22/01/2022
BEFORE YOU SAY I DO
Dear Bae and Boo,
This is a very unpopular truth, one that you don't get to hear all the time. I have long wanted to send you this letter but now that I find the courage to do it, I'll make it brief.
Falling in love with your dream girl or guy is amazing, falling in love with someone you are compatible with is awesome, falling in love with someone that makes you smile and drives you to heaven's Paradise is a marvelous thing.
However, when you finally get married, you'll not be having just romantic dinners, beach hang out, vacation in Dubai, break fast in bed, hot romance, cold night cuddling, warm and passionate kisses e.t.c
YOU WILL HAVE PROBLEMS. I know they hardly tell you this but wait let me repeat it again.
YOU WILL HAVE SERIOUS PROBLEMS not just physical problems but problems that can only be won on your both knees. This goes beyond marrying a Christian, it is a test of spiritual gifts, stature and stamina.
While you are making the list of what you want in a partner, please ensure you check for spiritual gifting and stature. This is not the regular born again or tongue speaking thing, it is about fulfilling one of your most important assignment; raising a generation that will force Satan out of our society and show him the way back to hell.
Now that you are single, please before you get stung by the love bug, identify your spiritual gifts and let it play a role in your choice of a life partner. Even if you are hooked up already, it is not too late.
one of the strongest evidence that convicts your spirits and proves that you are right for each other is not when your pastor or bishop prays and confirms he saw her name in a vision, or he saw his face in his dream. No. One of the strongest evidence that convicts your spirit is what you two can produce when you put your spiritual strengths together.
When crises is about to arise in her office and scandals is about to knock him off his life pursuits, who among the two of you have the eyes that can see and sustain an ability stop it before it arise.
When the devil tamper with the health of your children or in-laws, who among you can stand and command RESTORATION while holding the hand of the other.
I'm talking about an guy that teaches the word of God with insight and accuracy hooking up with an aunty that works miracle and send diseases parking with ease proving to the devil that the scripture wasn't lying when it said one will chase a thousand and two will out ten thousands to flight.
Aunty, I know you love beard gang guy, but of what use is him if he's got beards and biceps but not priesthood. What are you doing with the broad chest if when demon comes to attack your kids at night, he can't stand at the gate and say, not on this child?
Uncle, I know you want a beautiful damsel with all the feminine curves but not when all she have offer beauty and not priesthood. What's the essence of the sexy eyes if she don't sustain the ability to see beyond what's shown to the ordinary eyes?
In case you don't know, your marriage will come with many battles, if it was physical I would have ask you to get your spears and cutlass ready, but the battles are those which can only be won on your knees. Put yourself at an advantage by cultivating your spiritual gifts and trust God for a partner whose gifts complement yours.
Be rest assured that when God does the matching, it always turns out right.
Walk on gold