26/10/2024
I see a little difference, between these two beautiful and wonderful couples. They got their desired and destined husbands, but something's a bit different about them.
Veekee James is a loud lover, very loud and pronounce, she loves to showcase her love to her husband in public. Which has extensively, Turned her husband, and not to mention, her home. And marriage into, content creating sort of and turned her husband to a content creator.
One would say, her husband is her puppet and that's what she showcase him to look like to the public eyes.
Prudent Gabriel is a silent lover, both their wedding was great and wonderful.
She's not loud, not too much of a noise maker and she's seem to be more understanding. More cautious of the word "marriage" or "sacred and sanctity of marriage" than her. From her wedding vows, her emotions speaks louder of her love, for her husband than actions or words.
Veekee James husband, Femi loves to love or wanna love in silence, but her wife isn't that type.
Though such isn't healthy, for a new marriage in the society and the world of today. With always flaunting your marriage, husband and personal life. Which I'd she's using it for contents and cashing out, but just the same, it's not healthy for her fresh marriage still.
Sometimes I cringe and flip, whenever I see how she exposes her life and marriage. Not in bitterness, but I despair, cause she's not seeing what she's doing to herself today. But might find it difficult to understand sooner or later.
I just hope prudent Gabriel will love her wonderful husband silently, as marriage was supposed to be sacred. Not a tool for content creating and making money online like her friend.
You can reason me differently, like I said, we're not alike so we can't think alike. I understand things and see it differently so if you wish to think backwards then your mind is êvi| and dirty. Humans just h@tê pure innocent truth and that's why we're where we are now.
You don't show the world in camera how much you love your husband, or your husband loves you. Where it so, many people would've blown up the internet with their couple's love and paparazzi, perhaps seeking for attention?.
If we're gonna tell some home truth, the only thing that lady keeps away from social media. About her husband, life and marriage is when they're making love and that's unhealthy. Doesn't speak good of her marriage, I know she loves paparazzi, and loves to do it to "pepper" hãtêrs as she usually put it.
Just an advise, because what's the beauty of a sacred marriage.
I love her, and only those who truly have good intentions can advise when they see things going wrong. Too much unnecessary drama and exposure for marriage, that's supposed to be conservative and private. But being exposed to the world cause the young generations loves it.
Let's not forget that, those who applaud her might be secretly wishing, her marriage crash. Might be the ones to yinmu her "this girl dey do too much na only she marry"?. But will bite those that are bold to say it out publicly for her own good.
They will be first to raise eyebrows, will still be like "when she always bring everything out to the world and internet, wasn't she aware"?. I don't wish for anything to happen to her marriage, though.
Marriage is supposed to be sacred, and I'm sure they've not, grown to understand the entity of marriage, the hidden secret of it and that it's meant to be sacred. If you bring your life to the public of live it for the public, they will analyze it for you.
The world is êvil and one has to be careful, I hope they'll grown to know the depth of marriage in future. Not everything is for online paparazzi and peppering them gang.
If whatever you do with your love, your husband is shown to the world. I said it before, people said otherwise, I don't expect you to think the way I think.
You didn't married, a social media husband, husband for the public and, puppet for content creating to cash out. But all the same, people do what works for them but, let it be that it's worth it.
Even when he's not, most times comfortable, he gets dragged to the camera. Your husband isn't a puppet, or a tool for content creating. When you have respect for your marriage, yourself and home, every single person will accord you same respect.
I believe prudent, or rather I see her differently, how she cried profusely saying her wedding vows. Got me so emotional and teary, I see the inner joy of the dream a woman has been envisioning.
She's an intelligent woman, she loves her husband for her and to herself and not to showcase what love is. I see she'll do her home better, give her husband all the love and care, not to be applaudable publicly.
Not to show the whole public about her marital life but to show just her husband, and her home that. Marriage is for two wonderful mature loving hearts, with mutual feelings and understanding and not for the world.
Please my beautiful sis, not everything you do in your home, and marriage you bring to public. Everything isn't content to make money. The both ladies married right, but the consequences of acting out of ignorance is big, sometimes.
Prudent Gabriel seems to be far more mature, I said it before, articulated and understanding, compared to veekee James. Notwithstanding she knows what she's doing but, most of all those things ain't worth it.
It's her life, don't get it twisted, I know it's her life, love life, husband and marriage. She's having her life and fun, but there are consequences to some actions acted out of ignorance of "I don't care".
I'm a critical analyst, and one of the things I do, so you don't tell me what to think or say.
I'm not comparing, just saying that prudent Gabriel should and would do better. Don't let the world know about your every business, your every move in your home. Keep it secret sometimes, and from, the look of things she may understand marriage better than her friend.
Sometimes shock them, once in a while, surprise them and people would be like "oh woah". Anytime I see them pooped up once in a while I respect them.
I know people love differently, but when it becomes too much, it's incurably bad and wrong. Sometimes she should do something, to show respect to the husband, not saying she isn't but a lot of her doings as content creating speaks volume.
I realized sometimes she do those things to "pepper" her h@têrs but in reality check, nobody hãtës her. Everyone loves her, but her mindset says so, hence the continuous show of her husband and marriage to the public.
Some things ain't worth it, precautions should be taken most times, especially when it comes to marriage.
Not all the ladies that always awwwwing to her videos truly loves her, bashing those who caution her truly loves her. Many are secretly envious and jêãloüs of her but those that tell her what to do, truly cares.
Wouldn't you say, their both wedding was great and I'll say God bless and keep their homes. I love them both, I'm really happy for them cause they're my sister's.
Nonetheless, it's best to stoop to conquer, it's better not to destroy what we've built with our hands. Not waking up one day, realizing you've been building a castle in the air.
But she has to keep her home, family affairs and love our of social media unlike her friend and sister.
You are free to think otherwise and if you reason with me then we're aligned.
You're free to see it the other side, and call it as your mind deems fits. But remember we can't reason alike and see things the same way
©Mirach Amba
