12/11/2023
I posted this on my page 4years ago before I changed the page name.
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Singles, read and be blessed.
Happy Sunday.
ARE YOU WAITING or WASTING?
Several times, I have heard singles say they are waiting for the right man. Some say they are taking there time and waiting on God, some will even tell you they are not in a rush. Yeah yeah yeah, That is true, singles shouldn't be pressurized as there's time for everything on Earth. Yours own awaited time will come but listen, while you are waiting, I hope you are not wasting? It is good to wait patiently for the right man or woman but the period of waiting should be a period of preparation and making. It is a period when you gather strength and capacity not a time to envy others. It's a time to appreciate your strength,believe more in you, empower yourself in every wise Spiritually, physically, financially and emotionally.
Sweetheart, let him meet you prepared not in shambles. If you have been praying fifteen minutes before, increase it. Several ladies have turned themselves to principalities when they ought to wait rejoicing in hope because they have built wrong mentality around their lives just because they want to feel confident of themselves. Singleness is not a disease, check any medical dictionary🤷♀🤷♀. Some people have even built a kind of wall against there lives just to raise their self esteem. Yeah, you are single but be approachable. I am not saying that you should be available for every Dick and Harry but don't you ever try to send wrong signals to the right person by over esteeming yourself. Be humble enough as much as you know what you want. Don't waste!!
And again, debunk every unscriptural ideas you have accommodated over the years probably as a result of other people's experiences in marriage. Some mindsets are not good for you, such will mar you. Move away from people who are capable of corrupting your mind. Where did you see it in that scriptures that All men cheat? Where did you read in your bible that tells you that the woman is the neck and can direct her head anywhere? Don't be deceived by person's who twist the scriptures to suit themselves. Stop believing general reports, instead of that believe God's report about you. You are God's child and he won't give you a covenant breaker. All these present day unscriptural feminist movements that are gradually becoming part of you is a wrong approach towards marriage if truly you want one. No man is ready to marry a lady who wants to feel equal and dictate for him in marriage. Submissiveness remains our character in zion no matter who we become. No covenant keeping brother will want a sister whose mind is filled with distrust. No brother wants a lazy wife who cannot clean just her one room apartment. No wise brother will propose to a sister whose tongue cuts like a knife. Work on your self sister, let him meet you and be thanking God. I trust God in the life of our brothers who are filled with wisdom. They watch closely and understand every details. Don't waste while waiting.
For those single brothers that have the dictatorship and manipulating habit, change!! The reason you are still single is because you have been dictating submission by fire and force from sisters. You get upset over every little thing from look at the way she greeted me, she couldn't even bend her knees etc Somebody daughter for God's sake. You are not even engaged to her talkless of married. It is you that know how to analyse all the fellowship sisters pot of soup. Always going from one sister's house to another for food just because you are lazy to cook. Some even assign younger sisters who will take turn to clean their room every weekend. Continue!! I shake my head for that sister that will eventually end up with you. This period is a period to work on yourself so that you will not become a burden to another man's daughter when you marry. This is an age when even men are doing house chores to lessen the burden on their wives. Which reasonable sister will say yes to your proposal with your dictatorship and non-challant attitudes? Work on yourself. Daughters of Zion have learnt to watch even as they pray.
As singles, there are a lot of things to work on while waiting so that you won't waste. This period is the best time for you. So many things are difficult to change when married. Get something doing, no matter how little, don't depend on somebody to foot all your bills. Learn to work of your hands. There are several things you can lay your hands on that will generate income for you. Be responsible! Let the right man / woman meet you in the right place with the right mind.
To be continued
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