01/05/2024
Episode 1
I am Abidemi Okanlawon, the first child of five from the family of Okanlawon, I am from Okeho, I also live there.
I wasn’t born with a silver spoon, I was born in a gettho. So you are not about reading the story of a girl that lived her life in a well fenced apartment with Air conditioner and big cars, neither was I opportune to be drop off in a car to school or wake up to breakfast set on the table.
I was born into the family of seven including my parents, fortunately, my parents had all of us in the space of just one year interval so I had to grow really quick to be a big sister.
I was just about 6 years when mum got pregnant of the last baby who is the only boy, and we lost her after the birth, because of so many complications from getting pregnant often and no proper care after birth. My mum had terrible complications after birth and because of our financial stagnancy, we couldn’t afford to take her to a good hospital. After the birth of my brother her womb got ruptured and she had internal bleeding that we didn’t know of timely and by the time we knew it was too late and we lost her.
That was when my growth was hastened, dad tried so much to be there for us including my grand parents. One thing dad refused to do was let us out of his sight, we were all staying with him despite all the plea to take at least two or three of us to our grandparents for proper care and he will also have enough time to rest and work without too much panic. My dad refused, because he believes no one can take proper care of his children like he will,even though there was really no care. So being the first born I had to be my dad’s second eyes, I was always checking on my siblings to make sure they were fine and staying out of trouble.
My dad may have not been given the opportunity to attend the best school, but he was determined to send at least two of us to school, he was always looking out for his kids no matter what. Dad got involved in different menial jobs, sometimes he comes home very exhausted and tired. People advised that he remarries but he refused.
I wasn’t so matured when I lost my mum but I heard from my dad as I was growing that she was the best gift God gave to him. It was their ignorance and poverty that took her earlier than expected. Dad shared a story with me growing up, that my mum suffered a lot, he said she had delay in conceiving and that was what warranted our not too much distance. He said she was getting close to menopause very early and when I was born I was a miracle, then few months into my birth she conceived again and that was how it continued until the last child that claimed her life. He said he vowed to her before her death that he will never get married to anyone again and he intend to keep his vow.
Moving on at about the age of ten I lost one of my sisters to food poisoning, she was a child everyone addressed as the glorious child, because whenever anyone sees her they gift her stuffs, she brings some stuff home sometimes and she eats some other times. This day was one of the days she ate what was given to her, on getting home, she informed me someone gave her biscuit and it was small, that she had eating it. But she started stooling uncontrollably few minutes after she got home and this continued until the next day. By the next day Adedamola was the shadow of herself. My dad took her to the heath centre close to us, but they were not attended to for at least five hours due to the crowd and just doctor was on sit. By then my sis had been dehydrated beyond remedy and fell unconscious, that was when my father screamed to get the attention of the doctor, and when he checked, she was gone. Adedamola gave up the ghost right in my dad’s arm. He brought her back in his arms and the death left the family in grievous mourning for months. Because dad stopped working and we all had to suffer for it.
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What happened next? How did we survive? What changed? Do you think Baba Bidemi move on or he should stay indoor more? Do you think he should send two of his kids to his parents?
Note: This story is a fiction. Next episode drops 1pm tomorrow. Comment below what you think happened to the Okanlawon’s family.