10/10/2020
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I knew a woman who was always in a relationship.. you know the kind- maybe you're the same yourself _ the moment one relationship ended anoda started. i once asked her y dis was nd she told ne that she didn't like being on her own , she was wit a man who perfectly decent but who just didn't give her the love she deserved. why did she put up wit it , i asked her she patiently explained that she had no choice, because the alternative was being on her own and she couldn't cope wit dat
In d end, though, things got really bad and he left. she braced herself for the breakdown amd she knew would follow. i saw her a month or so later and asked how she was coping she told me fine at the the moment. i thought i had fallen to pieces by now, but it's obviously taking Longer to happen dan i expected.
i think it was 6 months before it finally dawned on her that she wasn't actually going to break down at all. Three months later, she met a lovely guy who wanted to get serious and move in together before too long, but she resisted. she was having too much fun being on her own
So the moral of dis story is that you need to learn to b happy and secure your own. That way you'll never stay in a bad situation for fear of being left alone. if it's nt working out, you can simply leave
Once you've mastered dis, you'll only ever live with anyone else because you love them and they make you happy. being alone is great
but being wit dem is even better. if dat stops being the case, you're free to leave.