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16/06/2024

I'm still trying to understand what exactly is the problem of some women especially single moms.

I don't have issues with you being a single mom but I have issues with your attitudes as a single mom.

Every slightest opportunity you want to showcase yourself to let us know how strong you are as a single mom.

I made a post sometimes in the month of March during mother's day celebration. I categorically stated that now women are celebrating their mothers day, all the men simply wished the mothers a HAPPY MOTHERS DAY without attaching any side comment. You didn't see anything like HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to all the men and single fathers playing the role of a mother, never.

Do you think there's no single fathers playing the role of both father and mother in the lives of their children? But yet we just wished all mothers well on their day whether single or double mom without exhibiting bitterness or letting the world know we also have single fathers.

But the reverse is the case on every father's day. Instead of some single mothers to just wish the men well and rest they won't. Instead you will see post like: HAPPY FATHERS DAY to all the single moms playing the role of the father in the life's of their child or children. It's a very bad attitude.

Mother's day is a day to celebrate all mothers and fathers day is a day to celebrate all Fathers.

You will celebrate mothers day and the only day for men to celebrate you will still use it to showcase your bitterness as if you have a problem with FATHERS DAY CELEBRATION.

If mother's day is not enough for you to celebrate womanhood and you think showcasing your bitterness on father's makes you fulfilled, I hope you find permanent healing to your bittered soul.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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25/05/2024

It's very good to make your own money as a lady, then set standards for the kind of man you want instead of setting a standard with another man's money yet you're broke, dependent and a colossal liability.

25/05/2024

Getting 30 boyfriends as a girl it's very easy 👍👍 but converting just one of them into husband is the hardest thing 😂😂 then you will realize that you aren't special 😎😎 they are just using you 💯% 🤣😂

25/05/2024

DESTINY has a lot to do with TIME and PLACE, so WHATEVER your HAND find to do, DO IT immediately because there is no TIME

22/05/2024

Disturbing people's sleep as early as 5am with megaphone in the name of evangelism is wickedness. That's noise making constituting nuisance and noise pollution.

Jesus nor his disciples ever disturbed anyone's sleep early morning for evangelism neither did they constitute nuisance and noise pollution.

There are people who are sick and finds it difficult to sleep, but the little sleep they finally managed to get very late at night, you will just come and be causing nuisance in the name of evangelism. Some people's health do not need noise yet you will position your megaphone right direction to people's window disturbing their sleep.

Nobody says you shouldn't go out for evangelism. If you must go please don't use it to disturb people. If you're do desperate for evangelism please do it during the daytime or still yet go from house to house like the Jehovah's Witnesses, knock on their doors during the day and if anyone accepts you there, you evangelize to them and if they don't, you take a walk.

There's is time for everything and doing the right thing during the wrong time is like waking people with megaphone by 5am in the name of evangelism.

I don't even want to talk of those that claims they're creating awareness for their forthcoming crusade, sharing flyers, blocking the road while dancing on a major road in the name of evangelism causing a major hold up or traffic jam. Using your religion to cause nuisance in the society.

I know some religious fanatics will come under my post to comment rubbeesh because they are filled with sentiments and emotions instead of thinking with their brains.

If what you do in your religion is causing pains to other people by making their life uncomfortable and miserable then you're not practicing Christianity rather selfishness.

You can now cry under my post.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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20/05/2024

REASONS WHY I HATE & STOPPED WATCHING ZEE WORLD MOVIES.

1- It's full of memory loss.
2- Every family members and ancestors live under one roof.
3- Every family member is planning one evil or the other against each other.
4- The one doing evil always escapes repercussions all the time
5- A lady must trip and slip and must fall into a waiting hand of a young man who she pretends not to love and both will use 30 minutes to look each other until they enter next episode.
6- They can look eye like mumu
7- A lady will go to bed fully dressed with souri, lace or brocade material and I keep asking they don't have pijamas or night gown?
8- To kiss sef na wahala
9- If it is not a wicked mother inlaw, it's a wicked father in-law or an evil daughter in-law, sister in-law or brother in-law.
10- Their movies is too predictable same stories different movies
11- The evil one always kill the good ones and the good ones dies and reincarnate and the evil one will still wait for the reincarnated one and kill him or her again and that evil one never grows old.
12- Zee world mumu is Extraordinarily everyday.
What else do u hate about Zee World?

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.



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16/05/2024

MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY!

I always come across newly wedded couples posting their wedding/marriage anniversary online especially on Facebook and I smile.

People that haven't seen anything yet in marriage. You're posting 1 years, 2 years and 3 years anniversary and I ask again what have you seen in marriage?

I didn't say you shouldn't post your anniversary o 🙄, but before you start celebrating your anniversary online please wait to have stayed at least a minimum of 10 years in marriage.

Any couple who has stayed above 10 years in marriage and still living together whether happily or not have developed the shock absorber to navigate the storms of marriage.

When you have stayed a minimum of 10 years you can fill the whole social media with pictures of your anniversary.

Who are you even trying to impress with your 1, 2 or 3 years anniversary? Abi you just wan press people neck?

You are now married, we know that but always posting anniversary less than 10 years is funny because it's too early to celebrate such.

My parents celebrated their ever first anniversary after 25 years of marriage which was their silver jubilee and I was invited home to witness the anniversary and after that my father said next anniversary will be his 50 years in marriage which will be golden jubilee and by the grace of God I will be present to celebrate it with my parents with my kids.

Just 1 year in marriage, una no go gree us hear word for anniversary. Go and ask your parents that have lived together for over 25 years how far.

Normally, you will say, wetin concern me sef. No vex nothing concern me o 🙄. Just go ahead and post your 6 months anniversary. It's your right.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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16/05/2024

You are a big guy
U spent 150k on a girl because it's her birthday & u even gave her 50k just to make her hair.
Your friend told u to come & buy a land where he bought his & invest your money?
You asked how much & he replied 220k.
You told him that u can't buy that kind of land because it's not in a developed area & u later went broke.
Can u ask that your girlfriend to give u 20k for u to survive?
If she agree give u make i bend.
Later, that same friend of yours called u to come to his new house since he's celebrating it & u honored his invitation. You got there & started asking stupid questions?
Is this the same land we came to see the last time?
He replied.... Yes.
Everywhere looks like London.
He smiled?😀😀
How much can i get Land here now?
He said #1.5million and you start regretting.

My Advice
Spend your income with your brain NOT with slay queens,
Those slay queens are destiny killers..
Hustle now, forget Clubbing, drinking & smoking.
When the money comes MARRY, train your KIDS, spend on your WIFE, go on vacations with your FAMILY & you will never regret it.
Nothing runs a man down like unknown gun woman & slay queens.
Don't involve yourself with vision-less women, they are like virus.
POVERTY IS REAL and no woman will want to marry a man without plans or a broke man.

I like woman but I no dey stupid. I have budget for frivolities and can never exceed that budget even if your mother swallow shovel except you're my wife, kids, parents or mother & father in-laws. Your financial stories of help doesn't move me because I hear it almost on daily basis from people and can't solve everyone's financial problems.

So if I assist you financially not because of the story you told me but because I chose to do so.

If I want to be mumu, na only my wife mumu I go be because she must chop my money jaga jaga.

I HAVE SAID MY OWN OOO.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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16/05/2024

It's very wrong as a lady to be introducing every man u are dating to your parents. You only introduce a man to your parents when both of u are very sure u want to settle down as couple.
What I don't understand is going out with a girl and the next minute she is telling u my mom wants to talk to u on phone. Talk to me on phone as how? Why would she talk to me? Who did u tell her I am to u?
Tomorrow she will be expecting to see the young man thereby the young man will be under pressure not to make your mom feel bad because he doesn't want your mom to see him as a bad guy even when your attitude is unbearable.
Person like me if I didn't ask u to take me to your parents during our relationship don't ever bring your mom into it until we are sure. I can only take u to my parents only when am sure of us. I can't take more than one girl to my parents and any girl I take to my parents is a done deal.
Why would she be coming to my parents to cook and wash when I have not even paid her dowry? To me is an error.
Once am dating u especially a relationship that is just starting and am talking to u on phone and the next thing you tell me your mom wants to talk to me, that's a red flag to me. I will develop a withdrawal syndrome.
Well this is my thought Sha, tankio.

Engr Solomon IKenna Anyanwu the Oracle of Truth and Facts.

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14/05/2024

DO NOT LET ANY MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER DECEIVE YOU.

Nobody who is just a startup entrepreneur/business man can get rich with multiple streams of income, never.

Take note, I said STARTUP ENTREPRENEUR. As a startup in any business or career, you must focus first on one stream of income, become good and perfect in it before you can become successful.

Going into multiple streams of income will lead you nowhere because all of them requires focus and attention to excel in them and as a startup you can't survive it. You will only end up being discouraged because you won't be able to meet up demands of these streams of incomes.

But if you succeed and become rich in one stream of income, you can now diversify and invest in other streams and this is only possible when you're already successful and rich in your existing career or business.

You must become successful and rich in one particular business and career before you can go into so many streams so that even if you don't succeed in the new streams of income, you already have a business or career you can always fall back to for stability because you are success personified in it.

But when you start with multiple streams of income, in advent where none is progressing, you won't have anyone to fall back to and as such the only options will be to quit or focus on one.

When you succeed in a particular career or business can you invest or diversify into other streams of income? Yes, you can.

That is the reason why you see someone who started with motor spare parts dealer after being successful in it decides to diversify into car dealing or other related ventures.

The bottom line is, start with one business or career, focus on that and become successful in it before going into any other money making ventures if not you will never succeed in any, thus the adage JACK OF ALL TRADE, MASTER OF NONE.

Those motivational speakers will only mislead you because most of them are only interested in making money out of you through one of the businesses they're introducing to you. Once they collect your little change, nothing concerns them with your success or failure.

Focus on one career and become rich and successful because you can't be rich with multiple streams of income. Only the rich gets richer with multiple streams of income but the poor can become rich by focusing on one streams of income and become richer by investment and diversification of business. Know this and know peace.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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13/05/2024

This advice it's applicable to both gender but I'm specifically talking to men for now.

As a guy never go into any relationship if you're broke. Instead, focus on yourself and career first. Because going into a relationship when you're broke is like chasing frivolities instead of chasing success.

Once you succeed in life, even when you think you don't need a relationship, that same ladies who wouldn't look your way as a broke guy will be at your beck and corner.

The easiest way to be useless is going into a relationship as a broke man.

Go for self development and other things will be added to you.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts

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09/05/2024

Never give up, you will get there.

08/05/2024

You are quick to use western world as a reference to how relationship and marriage should be, but when you are being reminded that responsibilities over there is shared 50/50 you begin to frown face, why?

You are being selective to what you only want and emulate from other people's culture but you're not ready to implement other things they do because it doesn't favour you.

The earlier you know that African culture is for Africans and European culture is for Europeans the better for you. No culture or traditions is the best. All have their flaws as well. It can be improved by upgrading or nullifying some.

I rest my case.

22/04/2024

Some people attend church weekly but avoid God daily.
Read that again!….hmmmm 👨🏽‍🦯👨🏽‍🦯

22/04/2024

RCCG! RCCG!! RCCG!!!

Did you say to see your DADDY G.O one on one, you need to pay 40k?
And una get mind to announce am for church?

Someone tell me it's not true.🙄

09/02/2024

I don't lend people or friends money because I have learned a lot of things. It either ends in losing that friend or relationship when the time for payback comes.
But if I must lend you money, it must be based on the following conditions:

1- I can only lend you money I'm willing to let go if you refuse to payback.

2- I can only lend you money which I'm not ready to let go only if there is a deposit of collateral in the form of landed properties, house properties like electronics etc. These property must be legitimately owned by you the borrower with proof of ownership. Any collateral you are depositing must be at least twice the money I'm lending you.
There must be a written and signed agreement between you and I in the presence of your witness and mine.

There must also be a stipulated time to pay the money back. If you don't payback by the stipulated time I will auction sell the property to recover the money without your consent and whatever amount I sell it, is none of your business.

Anything other than this, I don't lend people money.

11/01/2024

SHE IS A WOMAN!!!

So what?
She gets into an argument
with a man, he slaps her,
She feels the pain, yet they
tell her, you provoked him. She
should have been quiet, she
should have been patient.
She should apologize to him.

She get into an argument
with a man, she slap him,
they tell her, she have no
respect, no home
training. She should have
been quiet, she should have
been patient. She should
apologize to him.
Because she's a woman, she
don't have a right to be
angry. So, the degree of
her innocence is directly
proportional to the
degree of her silence in
the face of oppression
and brutality.....

Because she's a woman,
her husband cheats on
her, she's told to tolerate it
to save her marriage. The
barbaric and stupid
excuse is that ''it is in
their nature to cheat, she
should slim down, dress
better, cook better, pray
harder and be more
pleasant to him"

She cheats, and she's called a
w***e. She has committed
an abomination. She has no
right to look elsewhere
for the love and
emotional support she lacks
at home. She's an
irresponsible mother.

So she's sent packing,
from the home they both
built, with all her earthly
possessions stuffed into
a tiny box on her head. She's henceforth forbidden
from seeing her
children. She's lucky to be
allowed to go with her
little one still suckling on
her left breast. Three
years later, the little one
is tagged a bastard. Now,
her new name is "after-
three", because she's a
woman.

He is 28 and runs a
company. He's tagged
wonderful, hardworking,
focused, career oriented,
successful at a very
young age.

She's 28 and run a
company "Hmmmm....
she is not even married,
unserious, can not order
her priorities right, a
hustler, loves money, let
her go and get a husband
oh"
And I wonder if being
successful has anything
to do with a person's
gender.

Because she's a woman,
She's not allowed to have
wits or be a prodigy. She
cannot be financially
buoyant, professionally
successful or be treated
with respect without a
man beside her.

Then she's tagged a
generous leg opener, "a
runs girl". They never see
the possibility that she
actually had to go
through ups and downs
to get to where she is
because she's a woman.

A man looses his wife to
death and remarries a
year after, he did the right
thing, he's being praised
and congratulated for
moving on, after all life is
for the living.

A woman looses her
husband to death and
remarries after 4yrs,
"aaah! so early? Are u
sure she wasn't sleeping
with that man even when
her husband was alive?
That was why she killed
her husband. She's a
witch! Because she's a
woman.

Because she's a woman,
this post will be
considered controversial,
and everyone will try to
correct me. But don't
forget, that being a woman
does not make her
less human!!!

Share to respect some
women and Tell your
woman that you love
her
: *Who is a
woman?????*
When she is quiet,
millions of things are
running through her
mind. When she stares at
you, she is wondering
why she loves you so
much in spite of being
taken for granted. When
she says I will stand by
you, she will stand by you
like a solid rock. Never
hurt her or take her for
granted. A very heart
touching message by a
woman. Someone asked
her, Are you a working
woman or a housewife?
She replied: Yes, I am a
full-time working
housewife. I work 24
hours a day. I'm a Mum.
I'm a Wife. I'm a
Daughter. I'm a Daughter-
in-law. I'm an Alarm
clock. I'm a Cook. I'm a
Maid. I'm a Teacher. I'm a
Waitress. I'm a Nanny.
I'm a Nurse. I'm a
Handywoman. I'm a
Security officer. I'm a
Counsellor. I'm a
Comforter. I don't get
holidays. I don't get sick
leave. I don't get day off. I
work through day and
night. I'm on call all hours
and get paid with a
sentence. "What Do U Do
All Day??" This Is
Dedicated to all
women*** A Woman has
the most unique
character like salt! Her
presence is never
REMEMBERED

FINALLY SHE'S JUST HUMAN.

💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃👌

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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16/12/2023

Shebi everyone is shouting FEAR MEN, FEAR WOMEN okwaya 🤔. Yet every Saturday una dey attend wedding abi? Sister you get more than 8 different asoebi clothes and don do chief bridesmaid 3 times and brother don do best man twice yet fear men and women ana ada ebe n'ile.

It takes only those without fear to get married knowing that whether married or not fear will always be a factor in human existence and to conquer fear, you must face the fear.

Anyway, keep fearing your opposite gender and keep attending other people's wedding or face your fear and let others attend your wedding.

What do I know kwanu? In fact FEAR WOMEN, most especially MEN.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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01/12/2023

My music video studio shoot I did in 2016 when some yeye politicians were good then.
I get small musical talent Sha.

22/11/2023

I usually hear some ladies say: IN MY LINEAGE WE DON'T ABORT PREGNANCY FOR THAT REASON I'M NOT ABORTING THIS BABY YEN YEN YEN🙄.

My question to these ladies is: WHY GO INTO UNPROTECTED S3X WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR LINEAGE DON'T ABORT PREGNANCY?

Take note, I'm not in anyway justifying abortion but stop trapping men with pregnancy out of desperation just because you want him to marry you.

Most times it's when the guy is well to do you will hear women using that line but once you are still struggling the response will be: I CAN'T KEEP THIS PREGNANCY BECAUSE MY FATHER WILL K!LL ME FOR BRINGING SHAME TO MY FAMILY.

Dear Queens, if you know your lineage don't do abortions please abstain from premarital s3x or still yet, use protection.

Whether your lineage don't do abortions or you don't want to bring shame to your family, please abstain from premarital s3x or use protection. I don't want to hear any useless excuse for keeping or not keeping your pregnancy.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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12/11/2023

If i make up my mind to do business with you please focus on the business. Once you tell me you are a pastor, I will terminate the business with you.

I'm only dealing with you as a business partner, client, contractor or customer and with the intention you will deliver your own part of the deal and I will do same. I'm not dealing with you because you are a pastor.

To be honest with you, if you are doing any business with anyone and instead of telling you how he or she can execute the business, rather they are telling you they are pastor and for that reason they can be trusted, my brother and my sister abeg hold your shoe for hand and run as fast as your leg can carry you, na them.

Na who pastor business partner never do something before dey trust them. I'm not saying that all pastors can't be trusted when it comes to business o 🙄, but as for me once I hear I be pastor when I want to go into business with you I will end the business.

The business has nothing to do with religion so why tell me you are a pastor? Dem done do me tire in the name of pastor so I dey fear any business partner wey dey take him mouth pronounce am.

You don't need to tell me you are a pastor when I want to do business with you but your character and honesty will make me see it not by hearing u say it.

I have no grudges with pastors because I have a mentor who is a pastor. I also have a lot of pastor I respect but if you must go into any business transactions with a pastor make sure there is a written and signed agreement and a witness must be signatory to the agreement, e get why. E go shock u when e go happen because na human being dem be too.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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07/11/2023

AS A MAN IF YOUR SPOUSE MUST CHANGE HER SIM/PHONE NUMBER AFTER WEDDING, THEN IT'S A BAD START FOR YOUR MARRIAGE.

This simply means you have trust issues and you don't trust that your wife can be faithful to you except she changes phone number. My question is why would a man go into marriage with a woman he can't trust if she continues using her old Sim after wedding?

Marriage is built with trust and if you start it with mistrust then it's a recipe for disaster. A woman who is not faithful, changing Sim or phone number changes nothing.

If you know that after wedding your spouse must change her Sim or phone number there is no need getting married to her because it's wickedness.

Some would even go to the extent of stopping their spouse from using social media such as Facebook and Instagram etc.

Oga if you don't trust her, then don't marry her. She isn't your slave because you married her.

I know some alpha male with a touch of Allah Kaduna will come after me.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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06/11/2023

NO WOMAN MUST SUFFER WITH YOU BEFORE MARRIAGE. SUFFERING WITH YOU IS NOT A TEST FOR WIFE MATERIAL.

I normally hear guys say: This girl suffered a lot for me and for that reason I will marry her. If I don't marry her it will be very ungrateful of me.

I also hear ladies say: After I suffered with him I don't think he will be ungrateful to me not to marry me. If he doesn't marry me after all I went through with him, I will never forgive him. In fact he will regret ever knowing me or crossing my part. SHEY YOU DEY WHINE ME NI? 🙄

Dear men, no woman should suffer with you before you marry her. Suffering with you is not a criteria for a wife material. As a man before you go into marriage or decide to settle down with a life partner you must be ready for that. You don't need to drag someone's daughter into your journey of life in the name of trying to know if she is a wife material, never. Doing so will only make you to have the feeling of indebtedness to her and giving her the feelings of entitlement to your life.

Marriage should not be based on self pity. Nobody should ever get married based on self pity or based on the feelings of indebtedness to the other.

Abraham, Isaac, Jacob or any other Biblical figures you can think of never dragged any woman into the journey of their lives before making them wife.

When Abraham, Isaac and Jacob were due for marriage, they went straight to the family they intend to get married from and made their intentions known and right there everything was settled. It was after marriage that their wife started partaking in the remaining journey of their lives.

Even in the case of Jacob the reverse was the case. It was Jacob who has to suffer and labour in his Father in-laws house for 14 years to enable him marry Leah and Rachel. Your woman should only suffer or enjoy with you when she is your wife not as a girlfriend or a date.

So ladies stop trying to impress any man to prove you are a wife material by partaking in his suffering or enjoyment. Whenever a man is ready to settle down, he will definitely do so and doesn't require to have a suffering partner to do so.

This will only make him marry you out of self pity which is a dangerous ingredients to marriage.

For ladies, never you allow any man to sponsor your education on the basis of getting married to him after graduation so that you don't marry out of self pity or feeling indebted to him. He should only sponsor your education as your husband not because you promised to marry him after graduation.

As I normally tell men, if you want to sponsor any lady in school, please do so without any expectations or pay back so you don't feel betrayed if she doesn't keep to her promise.

Marriage should never be built on the altar of self pity or indebtedness irrespective of the circumstances surrounding the situation. Marriage should be based on readiness, love and maturity not self pity.

For the fact that you suffered with him or were with him during his struggling days doesn't mean he must marry you. Guys, just because you sponsored her education doesn't mean she must marry you.

Please never get me wrong. As a guy if you decides to support a girls education or business please do it with the mindset that it's what you can still do to anyone else and not with the intention of expecting her to reciprocate it with a favour or marriage. But if after doing so she still accepts to marry you, good and fine as long as it wasn't under compulsion or self pity.

Same thing goes to the ladies. Whatever you are doing for a guy who is not your husband, please do it with the intention that it's something you can do for any other guys out there and not with the intention of getting a reward from him afterward in the name of marriage. But if after everything you did for him both of you ends up getting married, good and fine as long as it wasn't done under compulsion or self pity.

What are my even saying, writing long epistle? What I'm trying to say is you don't need to suffer with any man or woman before marrying them. Once a guy is ready for marriage he will surely marry whoever he desires whether you stood by him or not.

So do away with that mentality of you must suffer with a man. Abi suffer no dey tire you aunty?

My wife to be can never suffer with me to prove wife material. Once I'm ready for marriage, I will marry a responsible and ready lady irrespective of her past life. Marriage is for people who are ready to settle down not for people who wants to marry out of self pity.

I rest my case.

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts.

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05/11/2023

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY WOMEN IN PARTICULAR INDICATES IN THEIR MARITAL STATUS "Engaged to Mr abc" instead of indicating being SINGLE?

Before I delve into this, I'm yet to see a man's profile indicating "ENGAGED". You either see Married or Single with few indicating "MARRIED TO Miss xyz.

There are 3 major reasons while women indicate "ENGAGED TO Mr abc on their Facebook profile. The reasons are:
1- Insecurity
2- Desperation
3- Making other ladies or Ex envious.

I will analyze these 3 reasons.

1- INSECURITY: When a woman is scared of losing the man to her gender, she tends to put it up on her profile making sure she tags the man for all to know especially her gender so they will back off.
2- DESPERATION: This is particular motive have similarities with insecurity but quite distinct. In this case a woman can do anything just to keep the man to herself probably because she is not getting any younger or feels if she loses him there may not be any probability she may get someone soon or any man like him again.
Therefore, putting up such status on their profile by tagging him to it, is a subtle way of telling the man that I don't have any other person in my life abeg no fall my hand o 🙄, because my village people are watching.

3- Making other ladies or Ex envious: This already is self explanatory. In a bid to make your gender see how lucky you are to have him especially when you knew there were other ladies who contested but you were the chosen one.
Ladies also use it as an opportunity to pass a message to their Ex just to taunt him that she can still find love again with or without his existence.

Above all reasons number 1 & 2 is most common reasons they do that.

Whichever reasons you do that, it's your choice but that is a subtle way to emotionally blackmail a man into marrying you. It shows feeling of insecurity and desperation. You are directly or indirectly telling the man you dare not end this relationship since I have announced you to the world.

As far as I'm concerned there is only 2 relationships status which is either SINGLE or MARRIED. Whether you are a widow, widower, divorcee or separated you must fall into any of the categories which is SINGLE or MARRIED.

I have never come across any official form where you fill in ENGAGED as a marital status. Being Engaged is an information that should be kept between both families (of the man and woman) and few trusted friends and relatives. That info shouldn't be in a public domain. The only info permitted to be in public domain is MARRIED or SINGLE not ENGAGED.

Tomorrow if it didn't end in marriage you will be more devasted because a lot of people already know about it except you are telling me that all engagement must end in marriage. But if few people only knew about the engagement it will be easier to move on.

Lastly if you are doing it to pepper your gender or ex make you make sure say u don't have any cockroach in your cupboard either from your past life or currently and the people you want to pepper no get anything dem go use against you before your fiance because no be every man get sense. Some men loves gossip and can believe anything and are ready to cancel their wedding on the wedding day talk less of engagement.

If indicating ENGAGED makes you happy abeg continue o 🙄 before you go say make I mind my business. But if your fiance can't indicate same ENGAGED TO MISS xyz on his Facebook profile, Haunty you are desperate and insecure. If he is not returning same energy you put in the relationship abeg rest. He is not doing you any favour to engage or marry you. Relationship should be mutual and not one sided thing.

Anyway what do I know kwanu. Wetin concern me🤔?

I rest my case

Engr Solomon Ikenna Anyanwu The Oracle Of Truth And Facts

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