28/10/2023
Umu Igbo ekene m..
This issue about Abusive home,mostly originate as a family pattern...Here a child is subjected to terror and vience..
This child grows up to become exactly what he feared all his life...
Abuse,emotional abuse..physical abuse etc results from debasing words such as..Are you Okay?
Don't let me meet you there? then transcends to few slaps to punches and finally beating..
For both gender,the red flags will always show itself when she slaps you in the heat of the argument and comes later to apologize..or vice versa ..
These abusers will always say they are quick tempered..or that they are under a lot of stress and pressure..But will they ever be a time they won't be stress and pressure?
As a woman..if you can't respect a Man...don't marry him...
As a man if you can't honour her to have a reasonable conversation and sort issues out .pls let her be.
For married couples...A mother saying she can't leave because of her children..mind you that if you lose your life,those children will be left to the mercy of who cares..and you won't be there for them..Be alive for your kids...leave the marriage,better leave with your life than persevere unto death..No one appreciates that.
As a man ,rather than subjecting another human to terror..send her home..
Give your children a safe space to grow up healthy..mentally and socially..
The people that suffers this most are the Kids..Beware of the monster you are creating...
Udo🙏
