Love & Romance With Oluwadamilola (2024)

01/04/2024

Happy New Month
&
Happy Easter celebration 🎉🎉
This month is already a great month for us all💕💕💕

01/04/2023

The year rolls, man grows........WELCOME APRIL!

Celebrating ourselves for sailing and scaling through the hurdles of the challenging year is worth it.

I felicitate with the WEAK, the STRONG, the POOR and the RICH, old and young..... You're where you're not by your power but by reasons known to your creator to make life more meaningful to others.

In the month of April, be intentional!

Man shall laugh
Nature shall joy
And Humanity shall be more blessed.

Itzzzzz mhi.... Ejiwumi-Eyinmenugun saying you A HAPPY NEW MONTH

25/03/2023

Mothers are priceless (1)

In anticipation, she searches for her rib
Waiting to get into the blissful crib
Going through lots of not to lose track
But men after men, theirs hearts crack

Women in NINE months pain
The pain, the society declined to remove with gain
At times, our mothers while trying to give us lives become insane
Beaten and battered and spanked with horrible cane

Mothers are legends
Mothers are golds
Mothers are pearls
Mothers are jewels

I love mothers
I loves wives
I love the ladies
I love girls

Mothers, the salt of our home
Mothers, the nectars of sweetness of the family
Mothers, the one that see her children and husbands above herself
Mothers, the sacrificial lamb for the home.

27/01/2023

Everyday, I bask in his pool of His grace. No wonder I'm running the race of life with ease.

I'm bound to be brave and my place won't be in the grave.

I love my life.

30/05/2020

50 ANCIENT WISDOM FOR THE SINGLES ON MARRIAGE!

Marriage is an institution that is so important in one's life that it has the power to determine how useful,useless,successful, failure,happy,sad,joy and sorrowful you can be all the days of your life.your future and destiny is at the mercy of your marital choices that's why you can't afford to make a mistake..emotional feelings for someone is NOT enough reason for you to marry him/her, you must apply wisdom else by the time you enter into that marriage, only for u to find out that your feelings just caused you to make the biggest mistake of your life.many have married only because of feelings(love) without applying wisdom and so many of them are regretting it today, so as a single,pls don't follow that same path.while your feelings is there seek and apply wisdom too..

LET'S SEE THE WISDOMS TO APPLY

1:you need to know and have fear of God first as a single, that will enable you to know your type for marriage..

2:Do not marry from where you are coming from,marry from where you are going.that is, you must have a plan,purpose and ambition,marry someone who will support such ambition..

3:pressure and anxiety are intelligent robbers making people to embrace counterfeit & substitutes: never you come to a point in your life were you are ready to marry anyone out of pressure

4:When the courtship is violent, its a pointer that the marriage would become a time bomb.don't ignore the warning signals in the name of love, be wise.

5: It is the duty of the man to find and propose, not the lady.Any man who cannot walk up to you & propose to you cannot husband you.

6: Pay good attention to Appearance.Don't dress anyhow as a man/lady. You are a young lady, don't dress like my ground mother and don't dress n**e.dress modestly.

7: It is spiritual INSANITY to plan on converting someone so that you can marry them.the reason is because you are not a converter.A young lady of 20yrs came to my inbox for counseling on her relationship; she said she's born again and I asked her if the guy is born again too, she said no, but she was told that through her he will become born again.and I asked her if she was told that the only way to make him to be born again is by marrying him?. She kept quiet. Don't make that mistake.

8: Keep yourself pure & bed undefiled. It's insanity to go & visit a man who lives alone & you say nothing will happen.many things always happens.

9:Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime..prepare for marriage not wedding.

10: Wage war against the devils that fought your parents marriage.you have seen negative outcomes in their marriage,its not ordinary & if you don't fight them now, they will surely come after you in marriage too.

11: Marriage itself is a COVENANT, so always look before you lip.it may be easy to divorce but you can never break the covenant.

12: It is better to wait for God's time for marriage than to waste away in marriage at devil's time..

13:It is better to be single believing God to be married than to be married and praying to be single again.

14:Children born through FORNICATION will need deliverance from the covenant of fornication so as not to follow the steps of their parents.very important!

15:Getting married in darkness is tragedy: that is marrying without divine direction from heaven.

16: It is better to marry late and marry aright than to marry early and marry wrongly.

17: A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.be strong enough to walk away from that unhealthy relationship.

18: If you are a true friend, you will always attract true friends only be wise enough to filter the bad ones when they come.

19: caring hearts never lacks caring hands.have a good heart.

20: Desperation leads to frustration. Never get to the level where you are ready to marry anybody, I repeat again.

21:Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.don't be too blind because of your emotional attachment that you can't see the signs.

22: (FOR MEN): the best way to enslave a woman is to show love to her excessively. As a rule, women don't run away from where they are pampered. [Quote me anywhere and put my name in it.].

23: Love is not blind but infatuation and lust are blind. Know when u are been loved and lust..

24: LOVE puts God first while lust puts s*x first be wise..

25: Test every love with your peace of mind.If peace of mind is absent,then God is not in it.

26: Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.marry your friend.many have married their enemy.don't be part of all this arrangee marriage.be wise.

27:If you hurry into marriage, you may end up with a person who will bury your destiny.be wise.

28: Successful marriage is always triangle: [ A man, Woman & God]. I didn't say a boy, girl &God.

29: Why you get married is as important as who you marry.don't make a mistake about that.

30:Getting married could be easy, staying married is another matter..

Let's see the rest in part 2. I will drop it now!

11/05/2020

STRICTLY FOR THE UNMARRIED

Before you get married, there are things you think you want. Things you expect your partner must have or else, the marriage would be somehow. Those things become the basis of your search. If you don't see it you tell yourself it won't work. Maybe it is a body shape. "Ah! She must be able to write the number 8 very well o." "Guy, na model o! Model'". "Babe, have you seen him? Gosh! He packs it in 6's". Before marriage, what you want is a trophy. And these modern day marriage counsellors help accentuate your desires after listening to them they leave you wanting more than you wanted. You want something you can appease the god of the people's eyes with. Something you can post pictures and do tik-tok videos with. Something that talks intelligently with well articulated English construction. Something that can break your bed and your waist in the process.

Before you marry, you want something.

Then you get married, and it is exciting. The first few days are crazy. The bedroom is as steamy as the bathroom is whenever the hot water is turned on. The english is very well articulated. You guys cant wait to post your first pictures and tiktoks. The god of the people's eyes must get his sacrifice. He must be worshipped, and the sacrifice will be worth his status as a member of the pantheon. You keep telling your friends "ore, she maaaaaaad", "babe he is a big boy oloun".

In those few days, you have gotten the thing you wanted.

Then the days become weeks, and the weeks become months, months in years, and if you are lucky enough, those months become years...years in decades, decades in a lifetime. And then it becomes clear...

You soon realise what your soul genuinely craves and it is not someone that will be as perfect as the entourage of ladies or guys that are on your tail. You soon realise you do not want the granting of your wishes or the promise of the moon or stars. You soon realise that the well articulated English doesn't matter especially if it is used in nagging you and making your life miserable. You soon realise that as long as thought is expressed and it is thoughts of peace, it doesn't matter if the punctuation are in the right place. You soon stop chasing what can be learnt or bought. You start craving your souls deepest desires.

Someone whose heart beats only for you.
Who will wait until you are back home safe and sound.
Who would choose you above all else.
Who would love you enough to keep a warm meal in the plate.
Someone who would look you in the eye and tell you "dont be afraid. You can do it".
Someone who loves you enough to talk to God regularly about you.

As the days go by you realise your soul doesn't crave SOMETHING.
Your soul's desire is SOMEONE.

I can only pray that you find him or her as easily as I found mine.

It may not look like much now, but it makes a world of difference.

11/05/2020

DEAR Lady ‼️

Hearing God speaks to you is wonderful but knowing who God is, is the ultimate ‼️
You can't get to hear him, if you don't know WHO HE IS.

I am not talking about the work you had seen him done, the great and mighty things He's capable of, but your own personal relationship with God.

I understand you are ready for a relationship, 3 brothers are already on the queue, all saying the same thing, *"I heard and God said this and that"*, is what they are hammering on.
But you are there confused and don't know what to do!

Can you please come closer‼️
Praying at a crucial time like this, just to hear what He(God) has to say isn't the way forward.
You will only get answers based on the idols in your heart ♥.

Know God for who He is and not for His work only.
Understand how He speaks and by what means He speaks to you.

Give yourself to a devotion unto Him, only then will you get the best of Him.

See dearly‼️
You can't leave your marital life to trial and error, Nay, not even to chance.
There is enough divorce already, so you can't add yours to the list.

You need to get every details about who He has for you
And that can only be done through your devotion and commitment to Him (God)

Do you know, no marriage is 100% perfect, even in the face of crisis and challenges in your Home, you will have someone to run to because you know what he said to you and what your convictions are.

It is wonderful to be attracted and full of love towards your partner.
It is great to know he has your best at heart.

But it will be more beautiful when you understand what God said concerning him, because you will always have what to hold unto.

Don't just rush because the butterflies in your belly are singing love to you
Pray, listen, wait, confirm and be convinced of the leading of God.

*_Phil 1:6 Being confident of this very thing that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.

08/05/2020

I got married four months ago, my husband and I do not stay together, I stay here in Nigeria and he stays abroad, he is presently working on my legally migrating to join him and we have made some progress with the process of my joining up with him.

Apparently, there is one unique challenge we both were aware is an element of our kind of union but neglected to discuss how we will handle it particularly between us and that is the issue of s*x and s*xual satisfaction.

It was a rude shock to me when my husband began to request phone s*x and video s*x, am absolutely not for this, but I had to give in to him and I regularly had it with him, we both open up (n**e) completely to each other during this video sessions, I know I do not like this but I do it to satisfy him and to prevent him from going after other women since am not there with him.

The problem is that anytime we have altercation, this is the very point he will use to abuse and slight me, he will go ranting that I do not know anything than just phone s*x and opening up my private part on video as a wife, this really hurts me considering the fact that I struggle to do it just to satisfy him and I also have to struggle out of the way the phone s*x makes me feel after each session. His pattern is to come back and apologize to me after he had insulted me with it.

One day, I had enough of his yelling and usual insult that I made up my mind that he will never see my nakedness on video again except we are together.

We have settled this particular issue and he pleaded for forgiveness for all his insults on me cos of the phone/video s*x.

Now, he keeps requesting that we resume the phone/video s*x, but I insist I cannot open myself on video for him anymore.

He has been begging me for this for over two weeks now, like he is craving for it and he wants to turn it to an issue between us. He says my refusal will push him to go get it from other ladies.

Though am pressured but I have vowed never to do that again since he doesnt appreciate my efforts.

Pls I need your suggestions or advice, maybe am wrong!

Pls no abuse!
Mature advise pls.
Thanks.

07/05/2020

JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE 😘 — The Journey Of No Return.

— The Purpose Discovering.

One day, my sister was telling me about her new love affair with a guy...

She was full of smiles ☺, hooping up and down like someone who just won a lottery.

Her whole face was blossom like early morning shining rose 🌹— I stared at her for seconds and ask one boom blasting question!

"My dear, have you done anything with him yet?

She look at me with that strange eyes 👀 and with sudden change of feelings 😔.

I observed that her whole sense of Joy and happiness has been quenched by Just a single Question.

She replied "Sir, JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE.

I bowed my head and raise my head up and said... "JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE.

Immediately, my retentive memory zoom off at high speeds, seeking for different means, suggestions, opinion and ideas on how to counsel her from falling into an incoming deep s**t.

Fast-forward ⏩..... ✍

I recalled the Story of Sister Faith who was entangled into the loopholes of JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE.

In the month of March, precisely Year 2018.. One fateful afternoon my phone rang and behold it was melodious voice of a pretty damsel in her early 20's.

She was talking, talking and talking about her spiritual struggling and difficulties in having Personal Relationship with God — A choir and well known in the church but secretly dining with the Devil 😈.

After awhile, I began to ask her series of questions and she has no option but to opened up her secret Relationship affairs with her irresponsible boyfriend.

It all started with JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE..... ✍

Sir, I think am pregnant for him.... She echoed 😱

Her story was a nasty one ....but when She opted for an abortion ... that was when the Lion 🦁 in me roared.

She said and I quote.... "Please sir i have already spent up to ₦5000 for the abortion. Please sir i can't bear the shame any longer. I will abort the child this evening. I can't hide the secret anymore"

"Sister Faith, make sure you confide with your mum and the father of that unborn precious Jewel in your womb and rebuke that spirit of abortion"..... I retorted!

"Sir, my mother will kill me... It's impossible sir..... she responded!

Now Listen To Me..... I roar like a Lion .🦁
...."Faith, if you dare go for that abortion, honestly, you won't survived it because you gonna die....Mark my word, unless am not serving a living God".... I fire back and cut the call.

She screamed and in tears she began to beg, panicking and kept begging.

Few days later, she called to confess how she rebelled against my instructions.

When she got to the clinic, the doctor had already spread her legs wide to begin with the abominable act .... And suddenly She whispered to the doctor, that a Pastor told her that she will die and won't survived the abortion.

The man screamed and retorted ...."Do you want to put me in trouble... Please leave this place Nowwww!!

She was kicked out and embarrassed.. All due to JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE.

Early last year 2019, she delivered a bouncing gallant baby boy ☺ and at the sound of the News, my Heart leap for Joy in Thanksgiving unto God.. 💃 💃.... 🙏

However to her, been a mother out of wedlock at such a tender age, is a lesson she has learnt from JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE.

Now let Go Back To My Sister Issue.... ✍

"Dear, Please break up that Relationship with that guy before it consumed you because JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE will soon leads you to The Journey Of No Return"......

I Have already counsel her and hopefully she will adhere to my counseling.....

⚠ ⚠ (Please fasten your seat belt because the Post is little bit lengthy)

✋ THE JOURNEY OF NO RETURN:

Friends, Do you know that.... "Just A Kiss With Little Romance might leads to s*xual in*******se.

Now, Sister, Listen..... ✍
...if you got trapped into Just a Kiss With Little Romance.... It's like adding little Petrol to small spark of burning flames 🔥

My dear, You are vulnerable and your weak ability to get back on track during those emotional combustion might be difficult.

At that moment, your whole body will be on fire 🔥 because almost every Part of female body are highly sensitive.

There are large number of nerves ending in your mouth & lips, breast & ni***es, waist & buttock , The Scalp & Neck etc.

This body part are super sensitive to touch due to a large number of nerve endings while the cl****is has about 8000 nerves ending.

Now, merely touching of this region s*xually by a man can set you off, getting you wet Or h***y and ready for an unplanned hot cake.

I, Bro Paul, if I'm into any relationship with a lady, I will never engage in such ...No Kissing and No Romancing.

Bro, I'm Talking To You... ✍

No matter the level of your spirituality..... if you break the spiritual s*xual protocol and refused to fleeeeeeeee 🏃 .....you will definitely fall because the power of S*x is greater than The Flesh.

Sister, ....There are some guys that will promise 'NOT' to have S*x with you but JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE and after, you will start shedding crocodile tears 😢 of regret.

These smart guys know what they are doing......Please sister , if you don't have sense.... you better go buy one now.

It's easy for a man to get back on track while kissing and romancing you — Suddenly he will realize himself and push you off.... but it is very hard for most ladies to get back because when wet, it's very difficult.

More like, between life and death and it's Only Grace.... (the prayer you have prayed earlier ) can save such lady at that Hot 🔥Passionate moment.

So if you values s*xual Purity, you must never involve yourself with JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE which can lead to s*xual in*******se.

That's why I don't "DATE" but only enter into COURTSHIP from Friendship.

I have a Personal Saying That.....✍

— Dating is a by-product of kissing 😘, romancing and pressing oranges 🍊 🍊that your forefathers never planted and having S*X as a means or sign of expressing love.

Now, Listen..... ✍

I always tell some folks, if you know you not yet ready for marriage... Don't get involved into Relationship because......

— JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE will take you farther than you wanted to go.

— JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE will keep you longer than you wanted to stay.

— JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE will cost you more than you wanted to pay.

My Sister, I'm talking to You.... ✍

Your period of singleness isn't a moment of feeling lonely and seeking for a man to keep you company..

It's not a moment to start chasing after beautiful ladies to admire and keep chatting from Morning Till dawn — chatting away your future destiny....

Bro, yes, I'm talking to you... ✍

Your single moment as a bachelor's or spinster is a period of purpose discovering.

✋ THE PURPOSE DISCOVERING:

My dear, if you are still SINGLE, it's dangerous for you to marry without first discovering your purpose on earth 🌍.

I told few people that are close to me that this period of Corona Virus Holiday is a very good time for everyone to seek the face of God in regards to his or her assignment on earth.

If you die without discovering and fulfilling who God made you to be, that's purely an empty life.

Marriage is not the first thing to pursue but purpose....✍

If as a single brother or sister, all what's running in your brain is relationship, you are missing it already.

When you don't discover purpose before entering marriage, such marriage will have no flavour.

God's mandate for a marriage is what makes the marriage to be sweet but once it's not there, problem comes in — I have spent the last few weeks to know more about my PURPOSE on earth 🌍

That's what runs through my mind, that's what's in my heart ♥ .... I discuss it almost everyday and always put it into practice.

If it's not in your heart, there is no way you can put it to work .

Sir, Are You Following Me ?..... ✍

Your life will be boring Sir, if you fail to discover what God had placed in you... That virtues that others are waiting to benefit from...

Now Listen.... ✍

.....fulfilling your purpose will makes you to feel Joyful in the Holy Ghost.

Can you take your time and check out those things......The Dreams —The Revelations — The Visions... I mean, the one's you were told and perceived.

My Sister, How Far About Them?

Bro....How Long Have You Gone In Fulfilling Them?

Are you aware there is time for the purpose to be pursued? — Do you know you will not be on earth forever?

I always get comforted by the word of God that says "despise not a little beginning" — It's not always meaningful at the start but uneasy lies the head that wears the crown 👑 .

My brother, May I tell you..... You will give account of the grace God gives you!

Let me share this secret with you......though it's too late for the married but useful for the singles.

If you want to marry a Godly, fire brand 🔥 , Prayerful and a committed Brother or Sister......

See, My friend.... PURPOSE is very Important....✍

If you don't discover purpose, you will live a life of routine.....Nothing will be special about you.

Dear Sisters, Let Me Talk To You.....✍

Marrying a Brother who is yet to Discover his purpose will land you in trouble 😢.

A major thing to look for in a man is not MONEY 💰 or materials but what's 🏃 DRIVING HIM.

If what's driving a brother is money, ....see, 👀 you will use all your life as a family to pursue money — Therefore, seek to know a Brother that carries God in his Heart ♥ and not in his mouth 👄.

Let what drives him be not what money can buy or get....but rather something of the Spirit.

Please, sisters I beg you 🙏....BE SPIRITUAL...If not, no spiritual man may come on your way because you will definitely marry someone of your kind.

My Sister, I'm Still Talking To You.... ✍

Stop all these double lifestyles you have been parading.

If you keep pretending to be spiritual when you are not, a Brother pretending to be spiritual is who you will carry — Please seek God, know His purpose for your life.....and then marriage can come in.

Let me say, no serious Brother will marry an unserious sister — If the Brother mistakenly get engaged to you, see, 👀 don't be happy yet Oooo.

If he's a Child of God, He will soon drop you and zoom off 🏃 .

WHY?

It's simply because, you will destroy his life and quench his fire 🔥 by your unserious attitude to God and spiritual thing's.

If you are aiming to marry a PURPOSE DRIVEN BROTHER, you too get your purpose and work on it.

My Sister, Am Not Yet Through With You....✍

Now, if you are not doing anything in the Church ⛪ . .....you come to Church anytime you like, you dance 💃 and dress anyhow, you don't control your mouth 👄.

All your life, you discuss other people — You talk about dress — latest cloth 👗 🛍 — latest movies .... Bible is not in your head but Only Jenifer Diary and Naira Malley songs...

Now, Let Me Ask You Nne......✍

Who is the Spiritual brother that will propose to you? 🤷‍♂

Do you think God is unrighteous?

It's only if such brother has backslidden.

See My sister 👀,.... , prayer ALONE is not enough.

I see you like a Good Home but you seems not to deserve it all because of the life you are presently living.

Many of our sisters like Exalted seats 💺 ... they love to be called Mummy and they cherish people honoring them — They want to be Mama Adeboye & Mama Kumuyi.

Do You think those women gambled their way to that honourable position?

I Once heard Mama Adeboye, confessing how she threw all her jewelry, makes-up box, earrings and Jezebel attires into the River and refused to give it out because it's an accursed items.

Now, My Sister... Look At You....✍

— Common earrings you can't stop wearing!
— Common make-up, you can't stop applying.
— Common female trousers, you can't set ablaze 🔥
— Common attachments, you can't ceased wearing.

Yet, from years to decades, after applying and wearing all this Egyptian properties, no man had ever walked you down the aisle and even some that got married ...They eventually got married to men whose purpose are Driven by BEAUTY and not by BEATITUDES.

Many of our Sisters are building beauty instead of their spiritual lives — Physically they are fat but spiritually tiny like a broom.

They can invest thousands of Naira on creams and design but can't buy Single book 📚 To read.

See big phones 📱 in their hands ......No PDF Books 📚, only for pictures and selfies..

My sister, Please Who Do This To You.. For Christ sake ?... ✍

Am sorry, if that spiritual Brother mistakenly pick you, I know God Himself will assist him to drop you.

Please work on your Brain more than you work on your beauty!

A sensible Brother will not look at your outside appearance, he looks inward.....It's what you carry within that matters not all these Seifies and Sharwama on your head.

It's canal Brother that runs 🏃 after your beauty.....While Spiritual ones runs after your Spirit.

What About You My Brother..... ✍

If God gives you that woman you are asking Him for, ....are you not the one that will run and quenched her spiritual life due to your inability to recognize your spiritual purpose on earth.

I once heard that Pastor Dk Olukoya always embark on 7 days dry fasting and prayers (No Food nor Water) every month ....prior to The Church Monthly Program, Theme " POWER MUST CHANGE HAND"

— 0Oh I wish I have power like Pastor E.A Adeboye

— Oh, I wish I can raise the dead, heal the sick like Oral Robert and Dr. Rev. Uma Ukpai.
..wishing is different from doing..m if you see people's GLORY, check their STORY — Stop wishing and start praying.

Look at you my Brother, ....with this your fasting weakness and sickness..... Is it what you gonna use to built up your marriage and support your future wife spiritually?

It's only when they declare fasting in your church... you will have "ULCER" but you can wash clothes from morning till night without eating — From January To December, no single time set aside for fasting.

My brother,.. Please WHAT COLOUR IS YOUR PROBLEM?

Please Who Do This To You... Bikono?

— Bro, It's Time For A Change

— Sis, It's Time For New Beginning.

However, Let not Forgot,.... JUST A KISS WITH LITTLE ROMANCE Can destroyed your destiny and purpose in life.

I Drop My Pen ✍ Here.

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04/05/2020

SEEKING AFTER GOD'S WILL IN MARRIAGE.

I'm surprised when someone says "God must only give me the person i have feelings for"

I came across many people who actually prayed for God's will and their testimonies didn't prove to me that you will be always given the kind of person that fits into what you have in mind especially in appearance.

I have a female friend who struggled for about a year before finally accepting the will of God... she had been praying for, all because he does not fit into what she wants in a man (dress and social wise).

But one thing is for sure, God can't give you an unbeliever 👍

You can't answer your prayers for God's will by yourself and go ahead to ask Him for His will.

Also... While searching for the will of God....Desperation can cause confusion.

God does not work in desperation 😔

Apart from all.. God can also reveal his will through unconditional love for such person..

A love that is not lusting, but deep and brings a sense of fulfillment, peace and happiness

That's why most people will say, start praying for the will of God when you're a lot younger...

That's where a real relationship with God is important.

If as a lady, you saw a man or a man was revealed to you as your will in the way God speaks to you...

Then don't approach the man, in a way, he might not understand if he's not been visited by God already.

Pray like this... "God please reveal your will to him the way you talk to him... In a way he understands"

So... If a brother comes up and say, sister, I saw you in my dream, you're the one!

"....take your time first to pray about it, let God talk to you the way he talks to you"

You might not necessarily see that brother in your dreams to confirm, if God doesn't talk in dreams to you, then such dreams might have result from emotions or thoughts.

That's where a lot of people miss it!

The way in which a person saw his will of God in marriage can be completely different from the way another does

They don't know that sometimes dreams are instrument often use by the devil 😈 because many people have more faith in dreams that in the word of God.

When ignorant Christian's are deceived by dreams they usually resort to blaming God.

So you must exercise some prudence about dreams.

👉 SEEKING AFTER GOD'S WILL IN MARRIAGE

We can only know the will of God in marriage when we know God.

A person who doesn't know God personally cannot decode his will in marriage.

You have to have a close relationship with God in other to know how he prefers talking to you.

God talk to people differently... Please don't forget that!

— He talk to some through fire! √√ "Moses"

— He talks to some through personal conviction √√ "Jethro"

(.....you just have that conviction in your spirit that this is the right thing to do, this is the right step to follow, God is in line with this decision, at the end you feel peace and joy and happiness as a confirmation of being in line with God's choice).

— He talks to some through dreams.. √√ "Jacob and Joseph"

(.....he reveals in dreams to some people in a way they can clearly understand)

— He talks to some through trance...√√ "Elisha and his servant"

(.... he prayed, God open his eyes so he can see the chariot of fire surrounding the prophet)

— He talks to some through a still, little voice, clear but low or loud but just for his or her ear 👂

But one have to know how God communicates to him or her before you can ever know God's will in marriage and you cannot know unless you have a deep relationship with God.
... and you can not have a deep relationship with God unless you're born again.

Just earlier today I was counseling a brother who was seeking for marital counseling because he felt he is ready for marriage.

He is seeking a young lady that will not pulled down the "little" light 💡 in him...
..and I was enlightening him about the needs to glow the light 💡 and makes it steady and 100% glowing through fervent serious personal relationship with God.

The major problem with many young guys is the craved for beauty of lady that will soon fades off...

How can you be admiring a young lady who can't pray for an hour daily nor read her bible 📖 often and can't fast fervently ?

What kind of Apollo eyes 👀 infection are you suffering from?

How can you be discussing about marriage with a lady who isn't broken in the spirit or ever gone through "wilderness experience" or graduated from University Of Tears 😢?

Bro.... How can you be in a relationship with a spiritual lazy lady... Who is only addicted to sharing of pictures on social media instead of advertising the gospel of Christ ✝

In most cases, God expected us to make use of our common sense before coming to him in prayer for marital confirmations.

Now.. Listen to this part ✍

"....When you are praying to God for a spouse, you don't pray to Him with the picture of someone in your head or the picture of how you want him/her to look like"

Have you read it in the bible where God said that "They came to me and I answered them according to their hearts" (Ezekiel 14)
..which means that, they already had the solution to their problem in their hearts ♥ , they just went to God to test him.

We as human, we do have choice, and as we have choice, God also has His choice, and one thing is, we can't afford the price of letting our choice prevail over God's choice.

We can't just afford it!!!

So, the ball is in everyone's court to choose.... "is it my choice that I want to prevail or God's choice?"

The devil 😈 can even capitalise on that to ruin one's life.

The Bible says "Satan is roaring, looking for whom to devour"

Someone that is looking for people to devour before 🤔 , why would we now give him the room for that?

He'll just be like Oh, so he wants a fair-skinned lady, so, he's looking for a doctor to marry, lemme get him what he wants, while the woman God has prepared for you is black, and she's even a tailor, can you see now? 🤷‍♂

There's no way we won't have a taste.... but we have to know first, we have to ask God first, Lord!
...this thing that I admire, will it be good for me?

Is it your choice for me?

Let's be sensitive when praying please.

Whatever picture of the kind of spouse that you want to marry, delete it from your coconut head when praying to God so the devil will not push into your path that banker that you'd love to marry and blind your eyes to see the doctor that God has prepared for you.

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