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Just love, Owerri (2024)

01/03/2024

Dear Young Unmarried Brother.

You are in a Relationship

You're jumping from 12 hours in tongues to 24 hours stretch programs left, right, centre, 3 days will pass, you will not bother to hear from your fiancee, is like you don forget your relationship status.

She'll call you to hear your voice, you'll not pick, you'll now call the next day, that you were on the mountain, you went to see God.

She'll send you message, you won't reply till 24 hours later, you'll later tell her you were doing Bible study on the mountain.

Small time, you'll tell her you're going for 40 days prayer on the mountain, she'll say okay, that she'll miss you oh..

When you return from the 40 days, you'll still not spare one or two hours to give her attention.

Sir,

Is it God that told you that the way to Power is to neglect your relationship or marriage? You didn't read your Bible to know that Peter was married?

If you think Relationship is a distraction, what will you now call Marriage? And Marriage is even more demanding.

You're not ready for marriage laidis, lai lai.

Tomorrow, even after Marriage, that's how you'll neglect and starve her of your time, your presence, your body. She'll be starved emotionally and s*xually.

Your home will be on fire, and you'll be traveling all around mending other people's homes, your wife is crying at home for your attention Sir

You're jumping from one mountain to another mountain, meanwhile your marriage is in the Valley, Well done Sir.

Oga, strike a BALANCE between your spiritual and emotional/marital life.

Please, never marry a woman you won't make happy.

If you know you don't plan to pay attention to the needs of a relationship/marriage, remain single..

PS: This applies to Ladies Too.

01/03/2024

When a guy says he need s*x to keep the relationship, it is call LUST not LOVE.You giving him won't stop him from sleeping with the next person.A man that can't control his p***s around you won't control his p***s around the next skirt he sees

01/03/2024

A h***y woman can lose her virginity,

A h***y man can lose everything.

Fellas, learn to control your s*xual urges. A man who has control of his s*xual urges has solved more than half of his problems!

A man who isn't a slave to his s*xual urges has solved 80% of his problems. He is a firm and dangerous man. He is a focused man.

REMAIN MYSTERIOUS, Let them call you stingy. No s*x is worth throwing away your self respect and your money for. Focus.

A man who can control his s*xual urges cannot be manipulated easily by women. His wealth shall multiply because he don't spend his money to please random women.

BE THAT MAN

SAVE A MAN.

01/03/2024

DEAR MEN.

- It takes PATIENCE to live with a woman..

- It takes PATIENCE to love a woman.

MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. Start building it now.

A woman can make you go late for EVENTS back to back because she will take 3hours to get ready, remember you only need 3minutes.

If you are not PATIENT, you will talk to her in a manner or do something you will regret later.

A woman can Burst into TEARS just because you forgot to tell her I LOVE YOU before you dozed off to sleep.

A woman loves to talk, if you are not PATIENT as a man, you will SNAP one day and tell her woman, you talk TOO MUCH, Don't you ever keep quiet? And those words can damage a WOMAN'S SELF ESTEEM almost irreversibly.

A woman craves ATTENTION and PETTING, this can sometimes get on your nerves as a man and only PATIENCE will help you.

A woman can get angry, and you will use full 45minutes to be APOLOGISING, if you are not PATIENT you can't keep her..

She will say she is not hungry, then after you buy only one BABEQUE, she will be dragging it with you.

You will both have a plate of rice before you, but she will leave her plate of rice and be eating yours.

When she is on her MENSTRUAL PERIOD, you will see DRAMA, PATIENCE..

When she's PREGNANT, MAXIMUM DRAMA, PATIENCE..

You will run ERRANDS in MARRIAGE oo. HONEY SCRATCH MY BACK, HONEY HOLD ME, BABY TELL ME YOU LOVE ME, and you just said it 3minutes ago.

My brothers, truth is RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. I have told you ahead. Carry patience and enter MARRIAGE.

Women are wonderful creatures. Fear WOMEN. This gender that will stand in front of a mirror just to CRY and CHECK if she is CRYING BEAUTIFULLY 😂 😂😂.

Share to educate others 🙏🥰

29/02/2024

Woman
FIX YOUR MAN

If you find yourself feeling disappointed or upset because your soulmate (yr man) didn't go out of his way to plan a grand surprise for you, take a step back and consider the bigger picture.

Instead of getting angry or upset, try talking to him calmly about how you feel and what you would like to see in the future together.

It's also important to remember that material things are not the only way to show love. A handwritten note, a home-cooked meal, or simply spending quality time together can mean just as much, if not more than an expensive gift.

Lover's Day can be a fun and romantic holiday, it's essential to maintain a healthy perspective and not put unnecessary pressure on your man. Remember, true love is about understanding, communication, and mutual respect.

Let your man have peace of mind.
Sister, you see that man you're dating, FIX HIM UP. Buy what you see he's in need of and surprise him . Men also need treatment it's not only You, You and You all the time
🙏
🙏🙏❤️🥰

28/02/2024

Relevant Questions You Should Ask During Courtship that May Be seen As Not Important!

1. Ask your proposed partner if they SNORE while sleeping😴. Don't look at me that way, it's not bad to snore but you've to know if they do, so you can prepare yourself to enjoy and endure their snoring nature forever. Romantic snoring☺😁

2. Ask them if they observe Morning devotion, so you don't end up praying alone or them telling you that they do their devotion in their heart or workplace. Two of you praying together should be the spiritual goal.

3. Ask them if they can sweep, wash, cook, and iron. It might look like they can do it till you ask them and then you will know that they can't or aren't so good at doing it. Then you will have to be doing it ALONE. That's stressing and unprepared of you, you know?

4. Ask them if they prefer sleeping with the light on or off. So if you're the opposite of them, you will start adjusting your body system to that.

5. Ask them how they react when they are angry. Are they sensitive to jokes, etc? Woooh!! Mek person no tell you "Am I your mate?", 'Do you who am I!"🙄 or break plates on top of your head😒. É jo o!

6. Ask them and make deep inquiries too to know if they are married or have been married before or probably have a child out of wedlock. So you don't wake up one day to the biggest shock of your life and stories that keep touching the heart.

7. Ask them how many times they eat surplus and stored food. Except you want to be cooking every day because your partner no gree eat one particular food twice abi thrice.

8. Ask them where they start un******ng after work🌝. Some partners, start from the sitting room. You will find one leg of his sock in the parlour, their bra or tie in the kitchen and their shirt or trouser on the bedroom floor.

9. Ask them if they prefer sleeping on an arranged or scattered bed. Yes, ask oo. Some partners can comfortably sleep on a scattered bed with their dirty clothes on top and they just won't mind

26/02/2024

WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO IS AN ASSET, YOU GET TEXTS SUCH AS THESE👇

1. Morning Dear, hope you had a wonderful night. How are you today? Wake up and get ready for work. Don't forget to send your application for the job I told you about yesterday.
2. Yes Darling, I miss you so much, I hope you are enjoying your day, I am heading out for lunch. Talk later. Take care of yourself. Love you !
3.Yes dear I am at the shop doing grocery for the house, next time I am coming with you.
4. Don't put yourself under pressure my love, I know you will achieve your goal. You have my full support.
5. Don't forget to say your prayers by 9am, 12noon and 3pm. Remember our strength is in God. Call me when you are ready for the prayers so we pray together online.
6. Hello dear, are you back from work. How was your day. .. Hope it was not stressful?
7. Good evening dear, i just wanted to call to find out how your weekend is going.
WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO IS A LIABILITY/ SLAY QUEEN.
1. Morning babe, send me some airtime,
please bae.
2. Hello sweet, I am coming over for some
pizza over lunch? And someone is selling nice perfumes can I take one please. Love you xoxoxo much.
3. Hey handsome, buy me data please. Also wanted to tell you my neighbor is selling skinny jeans, nice shoes from USA and Brazilian hair. You will let me know when you are ready to get me these. Loving you lots.
4. My friends are doing their birthdays this weekend at Garden Court on Friday, Natasha at Mukuba Mall on Saturday and Yvonne on Sunday at the famous East Park Mall. We must attend all. Cancel all your appointments.
5. Baby, I don't feel like talking. Can we chat please....

A reasonable man will marry a lady who is an asset to him and not a liability.
Men are not stupid.
NOTE:
So, if you are wondering why men are dumping you, please check yourself. You might be the reasons for your own misfortune.

25/02/2024

Do not abuse a pure heart because you might not have it again. Understand that good heart gets tired too.

Everybody is trying to find the right person. But nobody is trying to be the right person.

❣️❣️❣️.
Just love

22/02/2024

10 TRAITS IN A WOMAN THAT ATTRACT A MAN

1. GENTLENESS

A woman who doesn't love drama, one who is inviting and peaceful. Men gravitate to where there is peace and calmness for peace of mind.

2. CONFIDENCE

A woman who knows who she is; she acts, talks, and dresses like the Queen that she is. She is not hiding behind him. She is powerful all by herself. Confidence is attractive and s*xy.

3. GOOD COMMUNICATION

A woman who knows how to talk, she is friendly, funny, and speaks with the right tone. She is not rude, insulting, or irrational. She is easy to talk to. Can speak in writing too. It makes him miss her when apart.

4. VALUES

A woman with her stand. She has her set of beliefs and is not easily swayed by friends, trends, social media, moods, or the chase for attention. A woman who understands what she is to a man of value.

5. NURTURING WAYS

A woman who grows people and grows things. She adds value and makes things better. She manages well, handles well, and hatches to multiply after incubation.

6. SELF LOVE

A woman who loves herself. She has a healthy self-esteem. She is not insecure, suspecting every woman who interacts with her man. She is not intimidated by other women, she knows her worth.

7. PURPOSE-DRIVEN

A woman who has her own personal dreams and goals, objectives, aims, and vision. She is hardworking. She has something she loves to do that fires her up. She is busy being her.

8. ENGAGING PERSONALITY

A woman who is not passive, waiting for the man to do everything as she complains when he doesn't. She is a life partner, playing her role. Helping in making decisions, seeking opportunities, and participating. A man loves a woman to walk hand in hand.

9. PATIENCE

A woman who knows she will not get everything she desires immediately. She doesn't put pressure on him. Doesn't gaslight her man. She celebrates growth no matter how small.

10. DEPTH

A woman who can challenge him and inspire him. He listens to her talk and goes "Wow!". A woman who is

22/02/2024

Dear Sister

Telling you to Marry a brother who fears the Lord is not telling you to Marry a Pastor or Minister..

'Fear of the Lord" is not a Title, but a Life..

Especially in Fellowship/Youth church circles, majority of sisters eyes (especially the ones who themselves are in Positions) are often on the Youth Presidents, the Brothers in Positions, the fellowship leader/Pastor.

And the "ordinary" brothers in the congregation?

Wetin do them?

The brothers who do not necessarily have a ministerial calling or any show of the "anointing"?

Some Sisters will even go to certain lengths to get Youth Leader/Youth President/Choir Master to notice them, cooler ministry, plate and clothes washing/laundry ministry, room sweeping and cleaning ministries amongst other ministries.

You'll see sisters fighting amongst themselves for who gets Brother Matthew's attention, who carries Bro Victors bible, who he calls Dear, etc.

Some even end up comprising, giving their bodies voluntarily or on request to get ahead of the competition and seal their position....

Dear Sister (in or not in Leadership Position), don't look down on a brother or turn down his proposal simply because he's not in a leadership position as well, or doesn't have a "calling", or doesn't pray for 24 hours.

Remove your eye from Youth Cordinator and the Titles and Glamor around a brother, and fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith for direction.

"God Fearing" is not the Title or Position a brother occupies but the Life he Lives.

Marry Well

22/02/2024

Thee Naked Truth: If someone truly loves you, their feelings won't change no matter how many people they meet. REAL LOVE can't be stolen.

20/02/2024

DONT GIVE UP THAT DREAM

I know people look at me and think that I have put up these walls around me, and it's true. But I have long stopped wondering if that's even a bad thing. Afterall, they only see what I allow them to see. No one knows how hard it really is to get up in the morning knowing you're about to give up on another dream because things just aren't working out, no one hears the muffled cries through the pillow in the middle of the night when the thoughts drown you.

I can cope up with the world. I'm a fighter, and I know I can put on a straight face in front of my people despite everything falling apart. But it's just comforting to know that when I'm by myself, I can allow sadness to catch up. To feel. It reminds me that the world hasn't numbed me down yet. Somehow, it makes the beautiful things all the more worth looking forward to.🥹❤️

19/02/2024

Relationship is one thing that can mess up your life be careful. Pray & be sensible😎 when falling in love💯💯. Love can turn a bright future into a miserable life🚯. It's painful to know that the person you love😍 is actually in love😍 with someone else

It's even more painful to fall in love😍😍 with a person who has another thing in mind😈. Every relationship is a game of risk😯. No one can say which is really going to work🙄. Some relationship mistakes😥can cause a life time regret.

Search for a good heart💙💜 and not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful💯. Age and pressure is never a reason to date or marry👫👫. If you are single💇 sometimes means God is putting you on reserve for the person you deserve....

Don't allow the rate of marriages this days make you feel left out😪.. Not all marriages are normal.
.some are su***de mission while some marriages are motivated by S*xual urge and money greed. No love in it. Be careful who you date..the heart of a man is only known by his GOD

Forget face, shape, fame, qualification or money. All this things become Irrelevant in just 5years into the marriage.❌😥.
And never you date someone you know deep down you cannot Marry.
May we not choose wrongly in Jesus name 💯🙏

18/02/2024

DONT GIVE UP THAT DREAM

I know people look at me and think that I have put up these walls around me, and it's true. But I have long stopped wondering if that's even a bad thing. Afterall, they only see what I allow them to see. No one knows how hard it really is to get up in the morning knowing you're about to give up on another dream because things just aren't working out, no one hears the muffled cries through the pillow in the middle of the night when the thoughts drown you.

I can cope up with the world. I'm a fighter, and I know I can put on a straight face in front of my people despite everything falling apart. But it's just comforting to know that when I'm by myself, I can allow sadness to catch up. To feel. It reminds me that the world hasn't numbed me down yet. Somehow, it makes the beautiful things all the more worth looking forward to.

18/02/2024

What does a SIDE CHICK do better than a WIFE???

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING a SIDE CHICK does better than a WIFE. Your SIDE CHICK is just better because you haven't put her through what you have put your WIFE through, try it and you might even run away from the country for her.

How can your WIFE be as PERFECT as your SIDE CHICK when you have IMPREGNATED her 5times, sent her to LABOR 5times, ANTENATAL, POST NATAL, BREASTFEEDING for many years, CHILD CARE and UPBRINGING till each baby turns 20.

Also SCHOOL RUNS every MORNING and EVENING, COOKS FOOD for the FAMILY, you will also DISTURB her at NIGHT like a MOSQUITO, she will be in the HOSPITAL for many days looking after you KIDS when they got SICK, HOUSE CHORES and GROCERIES still to be done by her.
Furthermore, you the HUSBAND have caused her many CUTS down on her VA**NA, CUTS as a result of CS, what about SAGGED BREASTS from YOU SUCKING and your CHILDREN SUCKING, STOMACH STRETCH MARKS, PIMPLES and BIG NOSE you caused her during PREGNANCY.

What about VOMITING, LOSS OF APPETITE, some men have totally withdraw their WIVES from SOCIETY because of their African beliefs yet you don't want to VALUE and RESPECT your WIFE, but only what you remember is that she is not ROMANTIC but your SIDE CHICK or SIDE HEN is...

DEAR HUSBANDS, put that your SIDE CHICK or SIDE HEN to this LIFE THREATENING ADVENTURE and see if she can cope. Please learn to appreciate your WIFE, LIFE isn't all about SÈX and ROMANCE, whereas you won't be h***y forever. Remember how she was before you married her and remember that you are the CAUSE of her WOES.

Truth is if you know what your wife is going through, you will go back to her FATHER with a BOTTLE of WINE and add EXTRA MONEY to her BRIDE PRICE. It isn't easy being a WIFE and MOTHER at the same time, is a FULL TIME JOB.

17/02/2024

ADVISE TO MEN
S*XUAL ENHANCEMENT DRUGS DO NOT GIVE EXTRA PLEASURE.

Read again: NO EXTRA PLEASURE.

It ONLY DELAYS EJ*******ON which, in street terms, means "LAST LONGER".

But the longer you last, the more pressure on your heart
Yes: ON YOUR HEART.

Even during normal in*******se, your heartbeat rate increases by between FORTY and FIFTY PER CENT when you reach or**sm and about discharging.

Have you asked why most men sleep off after s*x?

Now, when you take s*xual enhancement drugs, it gets to a stage when you feel you have had enough and all you want is ej*******on.

But it won't come.

To force it, you have to get the heart, ALREADY STRESSED, TO DO EXTRA WORK!! hmmm.

By that time, if your HEART is not strong enough, Baba God will just show mercy on you and call you home.

And after initial shock, we start preparing your burial.

And walahi, if they fry puff-puff, I go chop cos I no go cry.

Let her call you "TWO MINUTES NOODLES".

Don't feel bad.

Let her go and meet her "ONE HOUR BEANS".

If you last THREE HOURS, na only you and your partner know or whoever either of you tells.

It is not OLYMPIC where dem go dey cheer you and you will collect MEDAL after the race.

Above all, when you are above 50-55, don't try to s*xually impress any woman.

EVEN YOUR WIFE!

If you die, another man will take over the 'stadium'!

That is if that 'stadium' is not even being shared with someone else when you are still alive.

A word to a wise....... Don't allow a woman to kîll you for ya mami

17/02/2024

UNDERSTANDING YOUR MAN

Men are something else; sometimes they don't speak, but they want to be heard and understood. They want their women to know that when they don't want to be bothered or disturbed, it doesn't mean they have fallen out of love with her or have found someone else. They just need time to think; in order not to be disturbed or distracted from such a process, they will like to be left alone. Maybe because they are not as multitasked as women are. Talking is not their natural way of solving things; they believe thinking alone is the best way. Sometimes they get trapped in their thinking without results.

Sometimes they need a friend who will listen to them, not for a solution but to know what they have been struggling with, to understand their frustration, and to see the difficulty they are faced with. They do that so you can understand them and also calm them down with your words, touch, comfort, etc.

But the truth is, sometimes men are misunderstood. Instead of his woman listening to his fear, difficulty, struggles, and putting herself in his shoes to understand what is happening to him and calm him down, she rather blows the issue out of proportion. She rather gets into the same mood and tries to make sense out of what he is thinking and link it to something else

When you do that, he doesn't only get lost, but he also distances himself from you and finds it hard to voice out his frustration next time. When you spot your man thinking about something and even asking about it, he prefers to say nothing. And that makes you worry even more.

He opens up to you as a friend, someone who will comfort him. Love for a man is sometimes comfort; it is how you calm us down and drive away his fears. Your comfort to your man, especially in a time of distress, confusion, anger, stress, and frustration, is like sunshine after the rain

In conclusion, "Together with these things, the most important part of your new life is to love each other

17/02/2024

Dear ladies
If you have a good man, hold on to him.
And when I say a good man, I don’t mean a man who is perfect. But a man who tries. He’s hardworking, will go above and beyond to make you happy. Imperfect but is working toward being a better man. He’s not out here to make you look dumb. He’s your best friend and you can run to him with and for everything.
Yes, he’s going to mess up here and there but if he’s trying to be a better man for you, love that man, keep that man, celebrate that man because that man is hard to find. ❤️

16/02/2024

One Day!

One day someone will walk into your life and get it right where everyone else got it wrong. One day you won't have to wait for a call or a text back. One day you won't be the only one giving your all.

One day you'll finally meet someone who wants to help you grow in life. One day you'll finally meet someone who isn't afraid to give "love" another chance. One day you'll finally meet someone you can trust with everything.

One day you'll have your best friend, your biggest supporter and your teammate all wrapped up into one person.

And when it comes, I hope it lasts

16/02/2024

WHY MEN DELAY GETTING MARRIED

1) FEAR (MARRIAGE PHOBIA)

Many bachelors actually fear Marriage

They fear the financial responsibilities that come with Marriage. spending on her, and then when the kids come, extra demands on him. Local man cannot can.

They fear the emotional responsibilities, tell her you love her everyday, take her out on dates, kiss her daily, be responsible and accountable to her, forgive her, it's all too much for them to handle

While some Men fear Marriage because of the things they've heard or seen, maybe their father or a close friend of theirs had a bitter marriage experience

2) THEY DON'T WANT TO LOSE THEIR FREEDOM

They know they may not be able to hang out with the guys on Friday night as before.

They will be expected not to go anywhere without her knowledge,

They know they won't be be able live carefreely as they were doing before as bachelors and they still value that freedom above all.

3) NO NONEY

Among this category are two types.

✔ The ones who have nothing at all to use in doing wedding, and then running a home after

Even her bride price they can't afford with their current account balance, so they're still single or engaged, they are currently working hard and saving money toward their marriage, with plans to quit bachelorhood soon.

✔ The ones who have money, have a good job with a good salary, even accommodation, but they want to be millionaires first, buy car, buy land and build house before they now settle down. (of course this is stupidity.)

4) THEY ARE NOT READY TO QUIT MESSING AROUND (PLAY BOYS)

They are still busy sampling ladies, playing around wiyu Ada, Juliet, Zara, Shade and 20 other ladies.

They don't want Marriage to slow down or hamper their philandering.

5) STILL SEARCHING

This one's haven't seen the one yet.
Among them are;

👉 THOSE who honestly haven't found the bone of their bones and are still searching,
These ones are praying and waiting to hear God.

Amongst those who are praying, ther

16/02/2024

"Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other." Romans 12:10

14/02/2024

And this is your portion this valentine for those looking forward for a child

13/02/2024

For every single lady out there

I pray for You

May you find a Mother-in-Law that will love and treat you as a Daughter.

May you marry into a loving Family.

12/02/2024

THE REALITY OF S*X STRICTLY FOR LADIES.

When a guy calls you every now and then, know that it is because he has not yet gotten too familiar with you via s*x. If you want to keep that coming, then sit up tighter with your legs closed.

If you let him in, he will go crazy for you after few days, then he will be so eager to have you again. He calls you all kinds of beautiful names, once he's done with you, hell start missing you after a week time, then he'll seek to have you again.

At this moment, s*x is sweet and the two of you feels its love, then you guys will make it more regular until gradually his calls reduces from 100% to 20%. You will start calling, but he'll make excuses. He calls now only when he wants you to come to the house.

Gradually, he's tired of you. Then he will start avoiding you. Another cool girl is driving him crazy now. He'll call and apologize only for you to visit and he takes his turn and you go home feeling used...

This is the reality of s*x. S*x is not a love oath, s*x is for the married. Don't let someone use you to make up the number. I have often heard guys boast to their friends thus "guy, number 65 has fallen".

This is why they assume that every girl is cheap. They argue the existence of chaste ladies because almost everyone they have told that they love usually let them sleep with her.