Rohypnol is about to
break out big
on campuses everywhere.

Believe it or not,there are
even sites on the
internet telling
people
how to use it.

Girls,please be careful when you are out,especially in a party.
Girls should avoid leave their
drinks unattended.

To be on safer sides,they should at least buy their own drinks.
They should ensure that bottles
or cans that are given to them are not opened or that they are sealed and they should not even taste
someone else's drink.

FOR GUYS:

Please,inform all your female family members,relatives and friends.

Always remember that you also
have sisters or
that one day,you and your sisters may have
daughters.

Important News are
meant to be
shared.

Do not keep or
ignore,please.

You should at least,share to
protect and to save the lives of your precious ones.

🚫 Your Daughters,Sisters,Mothers,Wives And Friends Deserves To Know This.

C O P I E D.

22/01/2024

Men are not looking for women, Men are looking for wives.

22/01/2024

Moses Bliss met her on social media and it led to marriage, why?
Because when he met her,
She was not hungry
Her gas did not finish
Her house rent did not expire
Her birthday was not next week
Her mother was not sick

They pause shawarma and pizza and focus more on the vision.

Aunty, can you please stop
scaring your suitors away with
“Can u do me a favour?”

I'm hungry😭😭
My gas finish 🙄🙄
My house rent don expire🙄🙄
My school fees 🙄🙄
My siblings rent🙄🙄
My family rent🥲
My father is sick etc🥲

All this blablabla on top one man head o!🧐

Focus on his vision and future and be a supportive partner.🧐

Ni**as are wiser now.😜

05/12/2023

" ADVICE TO ALL MARRIED MEN...✍✔

1. If you value your health and you want to live long and have a happy home, let your wife always win an argument. Trust me, it's the shortcut I know to peace of mind! Where there is no wood (fuel), the fire goes out!

2. Stop trying to figure out your wife or understand why she does what she does. It's a waste of precious time. Remember that you (Adam) were put to sleep while she (Eve) was being produced? How can you try to understand a piece of equipment that wasn't assembled in your presence?

3. Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE, not tolerance. Make your marriage relationship-driven, not performance-driven. She was NOT created in your image. Stop projecting YOU onto her. Show her the need for change through leadership, not coercion.

4. While a man is rational, the woman is emotional. One (the man) processes via his head, and the other processes things through her heart (emotions). One thinks things through, the other feels her way through things. Facts drive you. Intuition drives her. What she can't FEEL, she doesn't SEE!

5. When s*x becomes a weapon, a duty, or an entitlement, it loses its very essence, LOVE-MAKING. It simply becomes another chore like dishwashing which nobody looks forward to doing! Play with her. Flirt with her. Serenade her. Hug. Cuddle. Hold hands. Surprise her. Blow gently into her ears while she is cooking or while you are watching a movie together. Be spontaneous. Being a king-kong overlord in "ze oza room" and puffing and panting like a worn-out locomotive while she wonders what just happened can only lead to frustration. Remember, it is never about the size of the weapon but the fury of the attack! (Decode that!)

6. Go out often. Make regular, unscheduled date nights. Take a bath together. Make room for movie nights together either at home or at the cinema.

7. Remember that ONLY THE TWO OF YOU started the journey together and when the children have jumped the nest, only the two of you will remain. So,

05/12/2023

18/09/2023

HOW TO LOVE A MAN.

There are ways to love a man. Loving a man goes beyond giving him s*x. There's more to it than s*x.

1. UNDERSTAND.
Understand your man will never be perfect. At some point he will be inconsistent. Sometimes he will be impatient. Sometimes it will be hard for him to handle your mood swings. He gets angry too. His mood changes as well.

2. FREEDOM.
Give him the freedom to do the things that he likes. Do not box him. Do not choke him in the neck. The truth is, if he really loves you, he will never do things that will hurt you. He has a life to live so do not take that away from him. You are not his world. You are just a part of it.

3. RECIPROCATE. Make efforts for him too. Ask him how his day went. Ask him what went wrong. Love him hard as well. Be patient with him too.

4. RESPECT. You have to respect his choices and decisions. Give him respect that he deserves.

5. AFFECTION. Show him that you care. Wrap him with warm hugs. Show to him that you are always there for him.

6. ATTENTION. Like you, he needs your attention too. He needs reassurance as well that he is the only one for you. Do not give him reasons to doubt you.

There will never be a perfect man. At some point, you will get disappointed and upset because he did not become the man you expect him to be. But because you love him you accept every bits of him. If he is worth the risk, keep him.
Sometimes men wants to be understood so much, that we forget to understand men as well.

Take note of this!

07/09/2023

WHY I KILLED THE B*TCH: THE SAD STORY BEHIND THE ADEYEMO’S FLORIDA TRAGEDY

PART 1: In 1998, a 21 year old Nigerian soldier named Hassan Adeyemo from Ibadan met and fell in love with an 18 year-old beautiful Hausa girl from Bauchi called Sarah. It was love at first sight.

They got married in 1999 and God blessed them with a beautiful daughter in 2000. After her, they had two other daughters and one boy, making 4 kids. Hassan loved his wife so much and told her not to work because of stress. He was providing everything she ever wanted for her and the kids…

PART 2: In 2014, Hassan wanted a better life for his family, so with his wife’s agreement, he decided to send them to the U.S. Sarah and the kids entered the United States in 2014.

Before they got there, Hassan already arranged a rented house and a car for them. Sarah wasn’t working, Hassan was sending big money to them for upkeep from Nigeria every month. Despite the distance, Hassan bonded with his wife and kids. Everyone was happy.

In 2017, Hassan, who had missed his family so much, decided to relocate to America and stay with them.

PART 3: Before Hassan got to America, Sarah had started hair braiding just to keep herself busy when the kids were in school. Everyone loved her and the way she braided beautiful styles. Gradually, she became a household name in Orlando, Florida. Ladies flooded her to do their hair.

What she was doing for fun became something big overnight. Hassan entered the US, and things were going smoothly. Hassan who was a big man in Nigeria, left everything and came to America to start all over with menial jobs. He had no papers yet, so he was doing jobs that paid him peanuts.

PART 4: God blessed them with a baby boy in 2018, making their children a total of 5. Sarah was making at least 1,000 a day with the help of her daughters who she had trained. She was very fast and efficient in braiding. With this income, she was able to support the family with all expenses because Hassan’s income couldn’t meet up with the expenses/bills.

Hassan got his papers and started Uber and delivery jobs. He worked from day to night and started contributing his quota to the family, but his contributions was like change to his wife Sarah, was making. In effect, Sarah became the breadwinner of the house.

PART 5: Issues started because Sarah was always complaining that Hassan couldn’t afford her lifestyle. She became the children’s favorite because she gave them everything they asked for, while their dad could not meet up. Sarah entered the house whenever she wished. She became the boss, always calling Hassan lazy and useless, while Hassan always appealed to her for peace to reign.

Hassan, a gentleman didn’t like trouble in any form. Sarah and the children formed their own group in the house, and abandoned their dad to always sort himself out. Sarah stopped cooking for him.

PART 6: Hassan became depressed and was always begging friends and family members to help talk to his wife. Hassan was always crying like a baby, saying Sarah made him feel less of a man in the house. His friends encouraged him to persevere and ignore whatever she did.

In January 2022, Sarah announced to Hassan that she had bought a house. They moved into the new house, and she continued to treat him very badly. She disrespected him so much, “Leave my house if you cannot obey me, you irresponsible man,” she would often say.

PART 7: She locked him out in the cold so many times and threw his things out. The children were on their mother’s side because she was the provider. Hassan became very depressed, and started having suicidal thoughts. He told his friends how life is unfair, and that he would kill himself. They advised him to leave the marriage because it was obvious that his wife was no longer in love with him, but he kept on asking, “Where will I start from? I love my wife. A woman I have invested all my life in. The only woman I ever loved. What did I do to deserve this from her?”

PART 8: April 2023, Sarah told him she had bought another house that this particular house is specifically for her and her customers. She told Hassan to hold onto the boys while the girls followed her to the new house. Hassan was like, ” Why do you want to separate the family?” She said, “If everyone followed her to the new house, it will disturb my customers. She then told the husband that he could bring the boys over for weekends, but he can’t come with them, “because I need my privacy.” People tried to talk to Sarah, but she wouldn’t listen. Hassan agreed, hoping that his wife will change her mind.

PART 9: On August 21, 2023, Sarah informed Hassan that she would like for her sons to move in with her, while Hassan remains in the old house. She instructed Hassan to move all of her remaining property, and that of the children from the old house where Hassan was staying to the new one, where she lives.

She then told Hassan that whenever he wished to see the children, he should let her know, so she can arrange for the visits. So, Hassan told her he would do as she had instructed, and take the remaining property of hers to the house on Friday night, which he did. Sarah didn’t let him enter the house. She took all the belongings he brought and the boys and left Hassan outside. Hassan remained at the door for almost an hour knocking, Sarah refused to open the door for him.

PART 10: The following day, August 26, was Hassan’s 46th birthday. Early that morning, Sarah sent him a message, “Happy Birthday friend, we are better off as friends than lovers.” “You need to look for where you’ll be staying, because I have to get rid of the old house. I wish you well in life, I have moved on.” A few hours later, the children called their dad to get some groceries, and he told them he would bring them in the evening. At about 6:30 PM, he called the kids, that he was on his way to the house with the groceries. When he got there, he knocked, and the children opened the door for him.

FINAL PART: Hassan then asked for their mom, they told him he was in the shower. He entered, and went to the bathroom, brought out a gun, and shot her in the head, in the chest, and in the leg. He then called 911, “Hello, I just kil.led the bit.ch.” This is the address, I am waiting for you.” He sat down on the floor beside Sarah’s body.

The cops came, and the first responders rushed Sarah to the hospital, she was still breathing. She died two hours after she got to the hospital. Mr. Adeyemo is now at the Orange County Jail in Florida. He is most likely facing a death sentence or life in prison without parole.

05/09/2023

THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO IF YOU WANT TO GROW IN LIFE AS A MAN.

There are certain things you need to avoid in life as a man if you truly want to grow.
Certain things hinders a man's progress but sometimes we see our village people for being the cause of our misfortunes in life.

Mr. Man you will keep on accusing people wrongly for being the cause of your misfortunes in life if you are not careful and do away with things that will hinder your growth

IF YOU WANT TO GROW IN LIFE AS A MAN:

1. AVOID WOMANIZING.
Dear Men, the energy and brainwork you waste in running different babes as a playboy...channel them positively to become more productive and successful.
Look for a good woman you can love and trust...stay with her and avoid unnecessary distractions and time waste.

Listen, WOMANIZING is an expensive business with no profit, but only losses. Don't invest in it.

Get a good wife and build a family✍️

2. AVOID LADIES WITH HIGH TASTE/STANDARDS.
A woman having high standards isn't bad, but the ones who totally depend on a man to sponsor her high lifestyle will bring you down financially...except you're very rich.
You're advised not to start what you can't finish, because after running you
down she'll go to the next available man.

3. BE AWARE AND BEWARE OF PEER PRESSURE.
Don't be intimidated and don't also lose focus seeing some of your friends, peers doing better than you.
Concentrate on your own personal growth.
If you can fight peer pressure, you've already won many battles in life and you'll be
more focused...and that will help you grow faster.

4. DON'T COMPETE IGNORANTLY.
Competing with someone who has more money, influence, helper, and connection than you 'will surely break you.
If you want to compete, try compete with people in investing, in doing business, in being innovative and bringing up ideas
that will better your life and that of your friends and family...and not competing by wasting and living extravagant lifestyle.

5. Date And Marry A Woman Who Can Advise, Encourage You And Pray For You.
The woman you chose to follow can contribute to your success and also your failure.
A woman can be an asset and also a liability...so choose carefully and wisely.
Don't be carried away by beauty, packaging and premarital 'knacking/s*xing'.
A liability woman will drain you, while the one who's an asset will raise and build with you.

6. SIMPLY LIVE A LIFE YOU CAN MANAGE EASILY.
Don't allow people to rush you. Who do you want to please??
As if anyone cares if you fail.
Manage your lifestyle and resources wisely so you can save something.

Dear men, if you can practice what I just dish out to you guys, you'll certainly grow in life.

Life no hard na you wan do wetin ur strength no carry.

-LADY T

04/09/2023

15 REASONS WHY YOU MUST NOT BEG TO BE LOVED.❤️❤️❤️

Let the love comes from the heart ❤️ 💙 💜 💖 💗 💘 ❤️

1. Self-worth: Begging for love implies that you believe you are not deserving of love, which can negatively impact your self-esteem and self-worth.

2. Authenticity: Love should be freely given and received, not begged for. Begging for love can lead to a lack of authenticity in relationships.

3. Power dynamics: Begging for love can create an unhealthy power dynamic in relationships, where one person holds the power to grant or withhold love.

4. Emotional dependency: Begging for love can lead to emotional dependency, where your happiness and well-being become reliant on someone else's validation and affection.

5. Manipulation: Begging for love can be seen as a form of manipulation, as you are trying to guilt or pressure someone into loving you.

6. Lack of reciprocity: Love should be mutual and reciprocated. Begging for love can lead to one-sided relationships where your needs and desires are not met.

7. Inequality: Begging for love can create an unequal dynamic in relationships, where one person is constantly seeking validation and the other holds the power to give or withhold it.

8. Loss of dignity: Begging for love can strip away your dignity and self-respect, as you are essentially pleading for someone's affection.

9. Unhealthy attachment: Begging for love can foster an unhealthy attachment to someone, where you become overly dependent on their love and validation.

10. Lack of trust: Begging for love can erode trust in relationships, as it can be seen as desperate and insincere.

11. Emotional exhaustion: Constantly begging for love can be emotionally draining and exhausting, as you are constantly seeking validation and reassurance.

12. Unfulfilling relationships: Begging for love can lead to relationships that are unfulfilling and unsatisfying, as they are based on neediness rather than genuine connection.

13. Loss of personal growth: Begging for love can hinder personal growth and development, as you may become too focused on seeking external validation rather than working on self-improvement.

14. Lack of boundaries: Begging for love can blur boundaries in relationships, as you may compromise your own values and needs in order to gain love and acceptance.

15. Unhealthy patterns: Begging for love can perpetuate unhealthy relationship patterns, as it reinforces the belief that you are not deserving of love unless you beg for it.

Thank you for reading 📚 ❤️ 🙏
-Victor Aboh