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Kiara Debbie tutoring, Federal polytechnic nekede, Nekede (2024)

16/05/2024

Fall back and let them lean on the person they think so highly of 💯

16/05/2024

FACTS ABOUT INTROVERT PEOPLE

1. They can talk and chat openly even cråck jokes with you on social media but in real life they are ice😩

2. They fit pass you for road and no go do like sey dem see you. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding🤦‍♀️

3. Very calculative, clíngy, little touch of hôt tēmper, rōmäñtic with the one they love. They hārdly fåll in love but once they fāll, it's over because they don't joke with that person😘

4. They hārdly chêāt 💯. Before you see them, dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people and always like staying alone👌🏽.

5. They hārdly talk in the midst of people but talkatíve when they are with their love ones.
People usually see them as too proūd people but they are not.

6. They can ëndūre a lot but don't pūsh them or take them for granted because once they decide, you have løst them kpatakpata✌🏽.

7. They are too emotīonal😥. They don't easily førget bãd things someone did to them🌝.

8. They hārdly share their prøblems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through 😒

9. You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them🤗
They are unprediçtable and stúbbørn 😎

If you're on this table, g*ther here.😁

✍️✍️✍️

23/04/2024

Don't always look at good face ,good mind is all that matters ✅

23/04/2024

You will hear good news 👍🥳

23/04/2024

Singles Remember:👇

ACT gives birth to ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE gives birth to HABIT
HABIT gives birth to CHARACTER
CHARACTER gives birth to LIFESTYLE
LIFESTYLE neutralize the BLOOD . That's why at times when a child acts somehow they say the child acts like his/her parents because of blood relation.

Lesson: Your lifestyle determine the nature of your future children. Blood is sticker than water. Blood is a projector that springs out ones lifestyle through his/her child. Therefore, examine yourself as a single person. If your future children behaves like you, are you safe? Is your entire family safe?. Amendment is now and not tomorrow. Guide and guard yourself through decisive implementive discipline. Surely, your future children will be proud of by the good lifestyle legacy and foundation you lay for them to walk upon.

God bless you 🤷

Dan cares 🌹💓

23/04/2024

A loving Marriage is built intentionally!
No part of a sweet marriage happens without your conscious input!
Go out of your way to make your marriage sweet!

The wooing shouldn't stop!
The Public Displays of Affection shouldn't stop!

Kiss her on the forehead publicly!
Send him a Romantic sms/ or whatsapp message.

Buy her flowers!
Buy him a wristwatch!

Hold his hand!
Hold her Shoulder!

Tell her she is the best thing that ever happened to you!
Tell him that you are privileged to be married to a Great Man like him!

Come back from work early to take her out for dinner!
Send the kids to Grandma's so you can have time to seduce him and make him feel young again!

Rub her legs and that waist she used to carry your kids!
Give him a full body massage and don't forget to scratch his back!

Serve him his food like a king that he is. Kneeling down shouldn't stop at the traditional wedding!
Get her breakfast in bed!

Hold her and look into her eyes lovingly without saying anything. May her shy again!
Within the confines of your home, dress up for him with those cute revealing things to remind him that you still g*t it (For his eyes only).

Tea doesn't get sweet on its own, you have to add more beverages!

Food doesn't get sweet on its own, you have to add the right ingredients!

Marriage doesn't get sweet on its own, you have to intentionally go out of your way to make your spouse the major object of your affection!

You are not too old to do this! Enjoy love now that there is still time! Don't wait till funeral to write a soul-rending tribute!

💓💓🌹🌹💝💝
Kiara Debbie tutoring

23/04/2024

A husband should have the ability to...

1. LISTEN

He should be concerned about her thoughts and stories. A woman wants a husband she can open up to. An emotional companion

2. KEEP QUIET

He should know when to hold back his tongue to prevent things from escalating especially when she is moody

3. COMMUNICATE

He should learn the art of communication; face to face and over the phone. Learn to check up on her, to engage, to chat her up and keep loneliness away

4. GIVE DIRECTION

He should learn to give direction. Where are they going as a couple and family? He should offer confidence, vision and leadership

5. STAY FAITHFUL

He should show commitment to the vision of their love through faithfulness. Leading from the front publicly and privately. Keeping off other women

6. PURSUE

He should date his wife no matter how long they have been together. Make her feel special, compliment her, flirt with her, pursue her, romance her, excite her heart, treat her like a Queen

7. BOOST SELF ESTEEM

He should make her believe in herself more, drowning her doubts, allaying her fears, reminding her who she is when she forgets, lifting up her spirits when she feels low, making her feel s*xy and beautiful when she does not feel all that

8. PRAY

He should cover his wife and children in prayer, a prayer warrior in the spiritual realm, committing his family to his maker, putting on the full armour and going to war, accessing the spiritual blessings meant for his family

9. COMFORT

He should be a shoulder to lean on when she cries, the person she runs to when this world overwhelms her. Her cover

10. S*XUALLY AROUSE

He should make her feel desired and wanted. Turn her on like crazy. Open her tap of wetness. Know which buttons to push to give her sweet highs

11. PROVIDE

Whether she earns more than him or not, he should play his part in meeting the needs of the family and seek ways to get more provisions and investments
Kiara Debbie tutoring

29/01/2024

To Women, 🫂💕

You will never convince a man to love you.

Find a man who answers when you call and texts back within minutes rather than days.

Find a man that gives you clear cut answers and doesn’t leave you wondering where you stand.

Find a man that wants to make you a part of his life rather than a chapter in his book.

Find a man who doesn’t take years and years to figure out what he wants from you.

Find a man who respects, celebrates and encourages your individuality, your education, your spirituality, and your growth.

Remember It is never asking too much from a man to be considered a priority.

Find a man who is genuinely interested in you and pursues you on a daily basis.

Find a man who asks you to go to church with him.

Find a man that never let's you go to sleep at night wondering if you still matter.

Watch how a man treats his mother. You can learn alot from how someone treats the person that brought them into this world.

Never chase a man because of his looks because one day those looks will eventually fade and what your left with is what's inside so don't be consumed by his physical traits.

Find a man who protects you and stands up for you even when you're not around.

Find a man who values you and who would never put themselves in a position to lose you.

Find a man who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love you.

Find a man that understands it's not about giving you the world but making you feel like you're the only one in it.

Take my advice and remember your time is precious. Don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too

12/01/2024

DON'T TELL ANYONE.

In A Relationship, Whether Married or still in Courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.

1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against you/them.

2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from the outside while you settle issues from the inside.

3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's giving more than you expected.

4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.

5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous mother-in-law.

6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most.

7. Even if your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as a sermon. Just talk to God alone.

8. Don't tell the children that their father/mother is a bad person. It can make them hate them.

9. Don't tell anybody about your partner's past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.

10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love. Prevention is better than cure....✍️

12/01/2024

AFTER S*X WHAT NEXT.

It's possible for any man to ask for s*x in a relationship, but is left for you as a lady to know that s*x, can't keep him..(S*x isn't enough)

There are two major factors ladies complain about s*x in a relationship:
(1) After giving him my body he left me..
(2)He left because I refused to have s*x with him..

NOTE: Both those who gave and those who refused to give are complaining...
( Whats the difference)

Ladies Listen, S*x isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man.
If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside S*x, Please remain Single...

A man can't stay with you because his having s*x with you....

Relationship is not buying and selling.
There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple n juice style, step pillows style, etc ...

Are you sound intellectually? Spiritually? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally?

Men love intelligent ladies...
Men love ladies with ideas..
Men love respectful ladies...
Men respect ladies that know what domestic work is
Men love and appreciate a woman who is good and excellent in multi-tasking
Men respect and honor ladies that wakes up very early in the morning to make sure that the kitchen is set.
Men respect ladies that keep their eyes at home than those that their eyes are always outside
Men love bravo ladies

S*x is very cheap these days, anybody can buy it.

You need to build yourself beyond s*x.
Leave make-ups and be a productive lady.
Men are looking for ladies with ideas and solution not those who paint their faces with different colours.

*What a man wants is beauty with brain not make ups with b***s or hips. Because all these will fail but what you have upstairs will remain.

Your husband complains because you think that you know it but you don't know it. Just do what your own husband wants and not what men want. Hope it help our generations

11/01/2024

LADIES, HERE ARE THE FACTS YOU HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT MEN.

1. Every male( including a little boy) has the instinct of detecting disrespect and dishonour from your words and actions towards them .

2. Men feed on honour and respect. They value it over food. Do all you like to a man but don't touch his respect and honour.

3. Men hate it when they're talking to you and you are talking back at him. He hates it when he is talking and you are walking away.

4. Men hate to be challenged by their wife. Challenging him is stirring up the beast in him. That is unprofitable for you, woman

5. Men can do anything for their peace of mind, even it makes them look like a coward. When a man looses his peace at home, his life is about to relocate to another place to seek it with anyone who can give it him.

6. When a man is complaining about a particular thing, he has reached his breaking points of endurance. Do your best to pay attention to that thing and find a way to help him.

7. When a man is talking to you, he needs you to be silent and pay attention to him by focusing on him. Your calmness can make him reduce the tone of his voice if he was shouting at you.

8. The silence of a woman scares a man naturally, he can do anything just to make sure he finds out what went wrong.

9. A man is never never too busy for the woman he loves.
10. What a man wants from his woman after every day activities is peace of mind. Keep the issues away from him till he has been refreshed with food and warm/cool bath.

11. Whenever a man gets a gift for his woman, it means he has thought about her deeply before doing so.

12. A man is not always far from his investment. He either carries it in his mind or he go with it anywhere he goes.

13. Men love s*x . Women love lo******ng.

14. Men shade the most honest tears after children since they rarely show emotions.

10/01/2024

WORDS OF ADVICE FOR LADIES!!!💓

•No man ever wants a 'crazy' wife! It is only guys who want a 'crazy' girlfriend, so don't be deceived. A guy who wants you to party hard every weekend, expose your bosom, wear skimpy clothes, flashy.makeups and getting down with 11 bottles of beer while he is on 15, he will NEVER marry you!

•A guy who talks dirty and wants s*x everywhere with you when he is not yet married to u will see u as a bed machine when the time for marriage eventually
comes...

•Have u ever wondered why some men go for the 'timid' and 'local' looking girls when it comes to marriage but dump the s*xy, sassy and gorgeous looking ones?

A man wants more than beauty for marriage!Those b***s you are flaunting everywhere will eventually sag someday so invest on yourself!

•A man really wants a place he can call home, he wants a woman who is modest and can take care of his children.

One with whom the children can confide in, the one he can take major decisions with and tell all his fears. He wants a wife, mother and sister all in one.

•I'm not saying that looking good is bad. In fact looking good is good business, but you have got to look beyond that and pay more attention to spiritual things that keep a home.

Are you a Christian, is not about going to church, are you a God fearing woman?

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that fears the Lord, she shall be praised (proverbs 31: 30).

Do you put God first in everything you do?

If you truly want to attract a decent man, nd a God fearing man please be decent, fear God. And do not let any man use u to pass time!

•At the same time don't settle for a man who is not God fearing,

No matter how much money he has spent on u, no matter how much he has...

Don't even dream of being engaged to him if he's not closer to God.

It's for your own good because divorce, hypertension and stroke has
been the outcome of many women who refused to take to this advice..

10/01/2024

Dear men, pity your future children by stop using ladies and dumping them. Failure to stop it, you may transfer it to your future son, and someone might use and dump your future daughters but only if your children are not cultured morally. Think well before knacking any lady or dumping her. Remember, Karma is always active when it matures, also remember that women are deities or goddess. Spirit behind women backfires. You impregnate a lady and encourage her to abort it, you treat ladies as lags just because you think you have money. It's matter of time to receive the rewards when it ripes. If you're guilty of this post, instead of attacking the poster, try to amend yourself and develop self discipline. You can even free yourself by apologizing to those ladies you have carelessly used and dumped. Thanks to those who'll understand and abide.

07/01/2024

HOW TO APOLOGIZE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

1. ADMIT YOU ARE WRONG
Many grown-ups are not humble enough to admit to their fault. Will you mess up your love just because of your pride?

2. EXPLAIN WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID
Give the background sequence of events that led to you being on the wrong. A blank apology doesn't address the issue

3. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER HOW HE/SHE FEELS
Allow your partner to vent, cry, shout, and tell you how much your actions/words pain him/her. Emotions and hurt shouldn't be hidden if true reconciliation and healing are to occur. This also shows you care for your partner's feelings

4. SAY SORRY
Let your partner hear you say those words, 'I am sorry, please forgive me'

5. COMMIT TO NOT DOING IT AGAIN
Say you won't repeat the mistake and mean it. An apology is empty if it's not sincere

6. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER IF YOU ARE FORGIVEN
Get to hear your partner tell you 'I forgive you'. It has to be official
7. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR FORGIVING YOU
Appreciate the goodness of your partner's heart to forgive you. It takes love to overlook your wrong, don't take that for granted
8. AGREE ON A PLAN TO KEEP THE WRONG FROM BEING REPEATED
This is why it is important to know the history that led to you doing or saying wrong; you two get to agree on what to do to prevent it from happening again
9. SEAL IT WITH A KISS
Kiss as soon you are given an official forgiveness. Now that your partner has forgiven you, your lips will be well-received
10. MAKE LOVE
Your spouse's heart feels safe because you care, you feel pardoned; make passionate love to bring you two even closer. Make-up s*x
11. DO SOMETHING SWEET
Go out of your way to make your partner smile: leave a love note under the pillow, buy her flowers or a gift, cook his favourite meal, take a photo of the both of you happy and frame it, cater to each other
12. TAKE YOUR PARTNER OUT ON A DATE
Go out on a romantic and memorable date. Look into each other's eyes, melt each other'

07/01/2024

There is power in the word THANK YOU
U said thank you when you had little
May Jesus Christ rewards u big thing in your life amen.

07/01/2024

S*X IS SWEET

Most downfalls of men are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.

S*x is a spiritual encounter I stand to be corrected, not every girl has
a good spirit, some are demon, some has poison in between their
legs, some are killers and destiny destroyers, please be careful.

Any man who can control his s*xual urge is wise and will live long.

(1). Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. It only makes
you a womanizer, a cheat and a boy.

(2). A real man have only one woman in his life.

(3). For the fact that you are good in bed does not make you a man. A real man is the man who does not run away from his responsibility but faces it squarely.

(4). You don't need to sag your trousers and walk round the street before girls will love you. Infact it is only small boys that sag trousers and it is premature little girls that fall in love with boys that sag trousers.

(5). Don't use and dump ladies. Remember the law of karma. Whatever
you do, you will receive the reward.

(6). If you cannot make her your wife, don't make her a mother. If she
can't be your wife don't sleep with her.

(7). Do not obey your er****on at all times. Most times our er****ons
mislead us to the wrong direction. Control your er****on. Don't let
your er****on control you.

(8). It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to
eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you
uncomfortable. Control your
s*x urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

(9). Do not date a lady because she has s*xy curves, b***s and shapes. Those things are just packaging; and packaging can be very deceptive avoid such.

(10). Respect any lady that loves you. Yes, its not easy for a lady to
throw her love on you and support your future.

I hope am communicating?....

I come in peace

03/01/2024

HOW TO BE A WISE WOMAN

1. A wise woman has secrets:
You can't be too naked with your love, social or spiritual life and expect dignity. Not everyone should know what you are going through. Be a self-contained lady.

2. A wise woman has surprises:
There is beauty in a surprise. Don't run around announcing things that are not yet..... It only destroys their beauty. And when they fail you will suffer unnecessary shame. Be a self-controlled lady.

3. A wise woman is unpredictable :
People should know there is both yes and no in your mouth. Your moves and words shouldn't be too obvious. Be a deep lady.

4. A wise woman has meaningful connections :
You can't be a friend to everyone and have focus. You can't be the organiser in every social activity and be a productive woman. Love all but a close friend of a few!

5. A wise woman does less of a girl talk :
You can't have too much talk and work at the same time. Cheap talks only lead to empty gossips! A gossiping woman is a shallow woman.

6. A wise woman has time for herself :
You can't understand yourself better until you create time for yourself.
Create time to see your weaknesses and work on them. Have time for self correction lady.

7. A wise woman interacts with the creator:
You cannot have the highest level of wisdom until you interact with its source. Rare breeds of women are found here...
🙏
Class dismissed 🥂

31/12/2023

Happy new year in advance 🎉@

31/12/2023

365/365 days is a wrap

28/12/2023

Igbo ladies are actually the best 😁😁
Just that some of them are always on Colos

28/12/2023

It’s better to have a degree and not need it than to need it and not have it.

~Dr. Jamie Pajoel

28/12/2023

See you all in 2024🤞✅

28/12/2023

If not for grace......where would we have been

28/12/2023

God is good 🙏

28/12/2023

Compliment of the season 💙

23/12/2023

TO THE LADIES:
Few things you should never do just to keep a man
1.Never lie to keep a relationship because when the truth comes out it will make a fool of you
2.Never pretend to keep a relationship because when your real character comes out it will put you to shame
3. Never use money to keep a relationship because when the money stops coming it will put pain in your heart.
4. Never use pregnancy to keep a relationship because it will put you in single motherhood
5. Never use s*x to keep a relationship because when he is tired of you He will call you cheap...