20/02/2024
HOW TO TAKE CARE Of A WOMAN.
Dear guys, if you want to keep your woman, you need to show her that you love her with all your heart, mind, and soul. You cannot force her to stay with you, but you can make her fall in love with you every day. Here are some tips on how to do that:
* **Be humble and practice forgiveness.** Oga, learn to admit your own mistakes and ask for forgiveness sincerely. Don’t repeat your mistakes over and over again. If she makes mistakes, forgive her too and don’t let your pride get in the way.
* **Know and understand her better.** Listen to her heart and learn what she loves and hates, what makes her happy or sad. You should be the one who understands her the most. Don’t make her feel like a stranger to you.
* **Be consistently honest.** Don’t lie about anything, whether it’s your past, present, or future. Honesty is rare in this world, and it will make her trust you and feel secure with you. If you’re an honest person, she will want to stay with you.
* **Be loyal.** Make her your only one true love and don’t cheat on her. Loyalty will give her confidence and peace of mind. Loyal men are hard to find these days. If you’re a loyal man, she will want to have a long-term relationship with you.
* **Treasure her.** Make her feel valued and important. Treat her like a princess or a queen. Give her your time and attention and don’t ignore her. Keep her like she’s your most precious thing or blessing in this world.
* **Be kind and compassionate.** Feel her joy and suffering and be there for her. Make her happy and comfort her when she’s sad. With kindness and compassion, you can solve your relationship problems and misunderstandings more easily.
* **Support and empower her.** Help her achieve her dreams and goals in life. Don’t be a hindrance to her growth and potential. By giving your support, you can show how much you love her.
* **Respect and honor her.** Respect her as a woman, a human, and your partner. Appreciate her achievements, big or small. Value her words, opinions, and decisions, even if they differ from yours. Don’t disrespect or dishonor her in any way.
* **Protect her.** Be her hero and keep her safe from danger or harm. Be a chivalrous guy who will take care of her and make her feel secure. Protect her from others, from herself, and from you.
* **Trust her.** Trust her and don’t accuse her of anything without proof. Be calm and manage your jealousy and insecurities. Show that you have confidence in her and don’t doubt her.
* **Be a responsible man.** Be a real man who loves and develops himself. Don’t waste your time and money on vices and bad habits. Instead, build a bright future for her, for your relationship, and your children. Stop being childish and start being mature and grown-up.
* **Make a big sacrifice.** Show her that you are selfless and that she is your world, your universe. Show her that you can leave your old world to live in her world. Make her realize how much you love her and how much you are willing to give up for her.
* **Be romantic.** Make your love story more interesting and exciting. Do romantic things for her, like giving her flowers, telling her you love her, traveling with her, having a nice dinner date with her, and so on. Being romantic shows that you are thoughtful and that she’s always on your mind.
* **Love her as a whole.** Don’t just love her physically, but love her totally. Don’t use her for your physical pleasures, but stay with her because she completes your heart, spirit, and soul. Love her for who she is, not for what she can give you.
* **Don’t give up on her.** Be a persistent man who will fight for your love no matter what. Don’t give up easily when your relationship is in trouble. Don’t break up with her for petty reasons. Don’t ever say the word “breakup”. Make her realize that you are serious and determined to have a lifelong relationship with her.
She may take your love for granted, she may get confused and scared away but keep loving. If your love is real, one day you'll get it back. **Note also that, there is no guarantee that you can keep your woman forever since the final decision for her to stay with you lies in her.** However, you can always do something to make her fall in love with you and be with you forever. ❤️
Blessed Jesuit