10/04/2024
HOW YOU LOOK IS VERY IMPORTANT!
One 30 something years old lady told me recently she only got "toasts" from married men. When young people greet her, they used to ask about her children, as in: " How are your children?" Yet, she was very single and even a virgin!
This is not the handiwork of witches and wizards! It is the handiwork of poor packaging!
After reading some of my posts on working on your looks to attract the kind of man you want, she borrowed herself some sense, did some repackaging and to her surprise, young dudes began to notice and chase her!
May God help us in Africa!
We are quick to ascribe any unfavourable situation to the devil and fold our arms doing nothing! Nothing till we age and grow plenty of grey hair!
Some guys have lamented how they love a lady for her good character and brain but she wasn't looking attractive! I perfectly understand! I was once like that!
Due to poverty, I didn't look physically attractive to guys. I wore worn out bra that flattened my chest and my hair would go undone for weeks!
I had male friends who liked me but were secretly worried about the looks. Only one had the audacity to tell me I didn't look physically attractive to him and I thank God he did or I would have married the wrong person for my destiny!
When Adewunmi came, he liked and loved me. He confessed later he used to wonder why my chest was flat but he brushed it aside since I was the will of God for him. After marriage, he discovered I wasn't flat at all, I had an excellent pair. Poor packaging made a bad presentation of the gold mine I had under!
One of the deepest needs of every man is an attractive wife. It is not carnality! It is scriptural. God made it so. Eve was so beautifully carved with all the curves in the right places, Adam exclaimed the moment he saw her! Abraham acknowledged the beauty of Sarah, Jacob knew Rachael was beautiful in every way. Isaac was always fondling his wife Rebekah! Get some spiritual sense and stop behaving like a bush woman this 2024!
Every man wants good breasts in marriage so package whatever you have in a firm bra. Lift your breasts and let them sit comfortably in the cups, you hear? They won't teach you these things on the pulpit and many are suffering in silence!
If you rough handle your breasts while single, they will easily flop! Wearing old, worn out, under sized or oversized bras can easily damage the good reputation of your breasts!
Pray for God's will. The one God ordained for you will accept you the way you are but don't remain the way you are!
Work on your hair, face, breasts, body shape and wear clothes that fit your body type.
I am not a fashionista! The good Lord knows I still have plenty of work to do on myself but when hubby sees me and smile, touch, cuddles, kiss and make love, then I know my man is very physically attracted to me.
Biko! S*x is for the married, don't do something silly in a bid to get a man to marry you.
Be godly, cover your body where necessary, spray some perfume, package your body well and let the right man find you.
I hope the post is clear?
Thank you.
© Seun Oladele.