11/11/2024
Why you should be in her king's list ..
Men
There are different kinds of women in the dating pool. One of them are called the "manipulators". We specifically called them the manipulators because their main goal is to use you as a ladder to achieve their goals and dump you later.
But beside the manipulators , every woman is capable of manipulating you, because vvomen are manipulative in nature
When you approach a woman for dating, what comes into her mind is "wow!, it seems as this man likes me, how can I utilize this opportunity to my advantage?"
Then, she will start remembering what she needs that moment.
A woman sees every man coming into her life as a destiny helper, someone sent by God to help her solve her problems.
That means that a woman will always weigh you on a scale to know if you have what it takes to provide her needs before giving you a chance. Her needs doesn't limit to financial needs, it includes moral supports , emotional and s*xual needs.
Do you know why?
Women see men as superhumans created with extraordinary qualities while they see themselves as weaker s*x and babies that should be pampered, petted and provided for by men.
A woman feels cheated when she uses her money to provide for her needs that is; she buys her phone with her money, buys her clothes with her money provide other of her needs with her money while having a man in her life. It pi**es her off, it makes her feel lonely and uncared for because she believes that it is the duty of her man to provide all these for her.
Women value everything men done for them more than what they do for themselves.
Even if she is richer than you, she still expect you to provide for her according to your capacity. It makes her feel loved, cared for, it also makes her to feel that she knows how to play the game and she will brag about it amongst her friends .
She is always proud in showcasing what you bought for her to the envy and admiration of her friends. She values it, it boost her esteem and she values you more when she does that.
Bro. There is nothing wrong in taking care of your woman, buy gifts for her according to your capacity, take her out once in a while and spoil her with love .
Even if she is richer than you, it doesn't matter. It makes her feel comfortable and respect you more . You are not simping by doing that, you are not looking for validation by doing that , you are simply doing the right thing.
Can you see that relationship can't thrive without money?
Bro. You must spend, no matter how little it is. That is why I said in my previous post that, relationship is a distraction and advice men to forget about relationship and focus on achieving their goals until when they are ready for marriage .
But this is not point I want to make in this post, I want to talk about "a woman's king list."
Every woman have two lists where she group her men admirers.
1. King list
2. Nice guy list.
When you start relationship with a woman, the first thing she does is to give you a s**t test to know where she will place you. You can either be in her king's list or nice guy's list according to your performance .
Who are those in her king's list?
They are the men who are logical, analytical, who can't be manipulated, who can't be coerced , who can't be forced to do things against their wishes, who are unpredictable, who are not swayed by emotions, who are firm, who don't do things to impress her who have other women beside her and doesn't hide it. Who does what they think that it is right at the time they think that it is the right in their own volition.
But nice guy's list is opposite of the king's list .
They are men that are easily manipulated. They are predictable and doesn't flirt with other women. They are too emotional and can go extreme to provide her needs to their detriments.
If a woman needs an urgent 2k, she won't bother to look at her king's list because she will pass series of interviews on why she need the money, what did she do with the previous one sent to her, what did she do with the salary she collected last month, how can she be so extravagant in spending, does she think that money grows in the tree? With other boring questions on the top of 2k. LOL
Her answers will determine whether he will send the money or not .
But noe guys will not bother you with all these timorous questions, remember that he is too emotional, remember that she is the only one he has and he won't like to lose her which means that he can borrow the money from his friends and send to her as long as it makes her happy .
Nice guys are predictable, their weak points are known by their women and their women always consolidate on that.
Some are moved by mere seeing tears of a woman, some are moved when the woman threaten to quit, some are moved when you compare them with other men, some are moved by coercion, some are moved just by praising and hyping them, their women know their weak points and will always consol
