06/02/2024
STOP ROMANTIC BLUNDERS NOW!
Most men are guilty of committing romantic blunders when trying to gain a woman’s love and acceptance. The reason is often because they have been starved of love, and it has crushed their self-esteem into nonexistence. They have no other choice but to beg for love.
One of the worst forms of romantic blunders ever invented is men kneeling to beg women to marry them. Not only is it a romantic blunder, but it is also a way to unintentionally hand over the leadership of the family to the woman. Men who do this are pathetic and suffer from a lack of self-esteem! They need to be saved from themselves.
Quite a large number of people do not know what being romantic means, and they go ahead to commit romantic blunders and induce others to do it too. Below are some of the most popular romantic blunders.
1. A man kneeling to propose marriage to a woman.
2. A man opening doors for his woman.
3. A man carrying his woman’s handbag.
4. A man who agrees to his woman’s ways all the time without objections just to please her.
5. A man attempting to buy a woman’s love with gifts and money.
There may be many more, but these are some of the most popular ones, and all of them have one thing in common: MAN! It is safe to say that in this part of the world, romance is only about a man doing his best for the woman he loves, expecting nothing in return to avoid appearing lazy, weak, and less ambitious.
In Nigeria, a man is only considered romantic if he gives and does all that the woman he loves wants and demands, but demands nothing in return. If he demands anything in return for all he gives, the least of which is s*x within the premises of a romantic relationship, he is a misogynist. In reality, that is a romantic blunder!
Romance is not the story of a certain poor Tolu, a victim of low self-esteem who is chasing Esther, who does not even care about his existence and will not fight for his love. Romance is about fighting for the love of someone who is willing to do the same for you.
Romeo and Juliet’s story of love was a great story of romance because Romeo and Juliet were willing to fight for each other’s love despite their families’ oppositions. When they could not live to be with each other, they decided to die to be with each other.
It was not a case of Romeo fighting for the love of Juliet, who did not give a hoot about him; they both fought for a chance to express the love they had for each other. That is what romance is about, and on no other foundation than this should marriage be built!
In a romantic relationship such as dating, courtship, or marriage, being romantic is the act of giving as much as one receives or expects to receive from one’s partner. Outside romantic relationships’, being romantic is to apply the golden rule of life: ‘Do unto others, as you will have them do unto you’.
Romance, whether in a romantic relationship or not, is the beauty of life; however, being romantic to a person who is not romantic towards you is a romantic blunder. It is wise for one to stop immediately when one realizes it.
Anyone who wishes to get married and enjoy marital bliss must be willing to be romantic (give as much as he or she receives or expects to receive), or he or she should forget about marriage. No one-sided romance can long endure or survive the huddles and tribulations expected in marriage. The foregoing statement may explain why marriages rarely last nowadays.
A word, they say, is enough for the wise, but these are more than a word.
Written by ’e Rhymez
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