17/04/2023
ADVICE NEEDED!
I met my husband when I had my own house 🏘️,which I built with my own money from the job am doing as well as my business.And him too has his own house 🏘️.
When we got married we needed some huge capital to start up a family business and my husband's suggestion was to put my house 🏠 up for sale as one way of sourcing the needed capital,which I said No and told him we should look for another way to source the capital needed.
Thereafter we agreed to acquire a loan from the bank but there's a need to use one of our property to secure a bank loan and my husband said my house 🏠 should be used so that whenever we fail to pay back the loan my house 🏠 would be repossessed by the Bank 🏦,
I told my husband not my house 🏠,let it be his own house 🏘️ because he's the head of the family, and he says no ,not his house.but I wonder why he says no yet all these two houses has the same value.
This issue has been going on for sometime now and recently my husband said to me if I don't allow my house 🏠 to be used to source this much needed capital then we should better part ways,
Am beginning to think I should just agree with my husband to use my house 🏘️ to secure this loan,but before that I would want to hear from you and give me some directions.
The question is should I give up my house 🏘️ or not??...
What's your take on this?